Dumbest MFer in MGTOW

[Screamin1Participant 152]

I am afraid that I will justify the title of my introduction rather quickly. Here goes. I have been married 5 times. I have been divorced 5 times. Yes, you read that correctly. Thus, I am the dumbest man in MGTOW. I have no excuse for my actions, except that I once believed in NAWALT and I am a romantic at heart. I also really knew no other path. I assumed that you graduated from high school, went to college, got a job, got married, and had kids. This was the path for my generation. I am in my mid-40s now. I suppose the only positive thing you can say is that I am not a quitter. I always figured the next marriage would work out. Except they didn’t. I am now, finally, MGTOW. I will never marry again, nor have any further children. I have 4 kids from 4 different mothers. I pay a s~~~ ton of child support and my schedule revolves around driving to see them as only one lives close to me. Here is my story.

I graduated from a prestigious university in 1994. From there I went into the military as a 2nd Lieutenant. For the other prior military folks on here, I was a 14B (Air Defense Artillery). My first duty station was Germany. That is where I met and married Wife #1.

Wife #1 – I met wife number 1 in a disco in Germany. She was of Russian background. Blonde, beautiful, and sexy as hell. We dated for awhile and she pushed hard for marriage. I didn’t fight all that hard. She was stunning and I thought she really loved me. We married in Germany. After my tour in Germany was over we moved to Ft. Bliss, Texas (El Paso). While there I got her pregnant and we had our first child, a boy. I was in Officer Advance Course at this point in time. As part of the course we went on a short 2 day trip to New Mexico to study a civil war battle (had no idea the civil war extended into New Mexico). My son was 2 months old. While away, my commanding officer received a call stating that I needed to get back immediately because my wife and son were in the hospital. When I arrived at the hospital I was met by doctors and also detectives. Turns out my wife had severely hurt our son while I was away. He was in a coma. My wife was arrested but got out on bail (her parents in Germany sent money). He remained in a coma for a month before I had to make the decision to pull the plug. He passed away shortly thereafter. This happened in the late 1990s before the high profile post partum depression cases. We believe she suffered from it. I was supposed to remain at Ft. Bliss for the next 3 years, but I voluntarily switched duty stations with another guy and got myself sent to Korea, which was the farthest place on the map I could find. The wife (quickly ex-wife) ended up spending 3 months in jail and then was deported back to Germany.

Wife #2 – My second wife was from Ukraine. I found her online while I was in Korea. I took a vacation to Ukraine for a couple weeks after I was finished with my tour in Korea and ended up marrying her. Yes, she was essentially a mail order bride. She was only 18 when we married. Her English wasn’t very good. Ironically, she ended up being my longest and best marriage. We were married nearly 8 years. After the military I ended up going to a prestigious East Coast university for my MBA. We lived the poor student life for 2 years. We had another baby, a girl. She stuck with me while I got my first job after the MBA program with a big bank on the East Coast. I made very good money at this point and we were seemingly happy. Unfortunately I caught her web-camming and chatting with dudes online. She also began to go out to clubs with her friends and not come back until the next day or extremely late. I can’t prove that she was cheating, but it was enough for me and I filed for divorce. Prior to the divorce we moved back to the West Coast (where I am from and currently living) and I took a job with another bank. I wish I would have stayed with the bank on the East Coast as I would probably be making serious money at this point. Anyhow, we divorced and I moved on.

Wife #3 – Very pretty bank teller that pursued me hard when she saw my position in the bank. She was a single mom with 1 kid. We had a whirlwind romance. We thought we were soulmates in only 3 months and got married in Reno. She got pregnant right away. Told me she was on birth control. Turns out she missed a few pills. We ended up being married only for a few weeks. She learned that I had slept with Wife #2 during the first week that we had been dating. That was enough for her to end it. She tried to get an annulment, but I fought her as I was totally p~~~ed off. We then ended up getting a divorce. She immediately moved in with another guy while pregnant with what would become my son. It was a hellish divorce. I learned of the birth of my son via text message. She wouldn’t allow me to see him. Took me 2 1/2 months to get a court date in order to fight for custody and visitation. The first time I saw my son was in the courtroom. I guilted her into letting me see him by asking the judge if it would be alright to hold my son for the first time. During the court battle I fought to get my son’s name changed (and won). She had given him her last name and chose the other two, none of which we had agreed on. I also got extremely low child support and liberal visitation.

