With the current website hack this seems about the right time to get something off my chest. It’s probably going to be a little long, but here we go.
Somewhere in the first year of my 3 year ordeal of getting divorced a female friend asked me what I would be looking for when I started dating again. I told her that the number one lesson I learned about myself is that I underestimated the attractiveness of nice. Someone who is just genuinely a nice person. A nice person doesn’t make a huge issue out of minor one, keeps a sense of humor, doesn’t s~~~ test you, and generally gives you the benefit of the doubt. That last one was one of the biggest issues I had with my ex. I believe in giving someone the benefit of the doubt that their heart is generally in the right place. If I’m wrong, then lesson learned and I probably won’t do it again. But I do expect the same, especially because I don’t do things to purposely p~~~ off people I care about. Because, at some level, I’m a “nice” person. My definition of unicorn would simply be a nice woman.
About 20 years ago I read a book called The Celestine Prophesies. I won’t bore anyone with the book, it was kind of weird, but there was a part in the book where people can read each other’s energy. Like seeing someone’s aura if you will. And they learned that the more they spend time with people with positive energy and avoided negative energy, the more overall energy was created. I know, strange, but bear with me. So, if you are around a negative energy person, like a narcissist (read woman), you will give a gallon of energy to the exchange and they will take it. But if you are with someone with positive energy (read your mates), you will each give a gallon and the two will mix and create 10. Then you each walk away with more energy than you gave. And if you look at it this way, this is the allure of a woman. They start off giving a positive energy to you, and then over time you slowly realize that they stopped giving off any energy at all and are just sucking yours dry. I can sum up every relations~~~ I’ve had in those terms.
So where am I going with this? I have to wonder about the people that continually hack this site. The amount of negative energy swirling around their heads is staggering. And this is a place of positive energy for men, so they naturally want to TAKE it from us, in an even exchange. And for what? Do they want us to come back to the plantation? If so, then maybe try being nice, give off a positive energy. If you don’t, then why spend your time on all of that negative energy? Just leave 10,000 people out of 7 billion alone…….. I guess they just see this massive energy source, and their first thought is to attach themselves to it like a blood sucking leach.
I actually pity the people that continually hack this site. What a miserable, s~~~ty life they must live.
If you have kids and you’ve ever seen the movie Monsters Inc. think about it for a minute. The monsters get their energy from scaring little kids. But when they make them laugh, they get 10 times the amount of energy. Even Pixar figured it out. I wonder if that wasn’t a subliminal message from the men at Pixar to tell the stay-at-home moms that they were slaving for at work to stop being such bitches. So basically the monsters are p~~~ed off because the kids left and they have no one to scare. The energy source dried up.
If you stuck with me through that one, thanks! Just a weird thought I’ve had floating around my brain. I actually hope that the people hacking this site read this. I feel sorry for you. You would be way better served finding something positive to focus on. You’ll get way more energy and happiness in your life focusing on the positive.
OK, back to keeping my money away from the IRS. A truly positive endeavor if there ever was one!!
Dark Kenshi 4 years, 2 months ago.
