female nature

[Anonymous 0]

One of the more challenging aspects for me in dealing with women is how unempathetic and non-understanding they can be regardless of their relation to me: mother, sister, aunt, niece, grandmother, ex girlfriend, ex-wife. Men can be this way too, but I’ve never felt that females are particularly more “nurturing” than men. Indeed, much less so. When females are negatively over-emotional, they are particularly cruel and unfeeling and bereft of understanding. It’s a hard pill for me to swallow. I’m still in a little denial about that.

After a recent breakup with my ex-girlfriend, I told her not to contact me, but she did anyways a couple of days ago. Instead of ignoring her email, I decided to give her another chance for us to make amends and perhaps preserve a friendship. I clearly told her at the beginning that I considered us enemies, but that I was willing to respectfully discuss some topics that had divided us, and only under certain conditions, for the purpose of mending a friendship. I gave her an outline of the topics (not for discussion right then by email, but at a later time in person) so that she could decide whether she wanted to even try. She carelessly misread and responded to my email, violated the boundaries I set in my email, and within minutes escalated the exchange into a s~~~ show, and then blamed me for being difficult. How dense can she be? *She reached out to me* to make amends. Against my better judgment to ignore her, I gave her a chance like she wanted, but with boundaries, and she immediately ran roughshod over those boundaries. I make a concerted effort to clearly state what my boundaries are, but she has often had a problem respecting my boundaries, and then she attacks me when I hold her accountable for disrespecting my boundaries. She wants respect, compassion, and whatever else, but then she gives none…and she doesn’t even recognize herself doing it.

That exchange was probably the final blow to whatever relationship we might have had. I still feel vulnerable. If she tried to make amends again and respected my boundaries, I’d probably give her a chance for us to do so. I can’t help it. I really liked her a lot, but *god* she can be so careless and dense. When she’s not over-emotional, she comes across as a fairly rational person.

Sorry, I’m just kind of rambling. I’m monking, but I haven’t completely transitioned over from the denial and grief stage. It’s hard to accept that the dream of a happy relationship is an illusion wrecked by the plague of gynocentrism and how that enables the worst part of female nature. Give ’em rope, and they hang themselves by it!

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Sorry to hear this. In order to be full monk you are going to have to fully ignore her. And it will be tough. But you will prosper. And evolve. Peace be with you.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Theire responses are that way because they respond (of course, emotionally) like a child/teenager, rather than an adult.

As others have pointed out here, their brains develop faster, earlier, but they also STOP developing earlier. When you think about it, and how they react to things in the adult world, you sadly have to conclude it’s true. Their brain stops development in the teen years.

This is not saying they do not learn skills and become proficient at things. We are talking about the personalities and how they cope with adult life. Look at the expectations set up for girls as women compared to boys as men. You will see they are far from the same. Much more is on boys shoulders. Duty. Honor. Loyalty. These are not words thrown around at girls. Girls and women alike remain fickle creatures. THey change their mind on a whim. They stir up trouble just because they are bored. Most dont waste time developing a high paying career because its too much work and would reduce their fun, why do so when they can easily marry a guy who has done all the hard work? If they get tired of him they can divorce and still end up with at least half his stuff for really doing nothing but hanging around and living rent free for however long it was.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Read your whole post.

Dude you are just mourning a sexy body. I sympathize. Honestly. But she has zero respect for you. S~~~ shows and all that simply are not worth it.

WHY? Because AWALT. You know it. You observed and lived it.

AWALT. They are ALL like this. You cannot get one that isn’t like this and you still mourn. That’s your little head mourning.

Think about it. Someone offers you ten minutes a day of orgasmic pleasure. The rest of the time, 23 hours and 50 minutes, is physical and mental torture.

Crap on toast, make the right damn decision. Don’t mourn it. Right now, you are the guy in the phrase, “For every hot babe there is a guy who cannot stand her.” YOU ARE THE GUY.

Don’t be the guy who mourns pussy because there’s a lot of negative stuff that is attached to that pussy. You like a sexy body? Get a good sex doll, preferably ones where you can pick a variety of hairstyles and heads for a body style you like. Never look back. Find some good porn you like and have that playing along to get you going. You will be the happiest guy. You will see how the women your friends hang out with and get married to grind them down into nubs and maybe you won’t even see them anymore.

You always have to look at the positives of whatever situation you are currently in. Otherwise you will never be happy in ANY state you find yourself in, you will always be in a “grass is greener over there” mentality. You are free, man. Free of the toxicity.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 16983]

Anonymous wrote:

When females are negatively over-emotional, they are particularly cruel and unfeeling and bereft of understanding. It’s a hard pill for me to swallow. I’m still in a little denial about that.

It’s not ‘when’. They are like this all the time.

After a recent breakup with my ex-girlfriend, I told her not to contact me, but she did anyways a couple of days ago. Instead of ignoring her email, I decided to give her another chance for us to make amends and perhaps preserve a friendship.

An orbiter, in other words.

She carelessly misread and responded to my email, violated the boundaries I set in my email, and within minutes escalated the exchange into a s~~~ show, and then blamed me for being difficult. How dense can she be?

She isn’t being dense. She knew perfectly well what she was doing, and did it because you appeared weak.

Sorry, I’m just kind of rambling. I’m monking, but I haven’t completely transitioned over from the denial and grief stage.

You’ve been burned and it still smarts. The trick is to learn not to touch the stove again.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

I’ve had the same experience of seeing a relationship end and soon afterward getting unwanted and quarrelsome communication. Setting boundaries just doesn’t work. Establishing ‘friendship’ doesn’t work either. As long as one of the parties still wants more, it’s not going to be true friendship. In my case, the unwanted texts and phone calls ended once I stopped responding. She wasn’t getting what she wanted from it, so she cut it out. I suppose she’s somebody else’s problem now.

Your ex can’t get what she wants by respecting your boundaries and it’s not realistic for you to think otherwise. My advice: work on your life; leave her to her own devices.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Anonymous wrote:

I still feel vulnerable. If she tried to make amends again and respected my boundaries, I’d probably give her a chance for us to do so. I can’t help it.

Run Away from this one, she has the power to deceitfully pull you back to the plantation !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

You need to understand the difference between a c~~~ and a pussy.

A pussy is warm, soft and inviting. A c~~~ is the cold-hearted feminist it is attached to.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MorganptahParticipant 17]

Sorry about the hurt, confusion, anger etc. so common, always happens when men interact with women. Women are incapable of true empathy for men…only their feelings, interests are important. My advice is easy to say, hard to do…walk away, stay away from the wimmins, learn to be ok with existential aloneness.

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