False Child Sexual Abuse Claims by Mother

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

When any of you were younger, did any of you go through the “your father sexually abused you and you can’t remember it because you repressed the memories” maneuver from the mother?

When my parents divorced, my mother would have in depth discussions about the sexual life between my father and her. It was like I was the new man in her life to listen to her problems. I ended up using sexual language and acting out, to which she suggested to me and everyone else that my father had sexually abused me. The child care services in conjunction with my mother, both seemed to work together to get me to believe this. At one point, I was fully brainwashed going to sexual abuse survivor meet ups with other boys who were diddled. I just said “I was abused by my father and I can’t remember it.” Then, you hear so much description of sexual abuse that you start to create ideas and fixate on them in your imagination. This was in Toronto in the mid-late 1980s. During this time, there was an explosion of false sexual abuse allegations. You may know that time in history.

After years of toying with the idea that I may have been sexually abused but could not remember it, I did some searching and realized that if it happened, I would surely remember it.

I saw the reports 20 years later as I retrieved them to see what was recorded in the counseling sessions. Apparently, my mother was the one insisting that it happened, and they doubted it. However, I ended up being so brainwashed that I made an allegation when I was 8 with the help of my mother. Years later I spoke to my father and explained that I was being severely brainwashed and didn’t know what was happening. I also explained that I am not the type of person who would ever do that to someone.

How do you like them apples?

[AutoliteParticipant]

InTheCountry wrote:

After years of toying with the idea that I may have been sexually abused but could not remember it, I did some searching and realized that if it happened, I would surely remember it.

I was under the impression that the ‘repressed memories’ thing was considered to just be all bullshhit among the credible psychologists….

[Branched offParticipant 10932]

Autolite wrote:

InTheCountry wrote:

After years of toying with the idea that I may have been sexually abused but could not remember it, I did some searching and realized that if it happened, I would surely remember it.

I was under the impression that the ‘repressed memories’ thing was considered to just be all bullshhit among the credible psychologists….

Bulls~~~ is not a problem to a woman with an agenda. They even say gender is a social construct when science says otherwise.

Sorry it sounds like you had a really abusive mother who did not recognise your individuality but saw you as an extension of her.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[AutoliteParticipant]

Branched off wrote:

Sorry it sounds like you had a really abusive mother who did not recognise your individuality but saw you as an extension of her.

In my own case I actually did have a very nasty mother. Most wouldn’t believe me if I told how bad she actually was. And I remember it all very clearly. There’s nothing at all ‘repressed’ reference my memories…

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

InTheCountry wrote:

When any of you were younger, did any of you go through the “your father sexually abused you and you can’t remember it because you repressed the memories” maneuver from the mother?

Naw. The lies my mother told me about my father were more along the lines that she knew who he was.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

InTheCountry wrote:

When any of you were younger, did any of you go through the “your father sexually abused you and you can’t remember it because you repressed the memories” maneuver from the mother?

Although now SOP, this is a relatively new phenomenon.

The child care services in conjunction with my mother, both seemed to work together to get me to believe this. At

No surprise there – social services is riddled with crazies and perverts.

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

My mother told lies about my father being violent, which never made sense, but I believed it. It wasn’t until later in life that I realized all the violence was her. He does not have a violent bone in him.

Branched off wrote:

They even say gender is a social construct when science

It’s doesn’t even take science to figure out gender. A newborn baby one minute after delivery understands gender.

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