Going MGTOW FULL-TIME!

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Hey guys, it’s been a minute since I’ve posted anything and I’d like to give you an update.

You can read my intro target="_blank" href=”/forums/topic/boring-forgettable-headline-here/” title=”Boring, forgettable headline here”>(don’t eat first) and get some back story.

So, my gf of nearly 3.5 years took it upon herself to move into my apartment about a year ago. She had been quite easy to get along with until then. I am a man who needs space and time alone and lots of it. I’m an introvert in the strictest sense lol. So, I’m slowly going mad having no time to myself, I come home from one job, she’s there. I come home from my second job, she’s there. Both her days off are the same as mine…f~~~ing shoot me, please!

Well, it all came to a head this past weekend and I sent her packing. I’m going my own way from here on out. Women no longer get a damn thing from me. Not my time, especially not my money and prob not even my dick(let’s not be rash). She is still giving me s~~~, but I’m hoping it won’t last long.

I will, however still have to deal with them at my bouncing gig, opening doors, listening to how “that guy is creeping me out by talking to me” and generally being a good customer service employee. Gonna be interesting to see how I walk that line…good thing the owner is my best friend!

[SupremeGentlemanParticipant 19]

Wow!

New here! When I read this, I am humbled!!! I really thought I am the only one, thinking like that! I just feel you Sir!

 

I am also introverted and desire not to talk to much, to people I dont respect or know. Only with my tightest friends! But even then, I need my time alone! Like a king, in my lovely apartment, my laptop, TV, good food or music! Or making business!!! Hell mate!

It was a mistake I guess letting your GF inside! I hope all turns out good for you!

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Glad you found us, SG!

We’ve all made our mistakes and we’ve all got scars we can talk about. I’m trying to use it to mine and others’ advantage.

 

Introvert MGTOWs like us get some extra flack because we already don’t “fit in” with societal norms and MGTOW is just adding fuel to the attacks. But, being as we have little need for people, I say “who gives a f~~~?!”

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

I’m an introvert myself, other humans are draining. Mundane chit chat, is boring, social pleasantries tedious. I like people at a distance, and I like my solitude.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[megatoad69Participant 449]

I completely understand alone time, at least I had the basement when we were both home.

I couldn’t imagine an apartment!

But still, alone time was frequently interrupted by a knock on the floor because she wanted me for some trivial reason, I was starting to feel like a butler.

Ohhh! The feeling of liberation that I am here all by myself!

I will do whatever the f~~~ I want, when I f~~~ing want to do it, and nobody to f~~~ing answer too!

Pinch me, I must be dreaming, the feeling of freedom I haven’t fully grasped yet, it’s an old feeling I once took for granted pre-relationship.

I’ve got to lick it up!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[SupremeGentlemanParticipant 19]

For me, it is an entire new feeling! Like BrainPool said to me, I “maybe was MGTOW before it was invented”!

I never respected my buddys when they saw hard-bodys and they said to me horny:” Hey look!!!! She is hot! WTF!! Look at her rack! Woooooohhhh! Look at her!”

Why should I give her the attraction! I am the FKN’ Samurai here! I am the rockstar! She might come to me and start flirting!  I surely won’t look at her! She can kiss my a$$!

Also, when we wanted planning to go to a club or having a nice evening outside: “Yeah, cool! And let’s get some puss or flirt with girls! I need to f*** tonight!” I say:” NO! I am here to celebrate the night with you , Buddy! Means, lets get some beer and have some fun! Dance to 90s music and just enjoy our life! I dont wanna game and focus on women! If you dont accept that, you are free to party with another one! When I go out I want to have fun! I want to laugh! If I can get pussy, fine! Bu7t I won’t force it! I just love myself too much, to obey to any woman!”

Thats just me!

Awesome board! And awesome gentlemen here!!!

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

It’s interesting to see you guys writing about the need for your own space. That need is real, and it is not because there is anything wrong with you. Consider this:

I’m in the medical field, and I specialize in treating heart disease, so most of my patients are 60s, 70s, 80s year olds. Many of them are from the generations that married and never divorced. When those people get medical care, they almost always bring their spouse with them. I commonly see patients with their spouses who have been married 40, 50, 60 years. A couple of years ago, I started to do a sort of survey.

