Fighting for respect

[Gen.OivanParticipant 88]

I have been doing this for a couple of weeks now as a new reciepent of red pills. I cannot believe how I have let myself be treated the last few years as I have never really noticed until my eyes have become opened. I noticed when ever my wife asked me to do something there was never really any asking it was always a demand. From give me my laptop, to walking in the living room from the kitchen handing me a piece of trash and saying “here throw this away” I always thought you were just 6 inches away from the f~~~ing garbage can why couldn’t you do it your self but never saying anything….. Until now the last time she pulled the garbage thing I said sure your standing right next to it she got all p~~~y and argued with me for an hour about I’m an asshole……..

I have also been making it a habit of after every one of her demanding statements I have been correcting her say “please” and everyte me she gives me those eyes and today she went off the wall screaming “I am not 2 years old stop correcting me” and I responded I’m not a f~~~ing slave you can aske me nicely.

 

[Anonymous 42]

Sniff sniff, sniff sniff sniff,,,,, I smell a dominated wife, or a divorce……..

[Anonymous 1]

Brace yourself, a s~~~storm is coming.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Genovian,
Welcome to the taste of red pill. Here is your loyalty and your self respect back. The person who was formerly comfortable in her belief that these things belonged to her, is now slightly uncertain that you still agree that she owns them. She may attempt to reassert ownership of them. She will not give them up willingly, but they are yours and will remain that way unless you give them up again… While you’ll get little support in your struggle to own your life again from the media and wider society, you are fortunate in that you do not need help, support or approval from anyone to reclaim ownership of yourself. They may succeed in relieving you of some property, possibly even children if you have them. But they cannot again take your loyalty away from yourself without you agreeing to give it up.

Good to have you here…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Gen.OivanParticipant 88]

@brainpilot- thank you for the kinds words of wisdom, I have been getting a  daily dose of red pills from everyone on this site and it is helping me to regain my courage and spine, in the early years of our relationship I lost them both, I started strong and was eventually worn down over years of nagging and bickering, much like most here have; she is the poster child of femminism, only child born to an unwed single mother who was a lesbian but had a romp with a male for a few weeks.

 

@mg-tower and badkan yes I smell one too, the storm has been off shore for some time however I feel the pressure drop and the wind pickup, I’m just hoping to have enough steel anchored down to hold me to the ground when it comes to pass.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

What has worked for me in the past is staying very cool in the heat of one of these arguments and then dropping a bit of a bomb.  “You know dear, I’m not as happy in this relationship as I once was; like I was when we were first married.”  “Things are not the same anymore.”  “I just don’t know where it’s going to end up.”  “I’m going for a walk.”  Or something along those lines.  Going for the walk adds a great deal of emphasis and lets the bomb sink in.

I don’t know what your marriage is like, or how long you’ve been married, or if you have kids.  But nothing puts more fear into a woman than hearing a husband say something like the foregoing.  Women smell or turn a guy into a Beta Male and once they do that they loose all respect for the guy.

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