Every EX BF/Husband is a "PSYCHO"

[ghostParticipant]

This is literally all I hear. Every single girl these days says the same thing.

so what happened with your ex? why didn’t it work out?

he was a psycho.

I see

What gives? She dated/married the guy for however many years and all of a sudden he is a psycho now?

I’m pretty sure cops were called on this psycho and he was put in JAIL. I had that happen to me. I guess I’m a psycho too.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Lol, I bet that is what my ex tells people about me. I wonder how she explains how she was forced to pay for the divorce and that she is not allowed to contact me was part of the judgment, if I am so psycho.

[ghostParticipant]

Removed wrote:

I bet that is what my ex tells people about me.

You better believe it.

[MACHOParticipant]

ghost wrote:

What gives? She dated/married the guy for however many years and all of a sudden he is a psycho now?
I’m pretty sure cops were called on this psycho and he was put in JAIL. I had that happen to me. I guess I’m a psycho too

As soon as we don’t work out for them.. they dump all accountability by demonizing us! all of the sudden we turn out to be a psycho or a monster!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

LOL..Pretty much the same story..When they are ready to monkey branch, they paint us as the devil to try and justify their infidelity…And when we refuse to be destroyed but rise up stronger from the ashes, they put on an innocent f~~~ing look and try to be “friends”…F~~~ing joke…LOL…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[ghostParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

And when we refuse to be destroyed but rise up stronger from the ashes, they put on an innocent f~~~ing look and try to be “friends”

Every. Single. Time.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

Maybe guys slowly over time just stop putting up with s~~~ more and more until the woman says “You aren’t the same person I married” and decide to bail.

Yeah he isn’t the naive beta with no b~~~~ after 15 years of being kicked there every day and asking for more.

Perhaps that’s what happens in many, many cases. Yes there are plenty of psychos out there on both sides. But how did such a person slip past her keen, hypergamy radar all this time, that she only finds out 10-15 years later?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AttonParticipant]

You will be the next to be her ex.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

ghost wrote:

HER: so what happened with your ex? why didn’t it work out?

SHE: he was a psycho.

This is actually very simple to understand. Women simply can’t live with themselves knowing they made a s~~~ty call, bad choice, or behaved badly and f~~~ed it up. They don’t give an ex a positive review and say “There goes a great guy. I was a total bitch to him.”

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A long time female “friend” of mine (never a GF) once visited in town and we hung out for a few days. Her fiancee “left her at the altar” and cancelled the day before the wedding. She was DEVASTATED.

When she told me the story, she said “he was bi-polar”.

I said “No he wasn’t. He just didn’t want to marry you“.

She wasn’t able to say it – even to herself. Even though countless men have been running from the altar since the beginning of time, and even in Sex And The City, Mr. Big did the same thing at the last minute…. she simply couldn’t bring herself to admit not signing a marriage contract is actually SENSIBLE.

I think it’s sick for her to say such a thing. If she cared about him at all, she would want to understand the real reason WHY. And for a man, a marriage contract FAILS a cost/benefit analysis on every level. It’s perfectly sane.

But in her mind . . . he HAD to be “a psycho” or “bi-polar” with a mental problem. Because she’s just PERFECT dont’cha know.

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Women are constantly trying to over-inflate their desirability. Trying to make themselves look “unattainable”. And when a man simple doesn’t want her, it’s GAME OVER. She can’t keep up the charade any more.

She’s perfect, flawless, etherial and she can do no wrong.

And he must be “a psycho” or “bi polar” for not wanting her.

Any questions?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ghostParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

When she told me the story, she said “he was bi-polar”.

I have heard that one too!

Keymaster wrote:

I said “No he wasn’t. He just didn’t want to marry you“.

I used to think we men need to do a better job of telling them the truth. I have tried countless times but it never works because like you said, they think they’re perfect and can do no wrong.

Keymaster wrote:

Any questions?

I haven’t interacted with older women as my interactions have mostly been with lower 30s and under women. I figured that at some point, especially post-wall (35-40+) they would come to some sort of realization that maybe THEY deserve some of the blame. I guess there are always men out there who keep feeding their egos and giving them validation. Not to mention the feminist media which keeps them buying into a myth.

I have more times than not pointed the finger at myself when things didn’t work out because taking ownership for my own shortcomings has helped me learn and grow from my mistakes. It helped me end up with better women, each successive time. I just feel exhausted from trying. The last one having called the cops just made me give up altogether (finally swallowed the red pill). I sometimes don’t like being so negative about women but I see countless other men go through what I have been through and I just can’t keep fighting the tide.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

ghost wrote:

I used to think we men need to do a better job of telling them the truth. I have tried countless times but it never works because like you said, they think they’re perfect and can do no wrong.

