I attribute the final stage of it all clicking for me to this website, the stories shared by all of you and my willingness to look for another way. . . . . .not just another way, but a rational and logical way based on all objective facts of reality combined with my own experiences up to this point.
When it finally clicked and I mean totally clicked – when my evolution to MGTOW was finally complete. I didn’t feel any daily pressure anymore. I did not feel that something was missing from my life because I did not currently have an attractive woman by my side, as my girlfriend that lived at my house, etc: while systematically and very calculatingly extracted time, money and other resources from me under the guise of a ‘relationship’. I started to look up at the sky, actually look up in the morning when I walked outside and it appeared different to me for the first time in my life. I didn’t feel like I had to change who I was for the sake of the world (and women) and emotionally and spiritually, it felt like a huge weight had been lifted off of me. In every imaginable way, I felt absolutely free.
I feel now as if I have a solid, and objective purpose in life and it is a life that is devoid of any irrational expectations, need for approval and validation from others, including women and I feel like I had lived the previous (almost four) decades in a prison cell and I was finally set free. Although in looking back on that cell, it turned out that the metal door was never locked – I just thought it was and was so afraid to try to open it that I continued believing it was locked. It never was and I like many other men, could have escaped at any point. We are free, we were always free and will always be free.
And as far as women being interested, now that I am at the point where I could care less. It is absolutely incredible how women actually sense when a guy doesn’t care anymore. It almost infuriates them and nothing will attract women more than a guy that is immune from whatever perceived and/or imagined power those women might have held over him in the past all because they have a vagina. Once women sense a guy doesn’t care, is a self actualized male and has the power to walk away from a gaping, wet hole even it was a foot in front of him, they really start to turn things on a whole new level. The magic in that and in getting to a point where a guy is MGTOW, he can literally sit back and laugh at the attempts women make to secure attention and try to seduce a guy with sex. In the end, that is a true and ultimate victory for any guy going MGTOW. We finally have figured out the game, know what a lost cause it is, have the wisdom to sit back and watch it when possible and literally just not give a f~~~. That is a victory, a total and complete victory.
At that point, we have all of the time in the world. Time is a resource and a finite one, but a guy that has gone MGTOW has increased his supply of time in ways that are incalculable and he does so not by being able to create more time, but rather it is done through eliminating all of the things that could have previously impacted his ability to do whatever he wanted with his time and use it any way he wants to. Which at this point, is the pursuit of my dreams, goals and aspirations. Hobbies, traveling, improving myself and enjoying life. All made possible by the time that I re-secured and made mine by eliminating anything else that was meaningless, had no value and posed a potential threat to my most valuable resource: time.
The awakening is a surreal experience and in the beginning stages, for myself at least was almost like a drug. I needed more of it as I approached my final goal of freedom (MGTOW) and I was doing everything I could to get to that point, which included:
An in depth assessment of how I had previous lived my life in terms of women, relationships and sex.
Becoming intellectually and emotionally honest with myself about the consequences to my quality of life from the previous path.
Studying and learning everything I could about how the dynamics of modern/contemporary relationships worked as well as what my life would be like if I continued down the same road.
Becoming a master of my emotions. A master of something that due to orgasms, conditioning and believing in the façade known as romantic love, use to control my life and essentially enslaved me to a point.
And finally, embracing the awakening. Loving it as much as MGTOW has allowed me to start loving myself. And consciously realizing that there is no turning back ever again.
Sky-O
bigboy83 4 years, 5 months ago.
