F~~~…this is hard!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

No, it is not easy, you are right about that. When I first came to the realization that there is no such thing as a “good woman”, a good and true woman, it made me a bit sad and lost. I also felt a sense of relief though.

Chasing a dream and realizing it’s a lie is a painful road. You wasted physical time and energy you will never get back. All the what ifs and regrets. You think man “I could have really made something here” but it got lost chasing the dream. Letting a woman steer your boat into the reef. Then you add your emotional investment dashed by hypergamy; well f~~~ that equals a real and tangible loss of part of your own life. If you got out early maybe it’s not so bad, but if your like me, that’s 30 yrs I won’t get back.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Russky2 wrote:

Maybe there’s other methods to take a pill, since it has to go through all this digestion before it gets and kicks in your brain?

Good try man, but unfortunately there’s no shortcut.

What you’re feeling now is like the emotional stages of grieving the death of a loved one, or another major loss:

1) Denial
2) Anger
3) Bargaining
4) Depression
5) Acceptance

Russky2 wrote:

I just thought about what I wrote, and probably sounded like a blue pill imbecile.

Nah, not at all.

Everyone here went through, or is still going through redpill rage (#2 Anger above) for example. So if you flip your s~~~, it’s no big deal.

The good thing is it passes. Your emotions take longer to catch up to your logical brain. But they do.

And one more thing:

Russky2 wrote:

not F~~~ING IT UP with having unprotected sex and getting her preagnant. Although I work in a s~~~ty job

You won’t work a s~~~ty job forever. You need to protect your current earnings (even though it may not be much), and you need to protect your future earnings.

Child support isn’t something you pay once. You’ll be paying that s~~~ for at least 18 years.

[Anonymous 5]

“Working seperates the issue of women being worthy. The worth of a man rests in his own heart in his hardships he will trump over the notion of needing and become the essence of knowing” You sir are on the right path. Hang in there.

[Anonymous 1]

After the rage is gone, and you have swallowed enough redpills, it will become easy as taking vitamins. Redpills are necessary to keep you awake, women have many weapons, and mind that they will evolve to convince you about NAWALT, some will even dress up like this:

Do not fall for the trap, keep being centered, be the man.

[Russky2Participant 3086]

Once again I have to thank ALL of my brothers on here. Sometimes you need someone to steer you in the right direction. But I mean I know it’s all true, yet to me it’s like a Twilight Zone. I remember one of my friends got married and he seemed pretty happy. He now has a child, but then I’m thinking how long is this going to last? Is she going to divorce rape him? I doubt he is 100% happy with all this family life. And I haven’t seen him for two years now. Women take away your friends to never be seen again!

And yeah like some of you have mentioned, it does get easier as you age. I’m in my 30s still young, yet old enough to actually just start thinking with my bigger head. I remember the days when I did online dating thing and met all these single moms. What a dumb idiot I was, but I knew not better for I did not see the light and the Red Pill wasn’t even aware of me.

Strange enough for a non religious person I somehow believe in luck and lack of luck thereof. Some people have everything they ever wanted and don’t have to worry about a single day in their life, despite being married. But those are like Unicorns. You might see them once in a lifetime. And most likely they just seem like happy idiots.

The good thing is that I found this website and I’ve read enough stories to sway me away from ever marrying anyone. I’m starting to lose much desire to date anyone as I see it a pointless game. Yet this stupid instinct still wants to meet that “special” someone. But I have to constantly remind myself to snap back to reality.

Although I do not have the life experience like most of you older fellas on here, yet I do not want to go through what you have described here. Most of the stories posted on here, really seem like most of you guys went through hell. DUrint this summer I met this dude doing security thing at the airport. He told me about how his wife divorced him because he was always away and not being there for her. Well need much not say, the bitch took his house and yet another cottage/house he had in Florida. Did I forget to mention his kids? Yes I did. But he also told me that he hired and fired a bunch of lawyers and all of them failed miserably to do anything worthwhile for him. Anyway to close this up with….

MGTOW AKBAR

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

It is hard. I am in the middle of it right now.

I am on divorce #2 from a covert narc that has 4 college degrees, lived on her own until she was 40, and yet now is demanding spousal support for the rest of her life. She spent our marriage on the couch watching netflix drinking jack until she would puke all over herself.

I have lawyer-ed up, but the stress of not knowing what will happen, how much I will have to pay, and if it will ever end is horrible. She always said she would “never want anything if we broke up” and now she wants everything. My lawyer says if she wants to drag it out for years there is nothing he can do to stop her.

However, that is not the worst of what I am currently going through. Between the 2 wives I wasted the best 25 years of my life. I wasted my youth. I have lost everything 1 time and am now looking at losing it all again. I go from thinking I can handle it to wondering how I will get through the next hour. Trying to accept there is not a single woman in the entire WORLD who could actually love me the way I would love her is almost more than the mind can comprehend, even with all the hell I have been through. All the programming from my youth at home and church is warring against the reality I see in front of me and sometimes I think my head is going to literally explode.

Then you have people like Rick Reynolds preaching that it is all because of the men not knowing how to be an Alpha, that the women are never to blame and if you just get your act together, everything will come together. You just have to fix yourself…yet I look back at my parents and grandparents and they did not have to fix themselves…they had incredible 70+ year marriages…what they did not have was 50 years of feminist programming polluting the brains of the men and the women. Still, that part of you wants to believe that it is still possible and if you take enough courses, learn enough, become tough enough there still is someone special out there.