When I see people who appear to have been married for a very long time, I ask them how long they’ve been married. When they answer with 30 years or more, my next question is, “So, what’s the secret to staying married for a long time?” and then just let them speak. I ask both men and women.

As you would guess, I get a lot of different answers. The answers from women are all over the place and no single answer stands out more than any other. But asking the question of men who’ve been married for more than 30 years, the same answer comes up over and over again…more than 50% of the time.

What they say is, “Get out of the house… get a fishing boat, get a hunting lease, get a garden, restore old cars in the garage…”. Basically, what they are saying is to carve out a place, and an activity of your own where you go without her.

Now obviously, having been married for decades, these guys are the furthest thing from mgtows in the world. But that is exactly my point. Married for life, or mgtow for life, that need for your own isolated space is necessary for men regardless of our choices. It seems like women of prior generations may have understood and respected this better than younger women today.

These days, they don’t feel ‘equal’ or ’empowered’ unless they’ve successfully invaded or destroyed every male only space they can find. We constantly have to eject them off this men only website clearly marked as such on the opening page!

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BrainPilot wrote:

What they say is, “Get out of the house… get a fishing boat, get a hunting lease, get a garden, restore old cars in the garage…”. Basically, what they are saying is to carve out a place, and an activity of your own where you go without her.

My grandfather said basically the same thing: Separate vacations.  LONG separate vacations.

Now obviously, having been married for decades, these guys are the furthest thing from mgtows in the world.

I’m not so sure about that.  For all that they grew up in a generation that expected marriage as the only acceptable social norm, it seems to me that they are going their own way as far as their circumstances will let them.  I mean they’re not MGTOW, if only because they keep having to go back to wifey, but the sheds, garages, hobbies, separate vacations etc. show at least a MGTOW inclination.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Hey Introvert bro. I’m an introvert as well. People don’t get it. They think you either have mental problems or that you are a cereal killer. I remember my mom telling me a story. I was in kindergarten and I was playing by myself while the other kids were playing together. She thought the teacher separated me from the other kids because I was black. I then thought maybe it’s because I wanted to be alone. I’ve been someone always with not a group of friends but I have maybe 3 close friends and the rest are not so close. I met them through those close friends. Anyways as mentioned people don’t get it.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey kbroiler, I second that, I’m somewhat introverted too. I always saw my life from my point of view. I never cared for what others thought about me, I did my own thing, on my own terms, I disrespect control freaks, they’re misguided and destructive to freedom, like shepherds leading a flock to slaughter. Why give any explanation or reason, for doing the right thing? GYOW to avoid societies slaughter house, where men are turned into feed……..

kb, I had no idea you were black, your posts are in black and white, no shades of grey between! MGTOW are not about color, race, or hatred, we’re black and white writing on paper, about all the injustice we share, and absolutely agree…

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I am glad to hear that you got the bitch out.

Cohabitation is risky business as if one is living there for longer than a certain period, usually 30 days, she can get lawyers involved to prevent her being kicked out.  One is then left with no other option than to formally evict the non-paying tenant, and that can take forever.

Alternately, they can cry rape or feign “domestic violence” and get the man kicked out of his own house or apartment, lease agreement notwithstanding.  I recall that it is a result of the “Violence Against Women Act”.

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

Cohabitation is risky business as if one is living there for longer than a certain period, usually 30 days, she can get lawyers involved to prevent her being kicked out. One is then left with no other option than to formally evict the non-paying tenant, and that can take forever.

fortunately, she is not on the lease, she has a place to go now(she says) and her own transportation to get there. She still hasn’t coughed up the keys or gotten all of her s~~~(I work a lot), but that will be soon.

if it gets too difficult, the leasing agent LOVES me and she will gladly help.

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

And to Kbb and MG-Tower: I’m so tired of being told I’m racist(and a rapist). I could find 30 things to dislike a person before I ever get to ANYTHING racially based.

And whether or not I like you is completely beside the point, I will STILL treat you with the respect you deserve as a HUMAN F~~~IN’ BEING.

there are just too many trifles in this world.

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