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Hey everyone
I’m curious what some of the members insights/opinions are on the following matter: What do you think about a guy, that steals a female from another man?
Do you find it acceptable? Have you BEEN that guy? Even though you may know nothing about this dude. . .
I know this might be a broad subject, since there can be many reasons I suppose for why a woman will leave her man for someone else. Personally, in a case like this I would very much like to kick the s~~~ out of any guy (which is typically male, as a way to mitigate damage to the ego or pride) and destroy the reputation of any female that decides to do this to a man.
Yes, I believe many of you will be saying “Quite frankly, the guy did you a favor. If she did it to you, she will do it to him” although that’s not the point.
Just curious as to what some of your thoughts may be. I went through a situation like this recently and it may be wrong of me but I hope they fail miserably. It feels like the only way to restore my pride is by going over there and kicking the s~~~ out of this dude, and if I can’t i’d like to break his f~~~ing nose before I hit the dirt.
Although this discussion is not about me! Just curious. . .what do YOU think about guys like this? How do you keep yourself from feeling like less of a man when blue pill men seem to be rubbing your face in their s~~~?
Don’t mean to sound like i’m coming back to my previous post I made in the Gaming section. Just trying to find different perspectives to look at in given situations.
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I don't know about Angels, but it's fear that gives men wings.
Anonymous54Don’t let others determine your worth as a Man.Hes just a low life,but it was HER dicission to leave you. Revenge is a waste of time as some one once said.I believe in letting karma balance out the universe. Living well is the best revenge.
I do agree, nothing good will come out of deciding to do something like that. I’ll just play an active part in diminishing my OWN worth. Just want to be clear i’ve not done anything like that, and nor do I intend to.
I don't know about Angels, but it's fear that gives men wings.
I think you need to swallow the red pill and continue to read these forums. Violence towards a woman or for a woman has nothing to do with MGTOW.
Let me ask you a question in turn: If they do fail and she comes to you, will you take her back? If yes, see my first sentence. If no, then why do you still care?
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
I’d handle it in true red-pill MGTOW style:
1. If it was a guy I didn’t know,well I’m not going to
blame him for wanting to get laid,so I’d kick my
cheating whore out on the street,then sit down and
have a beer with the dude!2. If I knew both of them,well they’d both be hitting
the road after which I’d crack a beer and post my
story on MGTOW.com!You see women expect us to act with typical male logic,
beat the s~~~ out of the guy but do nothing with her,
well, the times they are a changin’Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!
I think you need to swallow the red pill and continue to read these forums. Violence towards a woman or for a woman has nothing to do with MGTOW.
As I said, this is not the way I would approach this. I am merely stating what I feel internally, but of course I have more sense than that. Otherwise I would have taken steps instead of verbalizing what I feel instead. I am neither implying I would do it FOR her. Just wanted to clear that bit up.
Let me ask you a question in turn: If they do fail and she comes to you, will you take her back? If yes, see my first sentence. If no, then why do you still care?
The answer here is most definitely no. It’s not as simple in my case just yet as it might be for you to just shrug it off and continue like nothing happened. I am dealing with the anger in what I believe to be a constructive manner, by focusing on myself instead. I was ready to spend my life with this one, and although I am glad she has shown her true colors rather now than later that doesn’t mean i’m not hurt.
I’d handle it in true red-pill MGTOW style:
1. If it was a guy I didn’t know,well I’m not going to
blame him for wanting to get laid,so I’d kick my
cheating whore out on the street,then sit down and
have a beer with the dude!2. If I knew both of them,well they’d both be hitting
the road after which I’d crack a beer and post my
story on MGTOW.com!You see women expect us to act with typical male logic,
beat the s~~~ out of the guy but do nothing with her,
well, the times they are a changin’As I said also, that’s exactly what i’m NOT going to do 🙂 After everything that has happened I’ve literally not made a single demeaning comment directly at her out of self-respect, and i’m not going to put the idea into her mind either that she made the right choice by acting like a 12 year old and starting fights.
The message I was trying to convey was not that this is what i’m going to do. Just thought I would state what’s happening emotionally inside me. I have no intention of taking any such action 🙂 Thanks still, for the feedback.
I don't know about Angels, but it's fear that gives men wings.
Well in my opinion you’d only feel less of a man if you were deriving your value from the woman you were with.
A guy cannot steal a woman from another guy, unless he actually kidnaps her, she has to go by her own accord, so she has to choose to leave one guy for another and that’s her choice.
You can argue the guy might be flirting with her, but I would only put a minimal amount of guilt on him, ultimately it’s the woman that chooses if she stays or goes.
