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why do they feel the need to put absolutely EVERYTHING on social media – whether it is instagram, facebook or twitter? Are they really that insecure they need to let everyone else know what they are doing and seek validation for it?
I don’t get it and when I tell women I’m not on facebook I get looks like I’m a leper. I’ve even got a “I don’t trust people who aren’t on facebook” to which I said I like to tell people I know what I am up to face to face and actually speak to people and got a dumbfounded look back
I couldn’t agree with you more but I think this is a more of people in general problem than just a woman problem. I have an extreme opinion on this subject so I definitely don’t expect everyone to agree with me but I am a modern day luddite. I don’t have any social media subscriptions, I don’t have a cell phone,I finally stopped watching cable TV about a month ago and I didn’t even have the internet until a few years ago. I personally think that social media and texting have ruined peoples communication skills and I refuse to take part in any of it. If you don’t have the common courtesy to talk to me one on one without having 10 other conversations simultaneously then I could honestly care less about talking to you. I also value a long forgotten virtue of privacy, I don’t want everyone I’ve ever known to be able to bother me at any given second of the day and basically have a tracking device attached to me at all times. If you want to talk call my house…if I’m not home then I guess you will have to catch me later. Most people think that having this attitude would mean you would live a life of seclusion but that is completely INCORRECT. I have had more fun in my life than anyone I know, constantly going to keg parties, camping for weeks at a time on the lake, vacations to the beach, and meeting up with friends all the time for different activities. I actually have to invest time to have a REAL LIFE since I don’t escape to the synthetic version of life most of society lives in constantly these days. Unfortunately since I got the internet I have been on my computer way more than I would like to be but I’m addicted to the information and if it wasn’t for the net I wouldn’t have even found MGTOW, so it has its advantages I guess. One day I plan on ditching it again though because it becomes an excuse not to live life!
Reminds me of a quote:
“Remember when little girls had diaries and they would freak out whenever a boy just TOUCHED THE COVER?
We’ve come a long way.”How’s it possible just 30+ years ago, women would be so hell-bent on keeping their thoughts so private, and they genuinely felt VIOLATED when someone would read their thoughts….but NOW they spray every stupid f~~~ing thought they have onto every medium imaginable – from the consistency of the s~~~ they took this morning, to “checking in” when they go to a restaurant. Can you imagine? Going to a restaurant and feeling some need to tell your 500+ electronic “friends” where you’re eating right now… and then you buy a $6 coffee with a maxed-out credit card and upload a photo of the cup to Instagram and Facebook.
…. and then you check in AGAIN to see who LIKED it??
Gentlemen, welcome to hell.
Now, on the flip side, it’s the worst thing women could have done for themselves, but it’s also the reason men are waking up at an epic rate. We we see the behavior and evidence in PRINT. It’s there forever. It’s an excellent insight into the vapid female mind. Where they once had the world convinced women are some “deep mystery” and their hearts are “an ocean of secrets”…. they are no mystery. They’re an algorithm.
They are not “deep”. They are utterly shallow.
I wish I could recall which female-only forum I stumbled on, but it was eye-opening – to say the least. There were THOUSANDS of posts, and almost ALL of them were only one sentence or two at most. Endless threads – one after the other: “Bored. Let’s start a new thread. What are you looking at right now?”
The replies were mostly one-word answers:
• “MY Cat”
• “My ceiling”
• “My computer lol” (lol? you didn’t even say anything funny!)
• “My arm hairs”I s~~~ you not, it was page after page after page of empty-headed s~~~, with no speculation, no thought, no depth or point of ANY kind. HUNDREDS of pages I clicked on at random and it was all the same s~~~. What a waste of bandwidth. It was like when Shelly Duval in THE SHINING finally looks at Jack Nicholson’s stacks of work papers which he’s been working on manually typing out for months. Exactly the same sentence printed on hundreds of pages…..
“All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy…”
HORRIFYING.
That was my reaction. THAT was finally the explanation for why grown women on dating sites have NOTHING to say about themselves of any value ion their dating profiles. Another phenomenon and revelation to their empty-headedness. “I love to laugh and travel. I feel just as comfortable in a little black dress as I do in jeans. I like to go out, but I also like to curl up at home in front of a movie. I breathe air. I eat food, my favorite show is Grey’s Anatomy, and my favorite book is The Secret. Must love dogs. My kids are the most important thing in my life. My friends would say I am ____(list of adjectives everyone else uses) ____. Oh! And PS, I’m a foodie.”
… and she thinks she has said something about herself.
