Female Co-Worker Invited Me To Her Engagement Dinner Tomorrow

[EnlightenedMGTOWParticipant 291]

The default is to deflect by just saying I’ve got some family function.

How would you say no?

She sits right next to me and there is no way to avoid her pushing for my RSVP tomorrow, especially since they are all going after work. It’s all women from my workplace bringing their mangina boyfriends/husbands, w.e.

Up until now, I’ve dodged 2 workplace Christmas parties, a Thanksgiving potluck, a random Sunday afternoon brunch and a random Happy hour. The work group consists of 11 women and I.

Marriage is the disease, divorce is the cure. MGTOW is the vaccine.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Take her boyfriend.a.present that book men.on strike that should do.it

[Anonymous 0]

I would question why she is pushing so hard. Does she have a girlfriend she wants hook you up with? Does she just have “wedding rabies”? Is this a “serves you right for not paying attention to me” kind of thing? Is it a p~~~ing match between her and the other 10 women in your office. (HaHa. He came to my party and not yours.) Whatever her motivation, it is not in your best interest. I would be suspicious.

[Anonymous 0]

Hey Red pill man,
I just saw your post PERFECT

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

“Nope, can’t make it. Sorry.”

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Easy:

“There has always been egagement dinners. IT’S THE F~~~ING WEDDING RECEPTION!”

You’re welcome.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 26]

What if you asked her…. “what’s in it for me”?

Sounds like torture to me….. I’d play the smart ass angle and tell her…. “you’d have to pay me to come”.

[AttonParticipant]

Decide and make your decision clear do so without argument or hesitation and stick to it.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

I don’t understand. Why all this beating around the bush. Can’t you just say no?

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

XSDBS wrote:

“Nope, can’t make it. Sorry.”

Yup. Alternately, if you want to round out the edges a bit more, i usually use:

“I appreciate the invite, but i already have plans.”

If she asks what those plans are (wtf?! does this woman not understand how to take a f~~~ing hint?!) you can tell her “Just a matter i have to attend to. Not really relevant to our workplace responsibilities.”

Or if you don’t care about being an asshole, just say “No thanks, that doesn’t interest me.” It’s funny that people so rarely give an honest answer to s~~~ like this, that when they do nobody knows how to take it.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

“i’m busy”

or

“i’m sorry, i’m just too tired after work; i really need what little time i have to myself to rest for the next day”

or

“i’m cleaning my house that day; it’s become pretty back logged”

or

“i have to do some much needed car maintenance that night; my power steering fluid needs to be replaced, as well as my brake pads”

or

“i just don’t do social events”

or

“i’m sorry, i prefer to keep my relationship with my co-workers strictly business as to avoid any detriments to my work performance”

i donno, i’ve never had any issues with blowing off events; “i’m busy” or “i’m too tired” always works for me.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

EnlightenedMGTOW wrote:

The work group consists of 11 women and I.

Our condolences.

EnlightenedMGTOW wrote:

How would you say no?

Engagement dinner? What the f~~~ is that. What is a co-worker doing involving everyone in her personal life? I would INSIST that’s a private thing and nobody else’s business. It’s inappropriate on so many levels. Is everyone going out for dinner to celebrate that you’re NOT dumb enough to sign a marriage contract??

It gets exhausting the way women expect everyone ELSE to celebrate their life choices, but she won’t give a F~~~ about yours. That’s why it’s just “no”. Her private life is nobody’s business. Yours isn’t either. It should be company policy. Co-workers celebrating a an “engagement” dinner?

What…. doesn’t she have any FRIENDS?????

Do not speak to women at work about anything other than work.
Do not speak to women at work about anything other than work.
Do not speak to women at work about anything other than work.

It should be policy….. and s~~~ like this will never be an issue.

“Hey everyone!! You’re all invited to my I’m-not-having-a-baby-shower!! Woot woot!!”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 29]

Too old to be invited . . .
Too old to give a s~~~ . . .
Too old to be polite and tell the guy I approve of it.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Wolf redpillman wrote:

Take her boyfriend.a.present that book men.on strike that should do.it

The Rational Male as well.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[RoyDalParticipant]

I used to be glad to receive invitations like that. The school of hard knocks educated me to hold the opposite view. “No thank you” is what I say these days.

I say yes only to relatives and very close friends.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Cap285Participant 6007]

“I’m not going to a party to watch blue pill people act like f~~~ing idiots.”

You’re welcome.

Fuck this planet.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Are you supposed to bring gifts? That’s why your invited.

Also, it is to show her victim look “now that you agreed to become my slave look how popular you are “.

Edit: when did engagement parties start? Just another chance for her to show off her victory.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m going with MattNYC’s round the edges suggestion. It is a workplace issue, and you do not want to cause trouble there. Just be creative and keep is simple with a little sugar coating.

Engagement dinners where you invite others. WTF???

I’ve turned down a few baby shower invitations over the years too. It’s nothing but materialistic attention whoring there is nothing in it for you.

[Anonymous 26]

yeah am gonna change my previous last night’s post…. in hind site of having to work with these weeminz and concur with C-Pig and MattNYC.

Best to state something like “thanks but I like to keep work and personal life separate”.

and really when you think about it where occasions when women want to celebrate something in their lives… in their minds it’s insinuated that gifts will be received From since being a child that’s how they associated it while being called a little princess.

It’s a ridiculous practice…. if we men did sort of the same, that is how women would see it too.

“WOAH Dave that was a wickly long loud smelly fart you just cut…. you deserve presents…c’mon boys let’s buy him some new tools”.

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