Ex f~~~ buddy emailed me today

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

This ex f~~~ buddy emailed me today. Brief history between us. She was suppose to be this black, independent girl with good morals…as you can probably tell, it was all s~~~. She manipulated me, wanted to be my girlfriend, physically and verbally attacked me, threatened to kill herself and etc. All the red flags you can think of. It happened while I was with her for a whopping 2 weeks!! So today I go through my emails and I find her email. <<span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>Hey! I hope everything is good with you . Your mom , brothers and grandma. I know it’s probably not the best thing writing you but I thought of you a couple of times and I wanted to see how you are and say hello.> mind you she has never met my grandmother. The time she met my family was an accident because they came over and I told her specifically to stay in my room. But no, she comes out and introduces herself and I just look at her like really? After that, I instantly think why in the hell is she emailing me? What does she need? Since turning mgtow, I don’t play this s~~~ anymore. But hey, guy needs to f~~~ but I don’t know about putting my dick in crazy again. Your thoughts guys</span>

[RoyDalParticipant]

If I were in your shoes, I would not answer and set up a block on all future calls. Who needs a bunny boiler in his life?

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Hit the delete button.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

I deleted everything about her. Told her in person that we’re done and to stop contacting me. Changed my phone number and phone because of her! I can’t change my email because I’m taking these test to be in law enforcement and I already put that email in.

[Anonymous 1]

I would stay as far away as possible. I would not delete her emails though, you never know when you will need EVIDENCE that she contacted you…

Just don’t write back.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

No …. no no no ……. NO 😆

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

BadKan’s advice.  DON’T delete or tamper with evidence.

That same rule applies to law enforcement, and when you are dealing with crazy, you never know when that evidence (potentially of her harassment) may be useful. You hit delete and you do her a favor, not you.  But do not respond … “anything you say can and will be used against you” … so just shut up, but do keep us appraised of the situation.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[YAZParticipant 140]

We’ve all banged a crazy bitch or two in our lifetimes it seems…..her contacting you out of the blue is quite normal.  The real issue is to make sure that door stays closed.  My loony ex-wife still contacts me from time to time, and at first I responded.  Keep in mind that children are not involved and we are not bound by even the remotest financial obligations.

My mistake?

 

Responding to her.  I was brought up in the traditional nuclear family household with four….count ’em four …..sisters.  I was raised to be a gentleman by loving parents, and even through all of the trials & tribulations of dating whack jobs in my teens & early adulthood…..I was conditioned (ordered)…to be polite & kind to the female gender.  Even if they were evil.

 

When ex lovers, wives, etc. contact us……we must recognize the reasons why.

 

1.  In general, women are not solitary by nature.  They are needy social creatures that crave attention.  They even seek attention by complaining that they’re getting UNWANTED attention.  This is amazingly common.  Pay attention to this paradigm if you haven’t noticed it already.

2.  Women use the back burner on the stove just as much as the front burner.  It’s a sense of security for them, as they’ve been conditioned to use people (especially men), to get what they want.  A lot of it has to do with the idea that they don’t want to lose their initial investment.

3.  Our exes will also seek validation by contacting us.  They relish in the idea that we’re miserable without them and we need them around to complete our happiness.

 

 

Whore Magnet

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

whether or not you go back is up to you but just be aware of what she will be thinking if you respond.  She will automatically assume that you feel the same we she does.  She will think you have been thinking of her too.  This will feed her ego and she will begin to think she can start her process all over again.  It’s an automatic procedure for her.  After all, you know what she’s like and you’re coming back for it.  It may seem harmless to go get a quick booty call but that’s how all traps seem to the prey.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

I would stay as far away as possible. I would not delete her emails though, you never know when you will need EVIDENCE that she contacted you…

Just don’t write back.

Listen to this man. You have nothing to gain by contacting her back. So don’t. Even the amusement you’d get by replying: “Who are you again? I don’t remember you at all.” isn’t worth it.

[GoneGaltParticipant 36]

YAZ wrote:

I was brought up in the traditional nuclear family household with four….count ’em four …..sisters. I was raised to be a gentleman by loving parents, and even through all of the trials & tribulations of dating whack jobs in my teens & early adulthood…..I was conditioned (ordered)…to be polite & kind to the female gender. Even if they were evil.

I didn’t have sisters; but, I was also brought up to be a gentleman.  In fact I still see no reason to cease this behavior.  Being a gentleman is about more than just the opposite gender.  I am just as likely to open and hold the door for an elderly man as I am for a beautiful woman.  I try to be polite in my dealings with other people when I can.  I simply see no reason not to offer a funny quip to the cashier that looks like they are having a s~~~ty day to see if I can brighten it just a little (regardless of their gender).  The way I see it; being gentlemanly costs me nothing and can make a noticeable difference to the other person involved in the exchange.  I have met many interesting people in many interesting places simply by being pleasant.  Where I draw the line is when others see a pleasant demeanor as an opportunity to game me.  Then they are all the more surprised when I become an instant cold, calculating, SOB.

 

PS. pleasant does not apply to the OP as others have stated: save the email in an out of the way folder (I would suggest naming it “Crazywhorse”) and forget she contacted you.  Sounds like someone may be desperate for a baby daddy in 8 months.

"You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
-- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

If you respond back, you’re just inviting Satan herself back into your life. Don’t reply back in any way, just keep that email somewhere in a folder and never look back again.

[Math RoninParticipant 86]

A guy may need sexual release, but he doesn’t need to f~~~. My hand is as good as any vagina (and I can use it when I want, without having to spend money on it and waste all that time in between). Sex, IMO, is the most over-rated activity on the face of the planet. I remember after my first time, the very thought first thought I had afterwards was that old Peggy Lee line “Is that all there is?”

Nah consider yourself lucky and keep the psycho bitch locked outside for good.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Ignore her, if she causes undue problems get a restraining order. Profit.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Hit that Delete button like it’s going to save the world!.

 

Had a f~~~ buddy too once, she ended up getting clingy, needy, and very possessive of me like i was “her property”. Then she tells me “she wants me to consider the future and having children”. I walked my ass out of her place so fast, never looked back.

 

Sex was great, but the condescending tone, her misandric views on life, and her daddy issues was enough to send me running.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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