I’m telling you gents, spreading their non-thinking s~~~ all over social media is a positive. But not for them. I don’t need to date that uninteresting t~~~ for 2 seconds. I don’t care how cute she is, two sentences in and I’m already breaking up with her, selling everything on EBAY and I’ll only leave her with the mini-van. Just speed flip through Match.com for a couple of hours and you will not find a single woman who can tell you how she will add value to your life. I know this because I worked for a couple of “online dating” companies. That’s a front row seat to understanding women are no “mystery”.
She will tell you what you’re supposed to do for her, though. She will even give you 10 reason why you should NOT message her: “Don’t message me unless………”. F~~~ you. You still haven’t given a single reason to message you at all, and you’re telling me NOT to? Okay. If you say so! NEXT!
You know the expression “enjoy the decline”? Every chick who uploads selfie of her t~~~ and ass, hasn’t realize that facial recognition means she can never be the next CEO of Google. Rather than deterring them.
Don’t just enjoy the decline. Accellerate it.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.lol keymaster! you nailed it! Thats exactly what every bitch on every single dating site I’ve ever seen writes on their posts! All this talk about facebook made me think of one of my favorite youtubers videos, I don’t know if you guys have ever seen Iluv2rant but he is hilarious and rips on facebook bitches all the time.
Anonymous42PRINT. It’s there forever. It’s an excellent insight into the vapid female mind. Where they once had the world convinced women are some “deep mystery” and their hearts are “an ocean of secrets”…. they are no mystery. They’re an algorithm.
There were THOUSANDS of posts, and almost ALL of them were only one sentence or two at most. Endless threads – one after the other
Hey KeyMaster, you were plugged directly into the MATRIX main cable. Your knowledge is factual, my knowledge is “terrestrial”, I “now” truly understand why this site exists. Your sense of outrage I personally understand, as I also “had” a website exposing outrageous injustice and indifference between people, law, and justice.
Nobody on this earth could shame you, I know what it’s like to be inundated with personal conviction and strong sense of outrage! It took me 2 years of thinking on my feet,I investigated thousands of documents, minutes of meetings, old correspondence, reading Roberts rules of parliamentary law, the U.S. constitution, and bill of rights, including many state constitutions. I was correlating chronological human events over a 32 year span. “They” also “tried” to shame me, false criminal charges, harassment, with true and definable official oppression, criminal reckless endangerment, operating without a license, contempt of court order, and whole slew of IGNORED and UNADDRESSED, COMPLAINTS, filed in due process; Done in diligent and immediate due process. MY government is DEAD, DECEASED, and NOW OPERATED by TYRANTS!
Enough ranting for now, anyway I Understand your OUTRAGE at these creatures in the HIVE! They truly are destroying everything we hold sacred, the f~~~ing nerve to emasculate women using the law, the media, and these f~~~ing birdbrain, brainwash, GOD DAMN MOTHER F~~~ING STUPID AIR HEAD WOMEN FOR A POOL OF VOTERS,,,, THEY WILL REVOKE THERE OWN PRIVILEGE IN THE DESTRUCTION OF EVERYTHING THEY MOLESTED, PERVERTED, AND RUINED! not just destroy men, manhood, and manly, …….
Any way I have strong sense or your outrage, I see it too…..THE TRUTH!
I’m going on break, to shovel more SNOW! don’t be surprised if I break the shovel and never remove SNOW again!
@ keymaster,
I just wanted to share something I learned from a computer guy at match. He did data analysis.
What he said is that the best way to meet women that are half way decent and likely to be receptive to your advances, are those who had joined no later than one month ago. He said that after that first month of numerous emails and endless dates they either find someone or become burnt out. He told me these burnt out women have something wrong with them and are chronically single.
So the key, according to this guy, and seems to work for me, is to set your settings to most recently joined match and go for the most recent ones that fit your category.
See new MGTOW. It’s not about rejecting half the population it’s about learning to respect yourself so that you can put your dreams and desires first instead of the societal programming that says your only value is that of pack mule.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
On topic, I have no digital signature that I can help. No facebook, no instagram, no twitter and try not to watch too much tv. With less tv, I find that I’m reading a lot more and this is really improving my production at work.