Between her leaving me and my son being born I was in an extremely traumatic car accident. I was taking child #1 back to her mother after visitation and was hit by a semi head on. I almost died. I broke everything from the waist down and messed up my facial bones as well. Wife #3 never visited me or contacted me while I was in the hospital or during recovery. It took me 8 months to learn to walk again. I sued the truck driver that slid into my lane and caused the accident. It went all the way to a 2 week jury trial. I was awarded a s~~~ ton of money.

Wife #4 – I knew this woman from my banking days. She used to be an assistant manager for the bank I worked with. She pursued me hard, even though she was dating another guy. I was married with Wife #2 at the time. She was very upfront and told me she wanted me to leave my wife and marry her. I didn’t. I was good at that time. It was hard because she is gorgeous. However, a few years down the road she looked me up on Facebook and started talking with me. She was married and had recently had a child. She told me that her marriage was essentially over and that they were moving towards divorce. I believed her and stupidly began to date her. She ended up divorcing the guy (same guy she was dating when I first met her) and got together with me. We got married shortly thereafter. She got pregnant almost as soon as we started dating. Yes, I am that dumb. Anyhow, this marriage lasted a whopping 4 months. She left while she was pregnant to go back to her ex-husband. When my son was born, I arrived at the hospital to find her in bed with her ex-husband, both holding my child. It was a special kind of hell. I filed for divorce as soon as she left me to go back to her ex. That divorce ended up costing me a new vehicle, but not much more thankfully.

Wife #5 – This was the worst of the bunch and led to MGTOW. She was the daughter of a co-worker (at a new job outside of banking) who had become my friend. She pursued me hard as she was a single mom with absolutely nothing going for her. She knew I was rich and she was living with mommy. She was a stripper. She stripped at night to help take care of her kid during the day. She was beautiful and sexy and extremely good at using her assets to get what she wanted. I got her pregnant quickly and we ended up getting married shortly thereafter. Unbeknownst to me, she is also a gifted liar and cheater. She cheated on me early in the marriage (though I didn’t find out till after it was over) physically and I caught her messaging a guy 1 week after we were married. I forgave her and we moved on. We ended up being married nearly 5 years. The marriage ended when she decided to file for divorce because she wasn’t “happy”. Turns out that she was screwing a loser for the last 6 months (that I know of) of our marriage. He is a convicted felon for drug dealing and is covered in tattoos. He doesn’t have much going for him. She moved in with him immediately after moving out of my house. She has since gotten pregnant by him (due very soon) and recently married him. This divorce cost me about $50,000 in cash and 2 paid off vehicles.

Not a ton of details. I could go on forever. I am a reformed whiteknight and mangina. I was an extreme beta blue piller. No longer. I am dating now, but I will never cohabitate or marry. I only spend time with women for one thing only. I have learned that that is all they are good for. I am much happier now. I have my freedom. Nobody tells me what to do. Nobody spends all of my money. Even paying a ton of child support I have much more money left over every month. I was able to retain all of my major assets (real estate I bought with my lawsuit money). I go on awesome vacations around the world to scuba dive and screw unique women. Life is good. I am now MGTOW and will forever be MGTOW till the end of my days.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

As long as you NOW realize that the 6th time WON”T be a charm !!

Welcome !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 14]

Welcome aboard man. I’m glad you finally have seen the light!

[Screamin1Participant 152]

No. I am fully awakened now. I have ingested many a Red Pill. I will not give it the old college try even once more. I was stupid and thought only with my dick. They were all very beautiful women.

I have been lurking on this site for well over a year. I am glad I finally signed up and got my introduction done. I look forward to being a productive contributor. I am very experience in the courtroom and I have many cautionary tales.

[WorickParticipant 225]

5 times? Jesus Christ sir… Not trying to be rude but… How didn’t you learn from the 1st or 2nd time?

Been Spending Most Of Life Living In A Bachelors Paradise

[Anonymous 42]

Wow that’s 5 lifetimes condensed since 94! In 1994 I was 2 years out of a relationship and 3 years later I ended my last relationship forever! After that it was smooth sailing on my own pretty much convinced unicorns were a myth! All I did with my life was whatever I wanted, all the time, a free man!

I wish you were struck by the MGTOW bolt of lightning back when I was! You wouldn’t have had to travel this far over the rocky road of lies!

Welcome to MGTOW, Screamin1, if I were you I’d be Screamin2!

[Screamin1Participant 152]

Good question Worick. It was very hard for me to post my introduction because looking at it from the outside it looks very f~~~ing stupid. I have no real defense. I have never been without a woman since graduating from college. I always assumed a man was supposed to be married. I lived for getting pussy. I felt that marriage was a way to lock down the beautiful pussy I was getting. The first marriage was extremely awful, mostly because of the death of my son. I figured nothing that horrible would be able to happen again. I was lonely. Now I am rambling. No excuse. F~~~ing retarded.

