Hello from Heave-Ho MGTOW. I have visited this site for many months now and felt it was time to join and help other MGTOW by sharing my experiences. I also look to others to help keep me on the MGTOW path of independence from modern, entitled females and their unachievable and constantly changing expectations. No hate, it’s merely fate and their nature in action.
I have always struggled resisting the beliefs ingrained in me that a man needs to be in a relationship with a female. It gets easier now, as I am older and wiser and most of the women are chunky and post wall with more baggage then a major airline. It was harder when I was young; I became mesmerized with their asses and the fact that they were cute, smelled good and the never-ending pursuit of forbidden fruit. Forget how she treated you, she looks good on you!
I was also trained by society to believe that spending all of your spare time and money on trying to make women happy was what men were supposed to do. The formula that worked during my parent’s era does not apply today as males of my generation learned the hard way; slaughtered in the battlefields they call the family court system.
Screw that noise, I know that I should not be expected to make anyone happy but myself, but this is a trap I still tend to fall into. I remember the last time my Mom tried to give me guidance on relationships “you have so much going for you – I hope you find the right girl soon” Me “the last thing I need right now is to try and please a damn women”. She never brought the subject up again, and right then I knew I was on my path towards something, I just did not know what it was. I searched “I’m done with women” and found out I was not alone, so here I am.
If I had to write a book, the chapters would look like this;
1.The early years – Young Unicorn hunter
2.The Chad years (not natural, I was in a band and I got the ricochets’ but learned a lot about female nature. Thanks guys!)
3.Early Career years – focused, STEM graduate, then onto my masters.
4.Number 1 – Enjoyed being married 9 years after living together for 4, had a son, then crazy sets in. Minor in family law from the school of hard knocks.
5.Single parent years part 1 (Fathers with custody makes effective female repellent)
6.Number 2 – despite red flags, married single mom after dating for six months. Six years of hell on earth. Much to share here.
7.Single parent years part 2, numerous tales of relationships gone bad to share here with all of you. These finally convinced me to stop all of the craziness, drama, control and expense mentally and monetarily and start going my own way.
8.On the path to MGTOW but still struggle to get beyond the thin sliver of remaining programming that there may be unicorns about.
That’s why I come here; for the red pill of wisdom dispensed by men with shared experiences of how things really are. Mid-fifty’s and twice divorced but at peace. Focused on getting my son out of high school and off to college, then downsizing and planning for retirement in the future. In the last three months I have seen two women that I had dated in the past that hit the wall hard. If there is justice in this world, then witnessing this may be it. Later
Heave-Ho MGTOW
skip the cavernous vag and go your own way
Heave-Ho Mgtow 3 years ago.
