Finally reached the point of "I don't care anymore"

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

Four years ago, before I knew about MGTOW, I was still reasonably positive about getting into relationships with women even though I was aware of some of the potential dangers. I wasn’t as blind or stupid as a typical blue pill man but I still believed in relationships.

In the past two years since immersing myself into MGTOW philosophy, I find that my interest in establishing relationships with women has dropped a lot.

To put it into numerical value, let’s say I was prepared to do 8/10 effort to get a woman, I am now only willing to put in 4/10 effort to get a woman.

I realised I don’t need a woman to be happy because my life is great. I have a good job, good health, in good shape, very nice bank balance and a realistic plan to retire at 40 or younger. In fact, I believe most women would f~~~ up my plans in life and I refuse to let a woman steer me towards something I don’t want.

Additionally, my feelings for women is at an all time low. I can no longer find it within myself to feel attracted to them other than their physical bodies. I still find a pretty woman attractive but I cannot connect with women on an emotional level because I feel like it is just a waste of time.

I remember on my most recent date with a woman, she was telling me how she didn’t want to do a job that was a 30-minute drive from her house. She didn’t want to pay $14 per day for parking. I asked her if she could take a bus to work instead but she insisted she wants to work within five minutes from her house. I told her, “Come on, half an hour to work is okay. I take one hour to get to work every day”.

I don’t have the patience to deal with weak and entitled people like that. Making a mountain out of mole hill. They expect life to be easy and others to make it easy for them.

I found it a bit scary in the beginning when I reached this stage because I felt like I should be attracted to women and should want to be with them for more than sex.

Now I find it very liberating that I am not obsessed with wanting to be with women. I could not give a f~~~ anymore and I feel good about it.

[Anonymous 43]

woot!

I’m right there with you amigo!

[WallyParticipant]

I think more and more men are following this path to MGTOW, doing the math and saying ” not my path.” And avoiding the following

93 % chance of divorce
STDs
Loss of kids if any come from marriage
Endless complaint like what you had on your date
Risk of divorce rape and false accusations
Most importantly loss of freedom

Go MGTOW.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[MaddladParticipant 765]

Yeah i can relate. I like them for their bodies and thats about it.

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

For me it must be the rational part of my brain has taken over the drive to pair bond with women in order to survive in this crazy world.

I was talking to this 25-year-old man at work about why I don’t want to get married or have children. He calls me an anti-wife misogynist. That dumb s~~~ reminded me of myself when I was his age. He has been living with his university girlfriend for a few years now.

I told him he has not experienced all the bad s~~~ that can happen in relationships because he and his girlfriend are still very young and they are both not ready to marry and have kids. I warned him that once women suddenly decide they are ready to marry and pop out babies is when the s~~~ starts.

In order for a woman to feel secure in a relationship, she will most definitely try to lock you down with marriage and/or kids. She will want to see you have the ability and resources to give her and her kids a good life. Love don’t mean s~~~ anymore. It is all about what she wants and she has got you by your b~~~~.

What a difference 10 years made to me. I would have called you a misogynistic male chauvinist if you told me MGTOW 10 years ago. I am so glad I didn’t bend my knee and submit to a woman in the past 10 years. A lot of men are not so lucky.

[bladeParticipant]

I have no physical attraction anymore and i find it very freeing to the soul .

Just think of the smell and a f~~~ed up vagina

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[DiogenesParticipant 373]

My interests in females as the opposite sex is long gone. It has been liberating.

Once I got over wanting their bodies and getting stirred up by their constant prick teasing, they had no power over me. I needed that freedom all of my life without realizing it.

Now that I have it, I’m not going back.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

4/10 contradicts the rest of your statement. Should be more like 2/10.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

TheFreeManMGTOW wrote:

I am now only willing to put in 4/10 effort to get a woman.

Same here.
I range from 0% – 25% effort in “finding” a woman for anything other than temporary c~~~ relief.

TheFreeManMGTOW wrote:

very nice bank balance and a realistic plan to retire at 40 or younger. In fact, I believe most women would f~~~ up my plans in life

Awesome. I can only dream at this point.
Providing for a woman was typically my biggest expense so great to cut out the fat.

TheFreeManMGTOW wrote:

I was talking to this 25-year-old man at work about why I don’t want to get married or have children.

Don’t do this! manginas are the greatest foe. A feminist will hate you for being a man.
Manginas will sell you out to the hive for nothing.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thanks for sharing brother…Im still working out how to get to the point where I dont give a f~~~ about them or be triggered by them and not be manipulated…I am still in the stage of moving on from my relationship although I seem to want to have a child of my own. I dont know how it is going to happen or if it is going to happen…
For now, the focus is just on me and reclaiming my manhood which my x has trashed before she left…Talk about being The Good Guy and it still was not enough…
The illusion has been shattered and I am seeing women for what they are and walking away from the bulls~~~ the moment I see them…It is getting clearer…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

IRuleMe wrote:

4/10 contradicts the rest of your statement. Should be more like 2/10.

I recently flew to a city in a different state to meet a woman I got to know through an online dating site. I only search for women who fit my strict criteria and one of the main criteria I set is women who don’t have and don’t want children. That’s quite hard to find in a country of 24 million people.

That’s my 4/10 effort. Very stupid of me in hindsight. I met the woman and felt like I can’t be bothered.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

And its very liberating.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[reg22Participant 116]

blade wrote:

I have no physical attraction anymore and i find it very freeing to the soul .
Just think of the smell and a f~~~ed up vagina

Physical attraction is just a trap.
When you don’t care anymore, you’re free.

[Anonymous 38]

Good post. And keep going, aim for 0/10 effort level! With your lifestyle/assets you can always P&D.

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