You can read my intro target="_blank" href=”http://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/boring-forgettable-headline-here/” title=”Boring, forgettable headline here”>(don’t eat first) and get some back story.

So, my gf of nearly 3.5 years took it upon herself to move into my apartment about a year ago. She had been quite easy to get along with until then. I am a man who needs space and time alone and lots of it. I’m an introvert in the strictest sense lol. So, I’m slowly going mad having no time to myself, I come home from one job, she’s there. I come home from my second job, she’s there. Both her days off are the same as mine…f~~~ing shoot me, please!

Well, it all came to a head this past weekend and I sent her packing. I’m going my own way from here on out. Women no longer get a damn thing from me. Not my time, especially not my money and prob not even my dick(let’s not be rash). She is still giving me s~~~, but I’m hoping it won’t last long.

I will, however still have to deal with them at my bouncing gig, opening doors, listening to how “that guy is creeping me out by talking to me” and generally being a good customer service employee. Gonna be interesting to see how I walk that line…good thing the owner is my best friend!

New here! When I read this, I am humbled!!! I really thought I am the only one, thinking like that! I just feel you Sir!

I am also introverted and desire not to talk to much, to people I dont respect or know. Only with my tightest friends! But even then, I need my time alone! Like a king, in my lovely apartment, my laptop, TV, good food or music! Or making business!!! Hell mate!

It was a mistake I guess letting your GF inside! I hope all turns out good for you!

We’ve all made our mistakes and we’ve all got scars we can talk about. I’m trying to use it to mine and others’ advantage.

Introvert MGTOWs like us get some extra flack because we already don’t “fit in” with societal norms and MGTOW is just adding fuel to the attacks. But, being as we have little need for people, I say “who gives a f~~~?!”

I couldn’t imagine an apartment!

But still, alone time was frequently interrupted by a knock on the floor because she wanted me for some trivial reason, I was starting to feel like a butler.

Ohhh! The feeling of liberation that I am here all by myself!

I will do whatever the f~~~ I want, when I f~~~ing want to do it, and nobody to f~~~ing answer too!

Pinch me, I must be dreaming, the feeling of freedom I haven’t fully grasped yet, it’s an old feeling I once took for granted pre-relationship.

I’ve got to lick it up!

I never respected my buddys when they saw hard-bodys and they said to me horny:” Hey look!!!! She is hot! WTF!! Look at her rack! Woooooohhhh! Look at her!”

Why should I give her the attraction! I am the FKN’ Samurai here! I am the rockstar! She might come to me and start flirting!  I surely won’t look at her! She can kiss my a$$!

Also, when we wanted planning to go to a club or having a nice evening outside: “Yeah, cool! And let’s get some puss or flirt with girls! I need to f*** tonight!” I say:” NO! I am here to celebrate the night with you , Buddy! Means, lets get some beer and have some fun! Dance to 90s music and just enjoy our life! I dont wanna game and focus on women! If you dont accept that, you are free to party with another one! When I go out I want to have fun! I want to laugh! If I can get pussy, fine! Bu7t I won’t force it! I just love myself too much, to obey to any woman!”

Thats just me!

Awesome board! And awesome gentlemen here!!!

I’m in the medical field, and I specialize in treating heart disease, so most of my patients are 60s, 70s, 80s year olds. Many of them are from the generations that married and never divorced. When those people get medical care, they almost always bring their spouse with them. I commonly see patients with their spouses who have been married 40, 50, 60 years. A couple of years ago, I started to do a sort of survey.

When I see people who appear to have been married for a very long time, I ask them how long they’ve been married. When they answer with 30 years or more, my next question is, “So, what’s the secret to staying married for a long time?” and then just let them speak. I ask both men and women.

As you would guess, I get a lot of different answers. The answers from women are all over the place and no single answer stands out more than any other. But asking the question of men who’ve been married for more than 30 years, the same answer comes up over and over again…more than 50% of the time.

What they say is, “Get out of the house… get a fishing boat, get a hunting lease, get a garden, restore old cars in the garage…”. Basically, what they are saying is to carve out a place, and an activity of your own where you go without her.

Now obviously, having been married for decades, these guys are the furthest thing from mgtows in the world. But that is exactly my point. Married for life, or mgtow for life, that need for your own isolated space is necessary for men regardless of our choices. It seems like women of prior generations may have understood and respected this better than younger women today.

These days, they don’t feel ‘equal’ or ’empowered’ unless they’ve successfully invaded or destroyed every male only space they can find. We constantly have to eject them off this men only website clearly marked as such on the opening page!

What they say is, “Get out of the house… get a fishing boat, get a hunting lease, get a garden, restore old cars in the garage…”. Basically, what they are saying is to carve out a place, and an activity of your own where you go without her.

My grandfather said basically the same thing: Separate vacations.  LONG separate vacations.

Now obviously, having been married for decades, these guys are the furthest thing from mgtows in the world.

I’m not so sure about that.  For all that they grew up in a generation that expected marriage as the only acceptable social norm, it seems to me that they are going their own way as far as their circumstances will let them.  I mean they’re not MGTOW, if only because they keep having to go back to wifey, but the sheds, garages, hobbies, separate vacations etc. show at least a MGTOW inclination.

kb, I had no idea you were black, your posts are in black and white, no shades of grey between! MGTOW are not about color, race, or hatred, we’re black and white writing on paper, about all the injustice we share, and absolutely agree…