Family Pressure & Match Frustration

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Oh and your post reminded me. I had a long term girlfriend once that kept saying all her friends and family thought we should get married, that it would be wonderful. I told her to approach her friends and family and get them to sign a legal document agreeing to reimburse me for any financial loss if we ended up divorced. She said that was a ridiculous notion. I told her that putting pressure on others to get married was no less ridiculous.
We never did marry

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Hey man I’ve tried Match and I can honestly say it is nothing more than a cesspool and a huge waste of money. My experience was just riddled with superficial c~~~s. It was a pain in the ass since most women I matched with wouldn’t even reply. When the women would reply, most would give short, uninterested answers. In the rare occasions that a conversation was going well, I could MAYBE manage to get their number. Out of the 5 girls that gave me their numbers, I only had 3 that made actual plans to go on a date with me. Out of the 3 dates, 2 of them flaked out of the plans. The 1 date I actually had was terrible. The girl catfished the hell out of me. She was 50 lbs heavier than any of the pictures she had posted. Women want a “real” man, but there isn’t anything genuine about them. Then they hit the wall and regret their mistreatment of the good men they trashed along the way. I just say f~~~ them, and let them wallow in self loathing. NFG here!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

You might want to tell your parents that you have met a wonderful woman you are in love with and that you think could be ‘the one’. Tell them she is impressed by how much you earn and keeps asking how much you will inherit when your parents die. You might want to add that she keeps asking how old your parents are and whether they are in good health. Let that one sink in. They might not be so keen on you get you getting married after all.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

…….The girl catfished the hell out of me…….

The popular word to describe their behavior, catfishing, is not strong enough and it seems to cover up there filthy s~~~.

I prefer using the words fraud, deceit, grift, scam, cheat, hoax, perjury, racket, hustle…

It has been over a decade since I tried on line dating.
That foolishness ended when I discovered that the web sites were infested with too many rotten c~~~s who were fat pig liars.

The whole experience was a Red Pill.

The gender neutral description of being “Catfished” is interesting:

Catfishing is the activity of luring someone into a relationship by means of a fictional persona carried out via dating websites and apps, social media, chat rooms and instant messaging platforms.

A “catfisher” may choose to use their own photos yet pretend to be a different age, sex, profession, in a different location, and be single when they are not. A catfisher can also use someone else’s photos to create their fake identity.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

The popular word to describe their behavior, catfishing, is not strong enough and it seems to cover up there filthy s~~~.

I prefer using the words fraud, deceit, grift, scam, cheat, hoax, perjury, racket, hustle…

I concur. The word “catfishing” is just a euphemism for lying. Lying is the best thing a woman can do. Eve was the first sinner, and she duped the dumb ass Adam. Even in a theological context, men have been putting the pussy on the pedestal. All it brought us was destruction, and it has created nothing but a bunch of entitled c~~~s.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[narwhalParticipant]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

It was a pain in the ass since most women I matched with wouldn’t even reply. When the women would reply, most would give short, uninterested answers.

It’s really worse then that. I have an open profile that I do nothing with other then wait for women to message me. 90% of the time, they start off a conversation with ‘hello.’. At most, they will write 2 or 3 sentences with a “you’re funny” and maybe “how was your day”. However, once you respond, you’re supposed to carry on the conversation and entertain them. It always dies out after 2-3 messages when I refuse to put in more effort then they do.

Ok. Then do it.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Welcome Tony

The dating pool is the biggest illusion out there, it’s actually a cesspool!. Filled with hypergamy c~~~s, jizz hungry millennials, and females who are just looking for a sperm donor so that they can in fact train their daughter to treat men like s~~~, and their sons to bow down to the will of a the pussy. Either way, it is a steaming pile of radioactive s~~~ that should be avoided at all cost.

You don’t need any type of Female validation in your life, you need to take care of YOU!. Take YOU where YOU want to go, do what YOU like doing. Some will say “well that’s pretty selfish”, tell them to go f~~~ themselves!. Like Keymaster said you don’t need to explain yourself, and that is true, you know who you are, and that is all that matters.

I chased tail left and right in my 20’s got married, learned a f~~~ing vicious lesson thru abuse (from her physically), and a bitter and nasty divorce. I dated and found out there is a plethora of vile and evil hearted c~~~s who roam this earth. No Tony, if you have a hobby, goal, or dream, follow it and don;t have some female nagging you or family members asking, telling you or even downright harassing you on what to do. Tony needs to take care of TONY!.

Wish you the best.

Cheers.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Anonymous 12]

I just don’t know what to do — it’s like if I don’t do Match/online dating I won’t ever meet anyone and then I think about everything my family is saying to me and the stress kicks in.

here is what you do:
Take a break from the woman thing, sit down, read this place and pour your guts out.
Some of us will respond harshly, many of us will respond with empathy and a desire to understand, all of us will accept you for who you are and the venting you need to do.

You sound like a man under social pressure, back against the wall.
Be welcome, and please slow down.
In your mid-30s the Big head overpowers the little head. The only ones who want you trapped in marriage as a father and then in a divorce are the ones putting pressure on you – the family.

So far you resist. You understand.
Now slowly tell those that nag you to “eat your shorts”.
The pressure will cease, and the horizon will clear.

You made it this far – almost like dancing through a minefield.
Welcome. take a seat and chill with us until the confusion clears.

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