Any yet, in the depths of your soul, you know something is very, very wrong with society. Something very dark, sinister and dangerous lurks just out of visual range. Then I become so angry at the ones that have destroyed our society, our relationships, our very lives. The ones that have STOLEN even the possibility of a warm, comforting, caring, mutual beneficial relationship from ever occurring again. My rage builds at those that lied to me for 46 years about every single thing in the world…and yet with all the anger, there is nothing I can do to change it, to lessen it, to somehow “make things right”.

I feel lost, drifting without direction or even knowing which way to paddle. So much time, money, energy, and the very days of my life spent trying to obtain thankfulness and appreciation from a creature that knows neither. I look in the mirror every morning and ask, “How the hell did this happen to me? How did I miss it so bad? How did I not know the truth? How did I fall for the same lie twice?” I honestly wonder sometimes if I am really living this…it is so unsettling and distributing.

Thanks for letting me share.

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi Gents,

Have the older generations lied to us about the comfort and endless bliss of marriage or is it the case that they believed what they preached because they were in happy marriages?

We often talk about the good old days where women weren’t such slutty c~~~s. I believe many of our grandparents enjoyed happy marriages and speaking from personal experience, encouraged us to marry. I use the word ‘many’ by way of comparison to today’s rate of happy marriages.

The problem of course is that you wouldn’t ask your grandma to program your computer or call an uber so why would you listen to her advice on getting married? Times doth change.

[Anonymous 43]

The hardest part was realizing that everything in this society is designed for a couple. The car…can you get a 1 seat automobile? not really. A couch…made for a man to sit and a woman to take up 2 cushions with her fat ass, and her blanket. Restaurants…ever go by yourself? awkward. Then there are the looks…whats wrong with him that he doesn’t have a woman with him, or worse that guy will never have a woman, just look at him.

I look at women like I look at a claymore mine, pull the string and you will be sorry.

[experiencedParticipant]

A relationship is a process wherein a woman wears a man down, sucks all the resources possible and impossible out of him – see suicide, and basically slowly weakens and destroys him.
It may actually be men’s good fortune that so many laydeez via no fault divorce, dump their husband to steal his resources because as painful as it is, it does stop her process of destroying “him”.
Emerging from this, the male learns, and amusingly for us, the female does not.
The last laugh goes to mgtow men.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[StentorianParticipant 1690]

I like this topic. As I find myself in a very similar place. Sort of waking up and transitioning out of a life long blue pill slumber.

Great post right above, by experienced. That is a strong dose of wisdom. Woman = death. A very slow death.

But in the short run however. When they have their best face on. I can’t help but recall something keymaster wrote, where he mentioned that for those who still have some led left in their pencil.(Great metaphor). To follow certain rules.

I feel like I lost so much time in long term relationships. That I was deprived of quality lays. I’m just young enough, to get a couple more years of top shelf pussy. If I can pull it off safely. I will bang the hottest broads I can pull in, and then hit eject after a very short time, so as to avoid attachment.

If women use us. By that very principle, can we not use them in the exact manner? Why should they get all the fun, and we get left with the baggage?

Pump and dump seems like a reasonable alternative.

“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Red pill rage is pure rage, but after the storm passes calm comes. Have this in mind. Take it day per day.

Also in 2006 i was saying awalt, red pill truths, was mgtow, never trust women, never be friends with them, etc, but then biological programming can screw you over. So beware and dont beat yourself it it does.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 1]

Freeman_K wrote:

Red pill rage is pure rage, but after the storm passes calm comes. Have this in mind. Take it day per day.

Also in 2006 i was saying awalt, red pill truths, was mgtow, never trust women, never be friends with them, etc, but then biological programming can screw you over. So beware and dont beat yourself it it does.

Thanks for this bro, I’ll try to stick to my safety rules.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Jack123 wrote:

Have the older generations lied to us about the comfort and endless bliss of marriage or is it the case that they believed what they preached because they were in happy marriages?

Things weren’t some sort of wedded utopia, not by a large margin, but it was better than it is today, where marriage is a complete non starter for men.

What happened? The laws changed.

In the past if a woman wanted a divorce, she could get one. She could escape the marriage but she had to leave all the benefits of marriage behind when she left. If she wanted ot be “strong and independent” she had to actually be strong and independent.

So women were less inclined to jump into a marriage and would put some effort into making it work when in.

This is no longer the case under no fault divorce and our other hideously gynocentric unjust laws. These days a marriage and especially a divorce, is nothing more than a wonderful opportunity for women to gain valuable cash and prizes from men with no responsibility in return. A woman can marry on a whim, and if she changes her mind “it’s not her fault”, and she can continue to have that man support her through alimony and child support and live in the home he paid for.

Women receive all the traditional benefits of marriage today even after abandoning the marriage. This they have absolutely no responsibilities in that marriage whatsoever. They get to pretend to be “strong and independent” while being bankrolled at gunpoint by a man. There is literally no incentive for them to invest in a marriage and many incentives to divorce.

Meanwhile men still have all their traditional marital responsibilities, even after the woman abandons the marriage, and no rights whatsoever.

And they call this equality.

So no, marriage was never a great boon to men, but today it has become a great bane.

And don’t forget, those older generations voted to make it that way. So when they try to advocate marriage to you, tell them to go f~~~ themselves, because they had it, they f~~~ing ruined it, and no they expect you to swallow the s~~~ they turned it into.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Russky wrote:

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