You cannot do anything about free will, there’s always a bigger fish and women will always try to get in bed with the guy that can give them the most.If this happened to you, fighting either one, physically or attacking their character would be a complete waste of time, drop it, let it go, move on.
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I’ve never done it myself, it’s always been one of my rules. If I can take a girl from another man, then some other man will take her from me. I’m not c~~~y enough to think I’m the end-all be-all of all men.
To your point, did the guy know she had a boyfriend? If not, then it’s 100% on her. If he did know, then he’s a piece of s~~~ too. Either way she’s a piece of s~~~.
I had that happen to me at least once where the guy knew and didn’t give a s~~~. Had I seen him in the first month or so I probably would have popped him. He knew I existed, but I’m assuming he didn’t know that I’m about 6’5″ and 240. Throw in some anger and I probably could have put him in the hospital.
Luckily for both of us I never saw him. And eventually I didn’t give a damn anymore. F~~~ her, you can have her. The funny thing was when I dumped her I was getting phone calls from her best friend saying that I needed to help, that she wouldn’t eat, poor her. But here is the kicker, her best friend set them up! I had known this girl for 4 years and always got along great with her, but she decides to set my girlfriend up with her boyfriend’s best friend. For a one weekend double date f~~~ fest. And then calls ME to fix the mess the ex is in.
So, obviously the new guy didn’t do it for her or she would have just started dating him. And she lost her boyfriend of 4 years. If that’s your BEST friend, I’d hate to see her worst enemy. But it was her decision to cheat, and mine to not put up with it.
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First, I think you are justified for feeling the way you feel. I wouldn’t go looking for revenge, but it’s natural to want it. Just know that getting revenge won’t satisfy you.
A guy interfering in another man’s relationship can take lots of forms and the guy’s guilt varies.
Friendzoned guy – I have seen a friendzoned guy try and break up relationship. I understand in many ways since he was there first. I blame her for not being honest with him upfront.
Innocent friend – I have see a guy think have no intentions with the girl, and believe he can hang out with her without causing damage to her relationship. I’ve been that guy before. Then you find out that she was ‘falling for you’ or using you to make her BF jealous, etc, etc.
Nosy friend – I have seen friends get involved in a relationship and start giving advice they think is good, but ends up causing harm. This is that guys fault for not minding his business.
Saboteur – This is the guy that intentionally tries to kill the relationship for his own benefit. Could be cheating or just trying to mess things up. I blame him and her for letting this happen.
Affair dude – This is the guy who just wants sex with your woman. He may or may not know she is married. Almost doesn’t matter, as he is upfront about who he is. I blame her for falling for his games.
Victim – This is when she is completely going for him, while he is trying to avoid it. He keeps it quite because he doesn’t want to cause trouble. He may or may not end up sleeping with her, but the damage is done. I don’t really blame this guy too much, but completely blame her.
Ok. Then do it.
At the end of the day when she moves on to the other guy you need to care about yourself only. Who cares how they got there they are already there without you and you are standing on the building looking in the distance still trying to figure out if they got their by car, plane, boat etc. There was nothing you could do to stop them from moving to that direction even if you did figure out how they were going to get there prior to the trip, the destination still would have been the same. If it wasn’t with that guy than eventually some other guy would take his place no point in trying to figure out what goes on inside the hamster wheel of women.
What do you think about a guy, that steals a female from another man?
He can have her. Any women who is so readily “stolen” isn’t worth “having”.
Yes, I believe many of you will be saying “Quite frankly, the guy did you a favor. If she did it to you, she will do it to him” although that’s not the point.
But it’s true.
it may be wrong of me but I hope they fail miserably.
Hope has nothing to do with it. By “stealing” her he already has failed miserably. He just doesn’t know it yet.
It feels like the only way to restore my pride is by going over there and kicking the s~~~ out of this dude, and if I can’t i’d like to break his f~~~ing nose before I hit the dirt.
Yeah, don’t do that. Because that’s EXACTLY what that inconstant bitch wants you to do. She WANTS you to fight over her (or at least because of her) because it validates her and tells her she is valuable and desired. It makes her think she is worth “having”, and makes him think he’s somehow “won” something by “having” her.
Why would you give them that?
No, if you really want to f~~~ with them, and I mean REALLY screw them over, thank the guy for doing you a favor. Tell him you’ve been trying to figure out a way to dump her ass for weeks. Wish them both all the best going forward while trying to keep a straight face, and then laugh as you walk away a free man.
In stead of making her seem valuable and wanted, this completely strips her of any perceived value, both in her own mind and his, while massively increasing your own perceived value. He will be left wondering just what the f~~~ nightmare he has gotten himself into with her, and she will forever more regret losing you as The One That Got Away.
