Finding it more difficult to masturbate

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

The more red pill I become, the more difficult it is to actually get off these days. As a male in my late 20’s, I still have a high sex drive, but I’m finding it tougher and tougher to actually satisfy the urge. When I look at porn, it just doesn’t have the same effect on me as it did years ago. Sometimes I will literally tuck it back in and go back to doing what I was doing and just X out the page. It is becoming more and more of a chore to find new ways of turning myself on. I remember being shocked at some of the “new” things I would see women doing in porn. Now it just feels like every girl is a complete slore, which removes any bit of exclusivity.

Seeing a bunch of girls performing “tame” soft-core sex in the 90’s and then seeing that one girl who was a complete hardcore freak was a big turn-on. It was the fact that she was such a slut, that she stood out from the rest and was so different. She was a TRUE nympho. That feeling of exclusivity is long gone and Hardcore cumbucket freaks are a dime a dozen these days. Both in porn AND in real life. In fact, you can’t even find a pornstar who HASN’T been gangbanged or p~~~ed on by at least a dozen guys these days.

Seeing my first gangbang porno’s and other things were shocking to me in the early 2000’s. Nowadays its standard practice and that kills the whole “taboo” aspect of it. Sexual things are losing their excitement factor to me because I feel like I’ve seen it all. Over the years, I’ve tried fantasizing about girls I know in real life, fleshlights, hookers, and other ways of getting myself off, but these have all begun to bore me also. It’s hard to fantasize about a female (no matter how hot she is) when I know the TRUTH about her. Even when they send me naked pics, I wonder how many other hundred guys she sent the same pics to…

As far as real sex goes, not only has that also become boring, but it also carries with it the terrifying risks of STD’s, pregnancies, rape accusations, etc.

So to recap:
-I don’t want real sex because I’m afraid of the risks, and also don’t want to spend my time, energy, or money
-Jerking off is a boring chore nowadays because every single girl is nothing but a cum bucket which kills any “uniqueness” about her. They are just faceless sex dolls nowadays.
-Using “assistance” in the form of fleshlights or other things also doesn’t excite me anymore
-Even the hottest girls are all boring and used up, and knowing the truth about their REAL intentions behind wanting to f~~~ me is an instant boner killer.
-Hookers are still the best method, but wasting money and risking getting an STD is extremely stupid

Can anybody else relate to this? Is this a good thing or a bad thing?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You no longer think about sex. You probably thinking about, career, hobbies, interest, things you want to do before you die, places you want to travel. Etc.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

That is precisely right bigboy. These days I’m more interested in traveling (Europe in may!), hobbies (video games, UFC), and other interests before I leave this hell hole permanently. I’m just trying to make enough money to be financially independent so that I never have to work again. Then I can relax with my dogs and eat burgers and pizza all day while playing video games. Throw in an occasional vacation trip and that is my idea of a perfect life.

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

Modern women are a big turn off for the libido of any sane man. I would just give it a break for a while and focus on projects. Once you’ve had a break, maybe it will be easier.

Hope you can see how lucky you really are that you see the modern harpy for what she really is. This is a small price to pay.

[Anonymous 3]

It’s really just another one of these blue pill stigmas going around, that you have to want sex and try to chase tail. You are gay if you don’t do it, and gay is bad, that kind of thing. Like you have to rep your state sports team, you have to marry, you have to get a job, and all that nonsense.

Once you realize what women truly are, that’s almost like a natural reaction. It’s actually more surprising that there are still people who would want to stick their pee pee in them.

Good or bad is a matter of how you deal with the situation. All the attraction of the female appearance is there designed specifically to manipulate you and your lizard brain. If you think there’s something wrong with you because you’re not falling for it as much as before, well, perhaps. Perhaps you want to be vulnerable to the siren’s call and enjoy the chase. Or perhaps, you don’t want to be. What you do want?

[Anonymous 12]

I find the same thing, I used to go into a bit of a fantasy state when I would look at porn or nude pics of women, for me it wasn’t just the woman’s body it was imagining her as some kind of perfect companion. Sad, I know but it’s what used to work for me.

Now I can’t see women in that way anymore, I watch porn/nude pics and I just see bodies and acts, it’s all very mechanical. There is a disconnect that has happened. In some ways it is good as I am not thinking about sex and romance like I used to but in some respects I also feel I have lost something. And then I also feel that what I have lost wasn’t that great anyway.

