Forgive and Forget… Or, lack there of…

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

One of the worst type of hypocrites I have found are those that demand me to forgive and forget all the s~~~ I have been put through in life. But, these same people will hold something I did, even it if it is only once, against me, literally decades after the fact.

Have you had similar situations? And what are your thoughts on this?

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Total Lee agrees.

I hate those “let’s just move forward” people. “Yeah I know I carved your genitals out, deceived you and stomped on them , but I just wanna move forward”. Forgive OK. Forget, no way. I’m with you, Faust.

[HitmanParticipant]

yes,
you guys know i usually have quick answers..just one reason i’m “hitman” …
but this is hitting me very hard and close to home..
a couple years ago on my 50th birthday,my “family” asked me what i’d like to do ..
“cookout in the backyard” ..um, WE were thinking about going to a nice restaurant they told me..
so off i went with my 3 yr old kid,right after halloween..
reservations got lost somehow,so we sat at a long table like “the last supper ” ..
dinner sucked,lots of noise,my obese sister was shoving food and beer in her face , when..
my kid had a little plastic ring on the middle finger ..lifted it up to show everyone..
i started laughing , because the kid was giving the middle finger to everyone !
my fat sister says ” THAT’S nothing to be proud of ”
her two kids never wrote a thank you card ,year after year for birthdays,christmas..
i replied “are you saying i’m NOT to be proud of my kid ? ”
ALL F~~~ING HELL breaks loose…
i’m hearing ” shut the f~~~ up ! “..it goes into the street ..i put the kid in the car seat and return..
“why the hell are you so mad at me ?” ..
they say ” your kid does’nt get to give us the middle finger ! ”
i say ” c’mon the kid is THREE for god’s sake ,(can’t understand such things ..)
F~~~ YOU ! they start yelling ..thank god the kid can’t hear this ….
i told them they must be sick to do this to me on my birthday.
all communications break down , they “pass on the holidays ” leaving me alone with the kid for thanksgiving and christmas…the good catholics that they are …i’m sure the HITLER family was more loving !
NO regard for our mom’s well being ( she is elderly and in so-so health)..
that’s the LAST time they saw my child..me ,about twice a year when i visit my mom …
i told them let’s forgive each other ,offered at least 2 dozen times …no go .
they said they can’t forget what I DID ..( mind blown ) ..
and so..the short version of the family that tried to be real assholes and PASSED with flying colors !
PEOPLE DO NOT FORGET ,THEY TWIST FACTS TO SUIT THEMSELVES,.
and they knew my ex split and was suing me for divorce,child-support…
ah,the cold serpant tit of family filled with venom for the holidays ..
when you’re down is when they kick ..right for the b~~~~ brothers ..right for the b~~~~…..

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

A lot of school teachers and mothers are like that. They want you to forget about what happened earlier if you’re mad about it yet they bring something from the past to either hold you to a stand or to degrade you. Make up your f~~~ing minds, bitches.

That’s one of the many ideals of hypocritical women. I just ignore them.

[PhiloParticipant 84]

My father gave me some words of wisdom many years ago about women. He said -“Just remember that a women never forget and they NEVER forgive. Oh they will tell you that they have forgiven you but somewhere down the road, maybe even years later, they will bring it right up out of nowhere and hit you over the head with it all over again. And if you don’t remember what it was you did back then don’t worry because they are about to let you know.”

All I can tell you is that he was absolutely right.

This above all: to thine own self be true - William Shakespeare

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Hitman wrote:

PEOPLE DO NOT FORGET ,THEY TWIST FACTS TO SUIT THEMSELVES,.
and they knew my ex split and was suing me for divorce,child-support…
ah,the cold serpant tit of family filled with venom for the holidays ..
when you’re down is when they kick ..right for the b~~~~ brothers ..right for the b~~~~…..

I know what you are talking about. They think their s~~~ don’t stink, and they kick us when it hurts the worst. Then, they demand we shrugged it off, because we in too much pain to walk it off.

Well, I don’t forget, and I don’t forgive.

And it is the ones that should support us the most whom instead prefer to disrespect and hurt us as much as possible.

The only time I let my guard down is when I am alone. Because I realize everyone around me not only wants to hurt me, but each one delights in hurting me.

This is why I have little to do with the men and women in my life. To many emotionally immature hypocritical assholes.

Personally, I don’t really like being alone, but it is preferable to dealing with sadists.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

Have you had similar situations? And what are your thoughts on this?

Yes. Sauce for the gander (that would be us) is not sauce for the goose (them). They want their cake, their icing, and they want to eat it all too. You, me, and all of us who expect mutual respect from our so-called friends can just crawl off and die, as far as they are concerned.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Women say “Let’s forget….”
Women mean “I don’t want to talk about that ever again because I’ll sure as s~~~ remember all the feelings associated with it”

Not the same things.

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