Going my own way

[LoneSurvivorParticipant 4]

New to forum….looking for reasonable input

So ofc a female brought me here…once upon a time ago she tried friend zoning me but I didn’t go along w it…telling her I wasn’t her friend and continuing being playful, charming and dirty w/her. She seemed interested at times and even agreed to see me at work but lately has cooled. After being strung along and rejected a few times with bs excuses over the course of a handful of months I grew tired of “playing it cool” with indifference and tired of her s~~~ and how it was going nowhere. I never showed her any displays of unsatifsction but I’ve recently unfriended her on all social media and blocked her with no warning.

After blocking her on twitter I can still read her tweets and she got p~~~ed off so it obviously affected her…even as much as she wondered if she should “delete her twitter and go back to writing in her journal”…

Sometimes I feel I owe her an explanation but I figure if she really cared she can text me since I figure she still has my number (although we communicated primarily over Snapchat).

Perhaps keeping her as a “friend” on social media and never paying her any more attention would’ve been the superior action (never burn a bridge) but I felt keeping her on made me look weaker when I wanted more and it was starting to drive me nuts.

Ok gents, thoughts? Did I do the right thing?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 42]

“Bridges” are sometimes a gangway for plunderers and thieves to board your vessel, burn it and be done with the scallywags!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

LoneSurvivor wrote:

Sometimes I feel I owe her

This one of the many guilt traps women, society and ourselves trap us with. If you borrowed money then yes you owe it back. You don’t owe anybody your emotions. You don’t owe anyone a feel-good or happiness or your attention (unless they are presenting a class etc.). These things are something a person must get for themselves.. You can opt to give these out of respect but you don’t owe. This is something I see a lot in the generation gap. Young people are taught to give these things sight unseen. I was raised to earn them and withhold them except to those who earned it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

My Bad – WELCOME LoneSurvivor

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome.
forget that girl.
dime a dozen.

[Anonymous 43]

stay away, the f~~~wit is strong with this woman.

life is too short for this kind of nonsense.

So you are new…what do you do in real life, what have you seen, what do you know…ya know, contribute.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

LoneSurvivor wrote:

Ok gents, thoughts?

Friendzone them first. As soon as you can.
“You seem like you would make a really good friend.”

To a woman, that word sticks out a turd in a punchbowl. They like to use it when trying to “reject” guys, so if you call a woman a “friend”, she perceives it as a rejection instead of what you actually said. That’s what “friend” means. Use it to your advantage.

You can even dial it up and ask her if she has any attractive girlfriends, and if she can introduce you to them. That will really blow her skirt up.

Pursuing and showing any romantic/sexual interest and waiting for her to bite while you “play it cool” is only going to lead to frustration. Friendzone them ALL right away, and women who are interested will definitely let you know. Thats’ their job. To get YOUR attention and interest. Ignore the rest.

Going your own way is being too busy to bother with them. When you really are, they will pursue you, and your next problem will be trying to get rid of them.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

My advice?

You don’t owe her, or any woman, s~~~. The only person you owe anything is yourself.

Don’t explain, don’t complain. Whether you’re explaining or complaining, you’re asking others to validate your decisions and actions.

Get off social media. It’s nothing but a participation trophy continually stroking the shallow egos of women and other weak minded simpletons.

Go your own way. If a woman wants to walk with you for a while, that’s her choice. However, whether she spends time with you or not isn’t of any real importance to you. You’re on your own journey.

You’re just beginning your MGTOW journey. You need to remember that the journey is the goal.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Like others have said burn that bridge and keep burning any bridges that have toxic waste on them. If your friends are toxic get rid of them. If your family is toxic same thing the only person you need to worry about is yourself. Do what you think is right for you trust your brain not your penis or your heart and you will do well in life. Do not cohabitate with any female and only give one chance per person per lifetime if they screw up burn the bridge and move on.

[LoneSurvivorParticipant 4]

Thanks for replied guys, this really helps. I appreciate your input

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