In respect to what the OP says about porn not being interesting or shocking anymore, that is normal as the novelty wears off you seek something more shocking, the addiction theory basically so losing interest is a good thing in that respect rather than keep upping the ante.

I used to see that extreme porn and think “wow, she looks so sweet, why is she doing this?” whereas now I just know she is doing because she thinks it is some kind of female empowerment and is a whore.

[Charles BSpectator 251]

I usually end up sticking with cartoon porn for the most part. Jerking off to real women now a days is just boring as f~~~ to me. If there’s one thing I hate the most about watching real women f~~~, is that I know their moans/screams/orgasms are usually faked because they know they’re being filmed. At least in cartoon porn, the sounds from the women sound more authentic even though you know it’s faked.

I also hate that most real women in porn have tramp stamps. I f~~~ing hate those things. It’s a complete turn off.

[BrujahParticipant 579]

Grew up a mangina most of my life. Not surprising my preferences were geared towards more Femdom type porn. Perversions grew naturally. I suspect I’m still in a redpill rage phase as my attention has currently been focused to BDSM where the woman is the bottom.

I absolutely cannot stomach what I used to enjoy. Actually makes me disgusted now at any form of cuckoldry. I’m looking forward to the next phase after I’ve outgrown this current one. Hopefully apathy. I’m already tempted as it is to pay for fetish services.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

It’s hard to fantasize about a female (no matter how hot she is) when I know the TRUTH about her

I’ve reached this point also.

What i did is switch to drawn porn.
As long as it looks like a woman but i know it’s not a real woman(just some drawing/something fictional/outlandish) it turns me on.I can fantasize about her without my mind making a connection with these disgusting…whatever lets move on.

You can also try going weeks or months not faping and when you start again you’ll have reverted back.

Or you can just fap more rarely.(whenever you actually feel horny)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Perfectly normal.

When I was 19, there was no porn on the internet. And I never saw (or imagined) the s~~~ we see today. Glazing her face like a donut was not even something I imagined. Now it’s the norm.

Same with anal. But then again, if God wanted women to get blasted in the ass, he would have put a hole there. My younger brother had much fewer girlfriends (and experience) but HE was the first to tell me all about it – like it was a menu item.

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

I remember being shocked at some of the “new” things I would see women doing in porn.

The first time I saw the freaky s~~~ we see today, I thought “are you f~~~ing kidding me?”. But it just goes to show what crazy s~~~ women will do without limits(!) for a little bit of money.

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

When I look at porn, it just doesn’t have the same effect on me as it did years ago.

Porn will definitely desensitize you, and so will enough experience with enough women. It’s only a matter of time before a man questions the appeal.

I totally lose my wood when I see a woman with that “angry f~~~ face” — where’s she is clenching her teeth and breathing through them like she is possessed by some demon from hell.

They are just not FEMININE.

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Now it just feels like every girl is a complete slore

This is new thing in recent decades. My aunt actually told me (recently) that women were nothing like this. When she was in school and a girl was seen walking home with a boy and he carried her books… she was a “slutt”. She actually used that word.

The Sex and the City lifestyle was not even unspeakable.
It was unthinkable.

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When I was 24, I actually dated a famous porn star – before she became a porn star. I lost ALL appeal for her when she told me she was considering getting a boob job. Couldn’t see her anymore. It was completely off-putting.

Imagine my surprise to see her in porn years later. Gang bangs. Facials. Group anal. Fake t~~~. Fake hair. Fake lips. She was literally “something else” when I knew her.

She was the stuff of my fantasies at the time, and then….. GONE.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I get that from time to time. When that happens, I know it’s time to switch to a different genre of porn.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Charles BSpectator 251]

You know, I’m glad that women are more “open” about what they’ll do sexually. Especially in this day in age. This reminds me of a hentai manga I once read. I forgot the name, but it had a plot described as: “this is a world where all the women have become dirty skanks and you can have sex with them at anytime!”

I found that plot description to be hilarious because that’s the kind of world we live in today. You can seriously just look up a girl on any dating site or go to a bar/nightclub and get sex anytime you want. This just makes it really easy for men to literally end up ordering sex like they would order fast food.

