Ever noticed couples constantly fight like little kids?

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Every relations~~~ I’ve observed over the past years whether it’s my parents, my sister and her boyfriends, my aunts and uncles, or just my friends, they always seem to be bitching like little kids constantly.

Sometimes it’s worse than listening to little kids fight. It’s like someone is shoving a knife through your ears while you’re listening to them.

They constantly bitch about what TV show to watch, money, who’s going to do what, family, health problems, bills and other expenses, groceries, kids, etc. It’s like it’s never ending.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Crane CommanderParticipant 207]

Oh I’ve noticed. Watching my friends it’s all a bunch of snivelling and bitching. A buddy is going through it real bad right now. A year after the pink glow has worn off and it’s all fighting,shaming, guilting, and manipulation. It’s the reason I’m avoiding relationships completely.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Yep. I’ve gone through it with my girlfriends. I’ve seen it from the sidelines in other people’s marriages.

There are a very few exceptions that make the rule. I can count them on one hand and have a finger or two left over.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 54]

Thats one of the perks of going your own way. We are exzempt from such idiocy.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

For most its a war of attrition, the man can become codependent its a nightmare.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

Every relations~~~ I’ve observed over the past years whether it’s my parents, my sister and her boyfriends, my aunts and uncles, or just my friends, they always seem to be bitching like little kids constantly.

My parents. ( Until Dad died ).

Mom now tells me that I imagined it , am over-exaggerating, and it wasn’t that bad, but not a single meal was had in peace. NOT A SINGLE MEAL. Always one of them bitching about some petty s~~~. I was conscious of it at 12, really noticed at 15 and 17 and even used to get up from the table to eat in another room.

No it wasn’t “abusive” — or even terrible — it just wasn’t any FUN.
It contributed to a MGTOW mindset very early.

I noticed that my hometown was the only city in the world where I was wrong about everything. I drank from the wrong cup. Dried my hands with the wrong towel. Ate cereal with the wrong spoon. Wore the wrong tie. Ate too fast………. and then when I left, I realized there IS such a thing as eating in peace.

Dad was the MOST quiet man I ever met in my life. The fewest words.
Mom can drive a man to drink. I even told her that once.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Couples fight because they are not happy.

I’d agree it is mostly caused by females. A wedding day is the happiest day of a females life. It can only go down from there.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Crane Commander wrote:

Oh I’ve noticed. Watching my friends it’s all a bunch of snivelling and bitching.

In my last social group I was in, one of my friends were engaged to a feminist. And he was the biggest mangina ever put up with her bulls~~~ daily. She even said once that “she loves drama and would love to see a person’s life go down because of drama.”

How he didn’t see that huge red flag still baffles me.

RoyDal wrote:

There are a very few exceptions that make the rule. I can count them on one hand and have a finger or two left over.

Same here. There’s only a few people I know of that don’t fight constantly in relations~~~s.

Keymaster wrote:

and then when I left, I realized there IS such a thing as eating in peace.

That’s the way my family is now. Pretty much everything I do is “wrong” unless it benefits them in some way. Otherwise, even if I just bitch about something I hate, they all throw a fit over it and get butthurt.

I’ll just be happier when I’m finally out of my parents place.

Keymaster wrote:

Dad was the MOST quiet man I ever met in my life. The fewest words.
Mom can drive a man to drink. I even told her that once.

My parents are the complete opposite. My dad’s mouth is like a machine gun. It’s like he never stops talking. My mom is more like me with convos (in that we hate talking too much) but she does end up nagging to my dad constantly about the most stupid s~~~ imaginable. One time she even bitched to him about how he put his glass on the table (he didn’t use a coaster). That started a fight that lasted about 20 minutes.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

nagging to my dad constantly about the most stupid s~~~ imaginable.

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

One time she even bitched to him about how he put his glass on the table (he didn’t use a coaster). That started a fight that lasted about 20 minutes.

True story.