But that’s their problem, not yours.
See, women are not possessions that can be stolen, though not in the way that feminists would have us believe. Believing they are is the worst sort of blue pill thinking.
No, women are AT BEST merely pleasant diversions for a few hours or an afternoon or at most a night. Beyond that they are just a burden. So what do you care if one lets herself be “stolen”? That’s like worrying about someone “stealing” the car you’re only taking out for a test drive. Sure, it’s an annoyance sometimes, but ultimately it’s the dealer’s (a.k.a. the woman’s) loss, not yours.
And fighting with the “woman thief” would be like fighting the “car thief”. You’d only be fighting on behalf of the dealer, not yourself, so why do it?
what do YOU think about guys like this?
Honestly? I kind of feel a little sorry for the poor, stupid bastards not knowing any better.
How do you keep yourself from feeling like less of a man when blue pill men seem to be rubbing your face in their s~~~?
But that’s just it. It’s s~~~. It’s just s~~~. Why do you give a f~~~ about s~~~? That’s something to step over and walk away from. If they want to wallow in it, that’s their business. Why would you make it yours?
And feeling like “less of a man”? Why would you ever feel like less of a man to a chump like that? Because that’s what any man is who puts any value on a woman’s s~~~ enough to want to “steal” it: he’s a chump. Just think about all the s~~~ from her he’s going to have to put up with now just to “keep” her, and he will, because he’s a chump.
Chumps are for laughing at, not for being one.
The “”feeling ” of being less of a man because of some blue pill guy is only that. .a feeling.
Feelings aren’t facts.
Time to cool down and let time do its magic. .
You don’t lose when you “Lose” a cheating whore.
You WIN !Hey everyone
I’m curious what some of the members insights/opinions are on the following matter: What do you think about a guy, that steals a female from another man?
Do you find it acceptable? Have you BEEN that guy? Even though you may know nothing about this dude. . .
I know this might be a broad subject, since there can be many reasons I suppose for why a woman will leave her man for someone else. Personally, in a case like this I would very much like to kick the s~~~ out of any guy (which is typically male, as a way to mitigate damage to the ego or pride) and destroy the reputation of any female that decides to do this to a man.
Yes, I believe many of you will be saying “Quite frankly, the guy did you a favor. If she did it to you, she will do it to him” although that’s not the point.
Just curious as to what some of your thoughts may be. I went through a situation like this recently and it may be wrong of me but I hope they fail miserably. It feels like the only way to restore my pride is by going over there and kicking the s~~~ out of this dude, and if I can’t i’d like to break his f~~~ing nose before I hit the dirt.
Although this discussion is not about me! Just curious. . .what do YOU think about guys like this? How do you keep yourself from feeling like less of a man when blue pill men seem to be rubbing your face in their s~~~?
Don’t mean to sound like i’m coming back to my previous post I made in the Gaming section. Just trying to find different perspectives to look at in given situations.
Cool
The chad displays more alpha characteristics than her bf at the vulnerable moments during relationship..So she monkey branching herself to him and then try to find next chad,whenever the opportunity arises…So if we are going blame this guy and fight with him..go on for sure…but you will find her justifying monkey branching (on her emotional tempers) to next guy till they hit the wall to find beta men provider(a.k.a nice guy) to settle down…
Feelings are just your mind playing tricks on you. Brother, listen to these guys….they aren’t steering you wrong. Think of it as your older uncle, trying to give you wisdom.
The fact that we turn against our fellow MAN, is a crime in itself. I am guilty of it years ago, I was the “white knight”. The only thing was— she lied about everything this “terrible man” did. And hey, to her credit it worked– she pulled in another one. It wasn’t until years later (present day I guess), that I feel bad for the sonofabitch, and would have liked to sit down and tell him “I hope you know she played both of us like fools. We both fell into the lies, and I am sorry brother”. But, society isn’t like that– people are out for blood instead of out for the better of humanity.
I have many friends in relationships. I do not look down on them, and nor do they me. To be my friend you have to accept this is the way I am, period. I’ve lost lots of friends through the decades, but have many that I have known 20+ years. All I tell them is “Hey man, you might have found the unicorn”. Lol
Done both and been through both.
What your going through is normal. And this is my first piece of advice:
When you are angry/depressed about this acknowledge these two things>
-What your going through is normal that means you are mentally healthy.
-These things happen all the time and both parties are to blame. The man is an asshole and what he did was wrong. And well….the woman’s behavior? The forums will give plenty of insight into that.In regards to their failure? They will fail and suffer…period. You won’t have to worry about that. Instead worry about how “attached” you are to this “whole situation”.
We all f~~~ and are f~~~ed….its life.
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