Going Mgtow from your mother

[MGTOW NinjaParticipant 34]

When you realize your mother is just like the rest of the female population. . Narcissistic and manipulative! My mother abuse me during my childhood, so i was left alone alot. I grew up fast and i became red pill early. Anyone been through a similar situation or came to the same realization???

GH0ST

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Sorry to hear that Ninja. Establishing/maintaining a boundary is a wise idea. I’m very lucky; my mom is great, and that’s apparently a rare thing nowadays.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Anonymous 0]

An introduction would be nice instead of an advertisement for your site.

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

An introduction would be nice instead of an advertisement for your site.

Yes my Mother is so bad I avoid completely.

She is nothing compared to her own mother who was an absolute Psychopath.
A surpremely dangerous woman.
I kid you not when I say that she was capable of anything if given the means. And I ain’t talking good things either.

All that being said M52 has a very valid point.

If your new in these parts a way to begin is usually with an introduction as to what brought you here. Your life story maybe but definitely the red pill journey.

A snap shot usually doesn’t cut it.

Friendly advice – good luck.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2144]

They are.

My mother is also a very toxic individual. She says she loves me, but in the past I was nothing but a wallet and an emotional tampon.

This is the year I physically ghost her out of my life permanently.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[Anonymous 3]

I kinda agree about giving us an intro. It just seems more appropriate.
My mother was narcissistic as well as an alcoholic & promiscuous.
It took a long time to work through the mental/emotional abuse, but I did do it with a lot of help from good people & therapists as well.
I know this may sound like a pat old bromide, but I had to learn to love & parent myself. No easy trick b/c having no clue on how to live I found myself consistently choosing abusive people for relationships until I found myself on a Psych ward. And then began a new life.
Healing takes time, but it does happen. Be careful who you associate with.
Stick with the winners
Stick with MGTOW

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

My mother is a bit of an asshole. Childish, unreasonable, unwilling or unable to communicate honestly. Very trying. But….89 years old. Sometimes I think I’d love to go ghost on her but ghosting some pain-in-the-ass girlfriend and ghosting your own mother are really two different things. I don’t think I could face myself if I ditched her. Plus–and this is a big part of it—ghosting her would put the entire monkey on my brother’s back. That would be a s~~~ty thing to lay on him.
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[HermitParticipant 1121]

Mothers are more responsible for men going MGTOW than any other female group.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[Anonymous 54]

Make an introduction before you hustle us.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello MN,

It is great when young men like you discuss MGTOW wisdom on your YouTube Channel. Many Thanks for your efforts.

However, your Introduction is weak so far.

Here is a link to a Post which can help you make YOUR Introduction stronger. Ignore the Trolls writing in that thread. Try to resist any remnants of your Blue Pill Baggage and avoid being triggered by my advice. It is Tough Love and you will thank me later as you progress down the MGTOW road. Cheers:

/forums/topic/troll-troubles/

Nevertheless, writing about mothers is a good topic for the Forums part of this web site like Blue Pill Hell or MGTOW Central, for example.
Kindly consider starting a thread on “Mothers as Red Pills” in the suggested sections of the Forums where it will be a better fit.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[MonkParticipant 16978]

First Red Pills at a very early age.

As a child, observing the dramas, the rages, and the spite. Seeing the control freakery, hearing the incessant complaining and constant badmouthing of my father. Watching the obsession with money and class, the snobbery and desperate social climbing.

[Anonymous 54]

I guess this was his intro.

Same here. My Mothers hates Men.
She was not nice to me.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

AWALT.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Doc wrote:

She is nothing compared to her own mother who was an absolute Psychopath

The apple never falls far from the tree.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AttonParticipant]

Welcome to the darkside of the force.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[MGTOW NinjaParticipant 34]

My apologies and thanks for the advice. Im here to benefit this community as much as you all are

GH0ST

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome MGTOW Ninja!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22507]

MGTOW Ninja wrote:

When you realize your mother is just like the rest of the female population. . Narcissistic and manipulative! My mother abuse me during my childhood, so i was left alone alot. I grew up fast and i became red pill early. Anyone been through a similar situation or came to the same realization???

Yes. My mom had hormonal problems with her ovaries and it really affected her. Big mood swings and such. Lots of yelling, really no physical violence. In her late 30s she had a hysterectomy, and got put on hormone replacemt therapy. She remarked about how much better she felt and she did mellow out quite a bit. Through the years she did apologize for her treatment of me, and that she had felt there were times like she was even outside herself during times where she lost it and was like, what was she doing?

I seriously believe a certain percentage of these cases could very well have a physical hormonal component to them. Not saying its an excuse, just saying as an observation.

I mean if our frigging courts can excuse lesbian domestic violence because of high t levels…

Of course they wont excuse men for ther violence even though we have 20-50 times more t in our bodies. But a lesbian with maybe twice the normal female level, that they give the pussy pass to.

God will not be kind to these hypocrites and what they have done to innocent men, and what they have done to “justice”.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpaceManFinParticipant 48]

Unfortunately for me, didn’t get a typical narcissistic manipulative mother who couldn’t carry her own weight. Nah, got something worse.

A mother with a moral backbone and more b~~~~ than most men I’ve come across… who’s still a woman with all the associated issues. Listening to her bulls~~~ tirades is tiring and she tends to try and grab some attention whenever she can, that’s as far as it’s ever gone though.

She’s swung chainsaws and shovels with the guys, started up two successful enterprises and been robbed blind by a narcissistic-sociopath man called my father in company with her own sister (who’d be recognizable to all MGTOW’s as a horror story of a narcissistic, manipulative bitch). Ironically, she ended up trying harder to grow men out of me and my brothers than our father ever did.

Got no illusions, my mother is still a woman and she acts like it. In her youth, her birth-home was seriously f~~~ed. She ended up growing with her grandparents. She lately turned 60 and still refers to those grandparents, a grandfather who hunted Russian infiltrators during WWII and became a cop and a grandmother served in an anti-air artillery unit defending Helsinki during Winter and Continuation wars. Guess some of that stuck on her hard enough to last through her entire life.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Last time I saw my psyco mother was when I was 21. That was 36 years ago. Don’t be afraid to cut crazy out of your life.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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