The last day I saw my father alive, I was in the car with both my parents. They bickered about gas prices for over an hour. Dad wanted to gas up, Mom wanted to wait until they got a gallon 10 cents cheaper and the next town.

When we stopped, Mom walked out of the gas station with 3 chocolate bars. I was so f~~~ing angry that I had to listen to that s~~~ for an hour, and she wasted the “savings” on goddam chocolate…. that I threw the chocolate bar into the ditch.

Two weeks later Dad was dead.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Keymaster wrote:

When we stopped, Mom walked out of the gas station with 3 chocolate bars. I was so f~~~ing angry that I had to listen to that s~~~ for an hour, and she wasted the “savings” on goddam chocolate…. that I threw the chocolate bar into the ditch.

Two weeks later Dad was dead.

That sucks big time. I hate it whenever I’m around blue pillers if only because they fight constantly in relations~~~s. It’s more peaceful just to stay away from all that bulls~~~.

Sorry to hear about your dad though.

And I would’ve thrown away those damn chocolate bars as well. Women spend money on the most retarded s~~~ ever.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[experiencedParticipant]

KEYMASTER WROTE:
“True story.
The last day I saw my father alive, I was in the car with both my parents. They bickered about gas prices for over an hour. Dad wanted to gas up, Mom wanted to wait until they got a gallon 10 cents cheaper and the next town.
When we stopped, Mom walked out of the gas station with 3 chocolate bars. I was so f~~~ing angry that I had to listen to that s~~~ for an hour, and she wasted the “savings” on goddam chocolate…. that I threw the chocolate bar into the ditch.
Two weeks later Dad was dead.”
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Sorry about your Dad, and what you went through growing up.
Sure, “We can’t live within the past”, BUT “we can’t live without it.”
I think, no, I know your Dad would be quite proud of what you have accomplished and are continueing to accomplish.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

whenever I’m around blue pillers if only because they fight constantly in relations~~~s. It’s more peaceful just to stay away from all that bulls~~~.

I notice this during dinners, parties, BBQs, in the car, whatever… families and married people bickering about the dumbest s~~~. When you’re around it suddenly, it’s such a drag to listen to their jabs and “he punched me! / well she punched me first!!” nonsense. Married people truly act like 5 year olds.

I actually heard an UNMARRIED man and woman doing this in a public setting and someone ELSE said: “You guys carry on like a married couple. Get a room.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Keymaster wrote:

I notice this during dinners, parties, BBQs, in the car, whatever… families and married people bickering about the dumbest s~~~.

I noticed this even back when I was about 10 years old. The only thing that kept me being a tradcon until I found this site is because of the “NAWALT” argument spewed by blue pillers everywhere.

Some days when I’m around that fighting, it gets so bad that I envy deaf people. At least they don’t have to put up with the constant bitching and bickering.

Couples are just as annoying if not more annoying than women on their periods.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

It is not just the couples. But, both men and women. I would say about 90% of the adults I know, that are sixty years or younger, act like children when the littlest thing does not go there way.

In is like society has become more infantile over the least few decades. Society was not like this back in the 1980’s. There was maturity and personal responsibility among most of society back then. Now, maturity and personal responsibility seems to be the exception, and not the rule.

For me, this is vexing. That is the only word I can find that fits the situation. I know it is not me because I try my best not to be emotionally immature and to be personally responsible.

I am polite. I keep my head down. I practically ghost most of the time. But, I see this childishness in almost everyone. It is heartbreaking. And I do not believe these people have the emotional maturity to understand what they are doing is wrong.

And I realize there is nothing I can do to fix this mess. I get blamed at the drop of a hate. The only thing I can do is walk away, and have nothing to do with these people.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Keymaster wrote:

I actually heard an UNMARRIED man and woman doing this in a public setting and someone ELSE said: “You guys carry on like a married couple. Get a room.”

In my future that’s my cue I have lingered too long. I much prefer your one chance per woman per lifetime. I think that’s gold, and I’ve repeated it to my daughters when they complain about guys in their lives. What could be more egalitarian?

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

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