Ghosting: Definitions, FAQ and instructions

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Does anyone here know of a good FAQ or explanation of “Ghosting” as it relates to MGTOW ?

I like the idea, but I think myself and many others could benefit from knowing more.

If not, perhaps such a document could be written.

Your thoughts, brothers.

Frank V.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I’m going to call it withdrawing from the demands of society. Refusing to play along when the game is rigged against me, whatever they are trying to foist off on me lately. I think it’s a sliding scale from staying out of the social whirl to living completely off the grid.

Here is the Urban Dictionary definition. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ghosting
They seem to limit it to dating — jilting a date. I do not limit it to that.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[hmskl’dParticipant 6419]

Not putting forth the slightest effort to play the relationship game when I know it’s only going to eventually do me harm .. both emotionally and financially.
Dedicating those resources I would have wasted on relationships to more predictable, stable and productive pursuits.

[Anonymous 54]

Layin low.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Too disappear from society, too refrain from engaging with females in any way shape or form, too do your best to bring down the current stature of government in it’s entirety, too live as basic of a lifestyle as one can comfortably live (not engaging in the materialistic American wasteful way of life that is currently drowning our entire population), too redefine oneself and place your own needs above those that we have been indoctrinated with, too become whole with nature and the animals that lived here long before we raped the earth with our I-phones, too remove oneself from the grid as much as one can, too rid oneself of the technologies that track your every movement, breath, and thoughts, too be reborn as a man understanding how to use what one has around you too make do in any situation. That is far as my thoughts take me, just my two cents though, I am sure every man has his very own definition of what is it to be a ghost.

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

@jeremiah Johnson : Brother, I come here to hear different slants on things from different brothers, so your input is appreciated.

I think I am viewing it as a multi-level sort of thing. There are almost different types of ghosting it seems to me.

As I have done it, other than one boss, none of my co-workers know. I also never use my real email or anything else online for other than work.

I don’t think of it as “lying” to my co-workers. Not like I am telling them I am married when I am not, but what they won’t know about my views won’t hurt me.

Frank V.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

To “ghost” as explained in our glossary is:

“Noun or verb. Making oneself scarce. Unplugging from the societal matrix, turning one’s back on all forms of cultural bombardment, and living “off the grid” as it were – either in attitude, or actuality – and making no overtures about it.”

Perhaps a man wants to minimize his footprint and remain as mobile as possible, live ing a mobile home….. or perhaps he wants to build a cabin the woods and become totally self-reliant. Maybe he buys a property and harvests his own food, or he may even become a homeless billionaire.

Hardly a “ghost” but he doesn’t operate within the structural or expected confines of an “average life”…. of sitting in traffic, and having a job facing the back of a cubicle for 30 years just to pay off a mortgage.

When you consider that even well-known , famous, rich and powerful men have MANY divorces and problems to deal with… ghosting is actually APPEALING as a concept. There are a million reasons to be glad you’re not Bill Cosby or Robin Williams, or even George Clooney for that matter.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

George Clooney was a dumb ass for getting married. When I heard, the only thing I could think of was how stupid he was to f~~~ up a good thing.

Frank V.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

In my eyes, ghosting is essentially making yourself invisible to the government, society, and the media.

You don’t have to be a hermit like me either, but you would have to avoid letting co-workers know about your personal life. And never date co-workers.

You can still f~~~ women. Just never do it at your place.

You can still have friends. Just don’t have any female friends. And if your blue friends are too much to handle dump them.

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My end goal to ghosting is paying off my student loans, buy a condo or a house, rent it out, and live out the rest of my life as a survivalist. For food I’ll just learn about all the vegetatation in the area I plan on hiking in and getting a fishing license for meat.

I’d rather die out in the wilderness alone in my old ages than live in a society that couldn’t give a s~~~ about me.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

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