I just posted this in another thread…double standard is alive and well my friends
There is part of the divorce agreement that said the other parent was to be notified 7 days advance notice if the parent leaves the state with the kids. OK fine. I had my kids for a weekend, no problem. The c~~~ was on time for once. And the next time I had them two weeks later, my kids were acting really strange, they slept all day and up all night, and they suddenly understood French and Italian a little better.
The c~~~ had taken our children to Paris and to Venice without telling me. No phone call, no text. They had just returned to Chicago 2 hours before I was to pick them up. So we went to court the following week, had a fun time in court for three days, and the result? Drum roll please……nothing. For the c~~~: No penalty, no admonition, no harsh words, no nothing. Leaving the country with my kids for 2 weeks while she was working…leaving my kids in the hotel room all day in another f~~~ing continent was deemed an educational experience, and that the work trip was of sudden onset that other arrangements could not be made in time. Since this was during the school year, and I lived 200 miles away from the kids school, it would have too disruptive to the children to leave the kids with me and drive 3 hours every morning to attend school. This was an educational opportunity that would benefit the children.
The kids, then ages 13 and 9 were locked in the hotel room all day while the c~~~ worked, then about 4pm, the c~~~ would come home and they would do some touristy s~~~.
I was given the stern admonition for occupying the court’s valuable time with this twaddle, and that the c~~~ was providing our children with a unique educational and cultural experience. Leaving the country without telling me was immaterial, what matters was I was protesting an educational experience?
There was no malicious intent on her part. I however was accused of frivolous wasting of the court’s time, and should be more considerate of my children’s potential cultural and educational opportunities in the future.
This is the c~~~ who thought I was taking my kids to Mexico because that’s where her tracking device ended up. S~~~, nothing came about after that either. F~~~.
So, for complaining that the c~~~ took the kids out of the country without telling me resulted in me paying the court costs for three days, my lawyer’s time and her lawyer’s time, total, $13,000. Payable within 2 weeks, or I would be in contempt of court. Failure to pay all parties within 14 days will result in 180 days at the Adult Detention Facility. Yes, we were in court two weeks later to make sure I paid my bills. That cost me $1000 to tell the f~~~ing judge f~~~wit I paid my court costs and her lawyer bill. And I’m the bad guy. Jebus on the cross,
Do not get married, stay away from women. Stay away from these f~~~ing c~~~s.
I would lose three complaints like this in 6 years. Each time I would have to pay my lawyer, her lawyer and court costs, These 3 complaints cost me an extra $50,000 at least. Clearly the c~~~ violated the divorce decree, and nothing happened to her, and I was punished. Thanks Judge F~~~wit. and my kids still told me to f~~~ off.
WHAT!!!??? THE!!!??? ACTUAL!!!???? F~~~!!!!!??????????
I’m the bad guy?
Yes, brothers, I spent a lot of time in the racquetball court that week, working out my frustration. I broke a racquet. I swam miles in the pool, and I spent hours in the gym in seething rage.
joetech 2 years, 3 months ago.