Yep!, me too……waste of time, we as MEN, think logically, wimmin don’t, or don’t want to!

ghost wrote:

I have more times than not pointed the finger at myself when things didn’t work out because taking ownership for my own shortcomings has helped me learn and grow from my mistakes.

We, as MEN, have been trained by our MOTHERS to be accountable for THEIR mistakes. The JEALOUSY wimmin have for us MEN, and how damn good we are, is turned around against us, so that WE LITERALLY FEEL THEIR GUILT, for the relations~~~ not being perfect.

Think about that time, when she gave you the silent treatment, because you logically told her that she couldn’t ‘have’ something, due to lack of funds etc, she KNOWS you are correct, and secretely respects your point of view, but she’ll not admit that to you. NOT EVER!
She will however, make your life a living hell for the next few weeks.
Then, in 7/8 years time, this women will point it out that once, you said NO, to her……when it comes to holding a ‘GRUDGE’, wimmin are world champions.

The juice really ain’t worth the squeeze, Fellas.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[ghostParticipant]

Bigvern wrote:

The JEALOUSY wimmin have for us MEN, and how damn good we are, is turned around to us, so that WE LITERALLY FEEL GUILT, for the relatios~~~ not being perfect.

Swallowing the red pill means staying committed and continuing to not let our natural instincts and learned behavior from our past dictate our future. Thanks mate.

Bigvern wrote:

Then, in 7/8 years, this women will point it out that once, you said NO, to her……when it comes to holding a ‘GRUDGE’, wimmin are world champions.

They were designed to exploit us so we continue to procreate. Well, the world does not need additional procreation in my opinion. We have plenty of people already.

Bigvern wrote:

The juice really ain’t worth the squeeze, Fellas.

Amen brother.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

ghost wrote:

Swallowing the red pill means staying committed and continuing to not let our natural instincts and learned behavior from our past dictate our future. Thanks mate.

Spot ON Gambit.

ghost wrote:

They were designed to exploit us so we continue to procreate. Well, the world does not need additional procreation in my opinion. We have plenty of people already.

Almost, I believe wimmin have BEEN TAUGHT, and have LEARNED how to exploit us, rather been ‘designed’ to exploit us.
Our Mothers, are to blame for that Fellas, however ‘lovely’ one’s Mother can seem, they are ALL as sneaky as hell.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[ghostParticipant]

Bigvern wrote:

Our Mothers, are to blame for that Fellas, however ‘lovely’ one’s Mother can seem, they are ALL as sneaky as hell.

I know mine is just too naive to understand what the modern woman is like. Even after everything I have been through, she still thinks there are better women out there and I kept picking the wrong one. I even said I’ll marry whomever you tell me to marry but if I end up taking the shotgun to the head approach, you will be the one burying me. She pretty much went quiet after that.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Women employ a unique diagnostic tool to determine their partners mental state. They examine the latest bank statement.

$0 = psycho.

[Floyd WretchedParticipant 1]

Unfortunately I’ve been through this before as well, I’ve been to jail over it too, the police cucks are not on the men’s side 90% of the time,

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

My ex used to tell me I was crazy, selfish, boring, abusive, a cheater, and every other thing you can think of when we were together. She was just projecting what she saw in herself. If she was able to tell me and others those things when we were still together I wonder how bad she speaks of me now that we’re not longer together ….
O well, maybe it would matter if I gave 1 f~~~.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Whenever I hear a woman talking about an ex boyfriend/husband “He was a jerk/loser/asshole/psycho/ect/ect”,
I say “He said that same thing about YOU!”
After she “blows up”, I say “I guess he was right!”

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

My ex dropped all our mutual friends male, female and couples. Talking to my close friend and his wife one day not long ago we were contemplating why she did this, my friends wife is a bit hurt by this cause the 4 of us got togeather a lot. Then all of a sudden she breaks into our conversation and says she figured it out! She said since we know you she can’t answer the question of why did you leave Oldschool? Oldschool is a nice guy, laid back, calm, good father, what happened? The ex fears these questions so she dropped everybody, hangs with a new group now and to them all they know is that I’m an asshole, mean, bi-polar, whatever she tells them is true because they never met me. She gets all the sympathy without any questions.

Get a vasectomy.

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