I’ve also been desensitized to most porn imaginable. Back when I was 12 years old, I could remember watching s~~~ like the old American Pie movies and getting turned on just by women kissing each other. Now a days, it’s hard for me to even get turned on by gangbangs.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

Anonymous wrote:

I find the same thing, I used to go into a bit of a fantasy state when I would look at porn or nude pics of women, for me it wasn’t just the woman’s body it was imagining her as some kind of perfect companion. Sad, I know but it’s what used to work for me.

Now I can’t see women in that way anymore, I watch porn/nude pics and I just see bodies and acts, it’s all very mechanical. There is a disconnect that has happened.

This is basically 1 of the feelings I wanted to convey but didn’t know how to put it in words. You hit the nail on the head. Even though it sounds unmanly, I used to get turned on by girls who I could envision cuddling with, and being romantic with. I wanted to also have wild sex with her of course, but maybe after the sex was over, we could fall asleep on the couch while watching our favorite movie. This type of fantasy used to turn me on and was one of the things I found most sexy about women. But now that the fantasy has been exposed and I know that those scenarios are simply not genuine, it kills my sex drive.

Sex to me now is nothing more than a mechanical act. There is no passion or feelings involved. I may as well just be f~~~ing a robot. Knowing the truth about relationships, marriage, kids, etc. has made sex borderline disgusting to me. Its as if I reconditioned my brain to view sex as a primitive and disgusting act. I feel like I’m smarter and better than to fall for the pussy trap anymore these days. Oh and don’t even get me started on the vagina itself and all the funky, gooey, and smelly liquids that are brewing inside of it. That place is a f~~~ing breeding ground for bacteria and STD’s.

Keymaster wrote:

When I was 24, I actually dated a famous porn star – before she became a porn star. I lost ALL appeal for her when she told me she was considering getting a boob job. Couldn’t see her anymore. It was completely off-putting.

Imagine my surprise to see her in porn years later. Gang bangs. Facials. Group anal. Fake t~~~. Fake hair. Fake lips. She was literally “something else” when I knew her.

She was the stuff of my fantasies at the time, and then….. GONE.

I used to date someone like that and while she is not famous yet, I have a feeling she will be some day. She is the type that wants it, and also has the looks for it. So its simply a matter of time before some mangina in a position of power spots her. When he does, I’m sure they will both agree to “work” together for their mutual benefit. This girl was my fantasy dream wife at one point, then…GONE. Just like you said. Doing all that nasty stuff, but just not on camera. Well technically she DID do it on camera, but it was between her and her boyfriend/s and not for the public. When she showed me some of the videos, I couldn’t believe my eyes. My dream girl had been “ruined” by a bunch of Chad Thunderc~~~s. I lost all appeal for her when I saw her getting ravaged by other men. Was no longer turned on by her afterwards, and even though I still could have had her, I just simply started to ignore her. I truly believe porn is the next destination for her.

Then there were other “sweet angels” who I had fantasized about who also turned out to be undercover whores. The s~~~ was heartbreaking each time I found out about each one’s past. I s~~~ you not, one of them actually caught an incurable STD and THEN tried to date me. She didn’t want me when I was a sweet guy. She was too busy chasing the bad boys and hot bodies during those times. It was sad when she told me and I even felt a tad bit bad for her.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You can over do it.

If You Are Concerned, Take A Two Week Break And Then See If There Is A Change.

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[Anonymous 5]

Dude am going to tell you this right now. After me going Mgtow I whent 2 months. I hated porn for what it represented (not like am bashing it/ in the prospect it can help others for sake burning down some stress) even before I hated everything about it. I HATED everything that made me go towards porn for satisfaction (The fact I needed pussy to live lol.. – yeah not like that tho). Getting laid is one thing. But it wasn’t that. Porn was just easy and simple. Now I break after 3 weeks – and have realized it’s a part of your DNA your body wants you reproduce. But I meet someone very important to me. He told me a very vicious secert about male chemical induction. “With the denial of pro-creation through the will of a man comes a complex anomaly that isn’t present in the opsite sex”. Ok let me take a step back towards my point. Man all am getting at there is something very special hidden in our biology am not f~~~ing around Mgtow is the way to go and you said it well – I loved your post! Metal.

[Anonymous 12]

At OP, I was trying to quote you but it never works for me.

I don’t think it is unmasculine to want connection, in fact I would say it is what makes us more human than females who seem to want what a man can give them materially rather than for the man himself.

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