[ZerenityParticipant 500]

Been busy eh?

Welcome to the forums. I bet you will have some useful insights down the road.

God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change: Courage to change the things I can: And Wisdom to know the difference. -Reinhold Niebuhr 1951

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Damn.. man.. First, welcome. Second, I’m sorry for your loss of your boy. I cant imagine a worse pain. Third, You definitely qualified that title. You crazy SOB, you married a STRIPPER?

Im glad you finally woke up. I would SUGGEST getting a vasectomy. You seem to knock up every chick you smash… Dont put yourself back in the child support trap.

The 6th time will not be a charm.

Again… Welcome brother.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[WorickParticipant 225]

Sorry for loss. Isn’t an easy thing to deal with. Lost my nan in November last year. That’s the thing. We’re taught at an early age to be this “hardworking family father figure” by giving us false expectations of a “princess wife” who will look after the nest and children while the man is out working his backside off or putting his life on the line to house and feed the family. No more. Women are claiming to be “strong and independent” so they should prove it.

I’m 27. Never married and haven’t had a relationship in 9 years. I stood on the sidelines watching people get together and fall apart into ruin and just stayed away from it all. Relationships and marriage are just not worth the risk, especially with a bias court system who always favor the women instead of an even split.

Been Spending Most Of Life Living In A Bachelors Paradise

[Screamin1Participant 152]

Thanks much SH3LLZ. Yep, I totally justify the title of my introduction. How can I possibly deny it? Yes, I married a stripper. That said, I never actually saw her strip (kinda wish I did). She quit stripping once we started dating seriously. Yeah, never date or marry a stripper. They spend all day, every day manipulating men. They make manipulation an art form. But sexy, very sexy. I am seriously considering getting a vasectomy. I have 4 kids and 4 child support payments. That is definitely enough. I held out on doing it in case I met a unicorn. But, unicorns are as real as leprechauns, so I think I will get that done soon. There will be no 6th time. I am as stupid as a bag of hammers, but not quite that stupid.

[Anonymous 42]

Screamin1 wrote:

Good question Worick. It was very hard for me to post my introduction because looking at it from the outside it looks very f~~~ing stupid. I have no real defense. I have never been without a woman since graduating from college. I always assumed a man was supposed to be married. I lived for getting pussy. I felt that marriage was a way to lock down the beautiful pussy I was getting. The first marriage was extremely awful, mostly because of the death of my son. I figured nothing that horrible would be able to happen again. I was lonely. Now I am rambling. No excuse. F~~~ing retarded.

Don’t be so hard on your self! It wasn’t stupidity, it was conditioning from all sides! You were blind but now you see! That’s everything!

[Screamin1Participant 152]

Yes, I was very socially conditioned. I can see that now.

I have been lurking on this site for well over a year now. I just signed up for the Ghost membership. I have gained so much more from this site than I will ever repay. It saved me during my darkest times during the last year. You guys have an inkling how many lurkers are out there, but you will have no idea how many men you will save. I am forever grateful for all of the insight I gained from reading this site daily over the last year or more. I don’t know any of you, but you are all definitely much appreciated.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Yep, sucks to be an example of what not to do.

Crime scene 2 is always worse than crime scene 1, but damn man, crime scene 5 really has to suck.

You were a chalk outline looking for a place to happen.

Like myself, better late than never

Peace brothers

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Welcome, Screamin1.
Your intro is well written and I look forward to hearing more from your insights and experience.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome and thanks for the terrific intro.
WOW, more than Tom Leykis! It only took him four marriages/divorces before he realized AWALT.
Looking forward to lessons you can share from your school of hard knocks.
It’s a shame more of us aren’t like Japanese MGTOW who learn by observation and not the gauntlet of experience.
P.S. To be fair, the Japanese aren’t as specifically targeted and brainwashed by the biggest gynocentric machine in history, HOLLYWOOD, where the hero always gets the girl.

[Anonymous 7]

Welcome home.
Sorry for your loss.
Someday, somehow that murdering bitch will get hers. Karma is a Old hard bitch.

[HermitParticipant 1121]

So you had to stick a penny in a power socket five times before you realized it wasn’t good for you. You survived. You learned. Welcome!

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[Anonymous 54]

And I thought I was the dumbest Mfer on here!! Hahh

3 for me.
Damn, that wore me out just reading it!

Thank You for your Service!

Welcome Screamin 1

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

if I were you I’d be Screamin2!

Excellent!

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