I come from a NY Italian family. What I learned: Keep a low profile.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
If there’s anything I’ve noticed about women without a Facebook page, is that they’re rather more intelligent than their social media-obsessed counterparts. Most of them are educated or more interested with pursuing their interests than telling everyone literally every single thing going on in their lives. The few that I’ve communicated with that didn’t have a Facebook (or rarely use it at all) are much better at holding a conversation than the ones that update their lives 24/7 and reply to messages from me with one to two words (I HATE that). Phrases like “okay,” “lol,” “yea,” “ikr…” I immediately cut those messages off and stop talking to them. A lot of them come back to me a little later “where did you go!?” It’s like I owe them some conversation or something! No!! If she’s going to be boring (like most women are at conversation 98% of the time), I’m not even going to waste my time!
why do they feel the need to put absolutely EVERYTHING on social media?
They do it for ATTENTION…but it’s also FOREVER.
It’s a digital “skeleton in the closet”, except there’s no door.
Anonymous42On topic, I have no digital signature that I can help. No facebook, no instagram, no twitter and try not to watch too much tv. With less tv, I find that I’m reading a lot more and this is really improving my production at work. I come from a NY Italian family. What I learned: Keep a low profile.
Hey Hr Puff, The only social media “I have” is here on MGTOW and U-Tube. I have hundreds of movies I don’t watch anymore, TV programming is extinct in my life. I too am reading allot more, and thanks to this site and UT I’m writing allot more.
No photograph of myself ever on the “web”(spider web), “they” all ready know who I am, “they know who you are”, Langley VA, knows who everybody is. So therefor our grandfathers were right it their time setting, when secrets could be kept. These days one is better off with the profile of “pin” so that aggressors know they will be pricked! The world is changing, not for the good, but for the bad.
To lay down in fear in times like this “is” (be) the BLUE PILL HELL. I’D rather be shot, than to obey tyranny as it tramples me to death anyway!
I remember in grade 4, some guys conspired to sneak off with a girls diary at lunch and pick the lock with a paper clip, well they got it, but they didn’t get into it and they wrecked the lock and got in a world of trouble. To think I almost participated.
Yes, social media is what caused me to also realize just how vapid women are. I’ve seen alot of profiles on facebook over the years (digging) and almost all of them were full of junk, pictures of them c~~~ed up(drunk), pictures with horrible alterations and vapid statements, stupid expressions and those stupid bitstrips that aren’t funny.
To think when I was younger and more naive I used to think they were writing honestly about themselves, ugh.
I especially hated it when trying to have an intelligent conversation with them on MSN and they could only respond with “oic” or some equally lame abbreviation.
Narcissism f~~~ed insecurity and the love child was Facebook.
Narcissism f~~~ed insecurity and the love child was Facebook.
F~~~ING…BRILLIANT! You captured the essence of f~~~edbook very succinctly and very accurately.
<rises to feet and begins slow clap>
HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...
Anonymous42<rising and clapping>
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I am slowly deprogramming myself from Facebook. I am only on there because if it wasn’t for that site, I’d never know the hell what my family is up to because instead of wanting to call me or text me, they post all their s~~~ on Facebook. I’m going to a family reunion on Saturday with relatives I hadn’t seen in a year, and they wouldn’t dream of letting anyone know about it over the phone.
I am no longer joining new groups, I am actually leaving from several of them. Most of the rest are MGTOW-related groups and my participation in them has gone down 50 percent in the last month. I am just getting sick of the whole thing–people changing their status every time they go to take a s~~~ and like one of the posts on here said, I’m seeing people posting pictures of what they’re having for dinner and then they get all p~~~ed if they don’t get enough likes. I don’t f~~~ing care what you had for dinner or to see what shirt you’re wearing. I don’t like seeing your bathroom selfies of how stupid you want to look.
Facebook has been pretty useful for me, but the negatives are far outweighing the likes. Also when people are trying to get you to be on it more. On one MGTOW group, one of the admins posted that he expects everyone to post on there about stuff they’re doing with their life. Yeah, f~~~ you, pal. You’re in no position to tell me what to do with my personal life. I have 4 hours free to myself every day from when I wake up to when I have to leave for work to start a grueling 10-hour overnight shift. I’m not going to waste any of that time helping to inflate your ego by giving you a briefing on my personal life.
I haven’t made a Facebook post in three months, and that post was me warning everybody that they better not be sending me any more of those motherf~~~ing invites to playing childish games on Facebook. Several people “liked” this status and continued to send me game invites anyway. They were quickly removed from my friends list. No second chances, no hesitation. Go f~~~ yourself. Just because you spend 10 hours a day playing games on Facebook doesn’t mean that everyone else does. We have things to do with our day. Facebook has just made people more lazy, stupid, and actually more pathetic as they seek validation of everything they do in their lives as to how many people “like” their status.
Yes John Doe (another comfortable +1 for you), very neat the way you narrowed it down in one little sentence. And I do share the verdicts of this great thread by most of you. I may still (just about) have a FB account but for the most part, because I somehow occasionally need it to keep in touch with my best (!) colleagues and friends. Mind you, from the very start when I joined there I always kept the numbers of those “virtual” friends of mine, all of which I met at least once in real life, down to a manageable maximum of just about 3 figures or preferably 2 figures so that I can realistically handle them all without too much effort. So far I stuck to this very rule of mine. Also ever since I joined this forum, my activities on FB by comparison has dwindled significantly.
As far as the female obsession with social media goes, meanwhile I tend to view that with a bit of a carefree smirk on my face whenever noticing it, ie. on public transports thanks to the invention of the smart phone the expression “phubbing” springs to mind here. In recent months I started turning my observations in that sense into some kind of a game. Whenever being on a public transport and watching a woman entering (not already holding her smart phone in her hand) I start counting the seconds until she takes the smart phone out of her bag to start frantically tipping on it. The record so far stands at about 8 seconds upon entrance quite fascinating…
… and funny when you think about it that most probably the smart phone originally was invented by a man and got eventually handed over to women only for them to pick out the most beneficial “raisins” serving exclusively for their own sake (as they do it with everything else stereotypically) as in the two main points connect in the very action of phubbing —> A) to simply satisfy their extreme urge to stay in social (gossip) contact with all of their female friends and some handpicked male friends or other “attention donors” at their very finger tips and B) to successfully pretend, that they are way too busy to take note of anything happening around them in the real world and of course thus preventing any “unworthy guys” within their environment to dare and chat them up (unless he was crazy enough to cheekily just grab their out of their hands to then chat ’em up, which no blue pill self respecting nice guy would ever do anyway and what all women are secretly relying upon, still what a funny thought…). Now considering that back in the days when the first smart phone just about was released on the market, initially it was men who mostly used it, whilst most women kept rather skeptical about its usefulness (in a discrediting “boys and their toys” kind of way). Well, as you know we have also come a long way since then, too, since eventually some stupid man one day somewhere has shown his girlfriend or wife how to use it and what wonders in terms of chatting you can do with it. So eventually the word spread around amongst women like wild fire and ever since then, well … … nuff said.
That also reminds me of a little joke which goes like this: “Hey lady, do you know what that blurry outline of your smart phone is called..? By the way, just as a hint, it’s called “real life”…”
As for myself, I don’t even own any smart phone. No, I got a classical old school dumb phone (like an almost 10 year old small Ericsson walk man cell phone with a crappy camera and hardly any internet options which I intentionally keep disabled anyway), for which I already had bought a couple of spare new rechargeable batteries before and I shall keep using it until those kinds of batteries will no longer be available in specialized shops and/or until this phone will eventually crumble to dust in my very fingers or break down badly. Whenever I do want to get onto the internet I mostly do it from home or from work since I plain and simply don’t have to have any mobile access to it wherever I go. If I want to meet up with people I’ ll either phone them up or I’ll send an (old school) SMS.
Do feel free to call me “old school”. To me that’ll be a compliment. So much for that.
Ned T.
I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC
They do it to brag and make people jealous,and make their lives something, which is never the case. But at times, it backfires on them, which is why they need to take a “break” from facebook, when that happens you can see their insecurities and jealousy at its finest.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
Anonymous11I mainly use my Facebook account to plant strategically implemented false and useless information about myself in order to pollute their profiling databases. I’ll occasionally post something trite so that my sister knows I’m still alive as I tend to go ghost whenever I f~~~ing feel like it.
I know right. I only use Facebook to chat with my friends and that’s about it. I’m not up for the media’s bulls~~~. I find Hash tags really annoying. It doesn’t really voice anything. It’s only used for attention. I’m planning to opted out of Facebook cause i don’t find it useful in life.
@coolsideofthepillow – brilliantly insightful post, man. It was so good I’m going to post the sign that’s on my front screen glass door that’s prevented the f~~~ing doorbell from ringing for over 12 years since I retired in 2003 – feel free to steal it and modify it to suit your own preferences. It works. You may have the very seldom asshole that rings the bell anyway but then you’re allowed free reign to be insulting to their face for not respecting your wishes – if I’m outed for posting this, que sera …
Do NOT ring the doorbell if you are here about:
(1) Politics
(2) Sales of ANY kind including the KC Star newspaper
(3) Charities or donations of any kind
(4) Free offers or estimates
(5) Religion
(6) Petitions and environmental issues
(7) Anything for which you have not been invited, you are not expected or you are not here in an official capacity
Thank you for respecting my request
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