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[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

I am very grateful for all that I’ve learned (and keep learning) from this site. I am certain my girlfriend is not. I slept over my girlfriend’s house last night. The alarm clock went off this morning, my girlfriend reached over and shut it off. She started cuddling with me, so I kissed her neck and started rubbing her body. Then, she said it….Don’t. Don’t? How about saying you have to go to the bathroom or you have to leave early or you have a sore back? Or even, can I have a rain check? But, DON’T? Okay, I’ll f~~~ing show you “don’t”. I said, “Don’t? Okay.” I rolled over and got out of bed. She said, “Wait.” I replied, “Nah, that’s okay.” Let my Jedi mind f~~~ing begin. I got dressed, put on the coffee, and went about getting ready for my work day. I displayed no anger, pleasantly answered her questions (she smartly said nothing about me disobeying the wait command, BTW), made the bed, had a cup of coffee, and went back to the bedroom and started packing my clothes. She came into the bedroom, smiled, and asked what I was doing. I thought “WTF does it look like I’m doing?” but instead I answered, “Just packing up my winter clothes and taking them home. No need for them now that it’s warmer.” As I was getting set to leave, she offered to make me a sandwich for lunch. “That’s a good idea.” I said. “But, I’ll make it myself.” My logic is, if she DON”T want to have sex (which is fine….just DON”T be a c~~~ about it), I DON”T need her to make me a sandwich (sammich). I DON”T need her for anything at all, truth be told. I made the sandwich, wished her a zippity f~~~ing do dah day, and vacated the premises. I think it’s time I spent more time at home so she DON”T feel the need to say DON’T. Women really have this inflated opinion of what their pussy is worth and the power they can wield with it. DON”T…..Sheeeit. Then maybe she should go f~~~ herself instead. Or don’t. Douche.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

“Don’t” is like saying “no” to a pet from which you expect obedience.  She can f~~~ off.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Well done man …. consider your frame held ……. and kudos on being Mr Cool with her.

[experiencedParticipant]

Don’t let her put a shock collar on you.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Well done sir!

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Power is only taken.  Well done.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Quiet Thom wrote:

I DON”T need her to make me a sandwich (sammich). I DON”T need her for anything at all, truth be told. I made the sandwich

i personally think that overall, guys make better sandwiches than women
in my most distant memory i can only remember a girl making me a sandwich once in my life ..which btw was very bland
there may be some women in the world that can make a decent sandwich but they seem to leave out some of the best ingredients,
and if i recall correctly, she didn’t even prepare the bread properly
..don’t even ask me what i think about women attempting to do outdoor grilling 🙂

[StoneParticipant 25]

XD – slaving over a hot stove? I had to teach both of my ex-wives how to cook, neither one had a clue. Looking back in retrospect, what was I thinking? The first one only knew how to make something she called “tuna puffs” which was a tuna sandwich baked in an oven with melted cheese. After about a month of it, I thought if I had to eat anymore cooked mayonnaise, I’d jump off a cliff.

Once I saw a cooking show where Nick Stellino said that the greatest chefs cook with love. That would explain a lot really ..

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

Thanks Gents. And RPB….ain’t that the flippin’ truth. Wimmens seem to love you more if you don’t tolerate their bulls~~~. I think her offering to make my sandwich was just a ploy to appease me for leaving the bed without permission due to her poor and stupid choice of words…..because, obviously, I’m a man (meaning I’m fairly dumb, think only with my dick, and am easily manipulated or distracted). She really got thrown off balance because, 1..I didn’t want her to make the sandwich and 2…I wasn’t angry or impolite when I told her I’d make it. She can sleep alone tonight…..tomorrow night too, I think. Bad behavior has to be disciplined without hesitation. This applies to animals, children, and women. It sucks that we, as men, have to deal with this crap and be hard hearted pricks if we want to have anything to do with the females of our species. A buddy of mine, that has been a MGTOW for a long time, gave me this little nugget of wisdom that I always carry in my mind regarding relationships: “Sometimes the f~~~ing you’re getting, isn’t worth the f~~~ing you’re getting”.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

I was dating this woman who is a cook. I ask her to bring me by some of her food. So next time we meet up she brings by some baked swai, cheese grits, and baked beans. I prefer fish to be pan seared, but it was fine with me until I saw a long hair on the fillet. The grits had large white clumps of grits where she hasn’t stirred it well, and the cheese was processed cheese. The baked beans were from a can. I was not impressed.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Most women I’ve dated can’t cook for s~~~. There was one lady who was good – she had been married to a chef for 15 years and some of it rubbed off. The problem was, she wanted to cook all these foofie dishes for me to try because she thought she was going to expand my horizons or whateverthef~~~ and find the way to my heart through my stomach, or whatever bulls~~~ fantasy cooked up by cosmo to “blow his mind” by putting dishes with pretentious foreign names.

The thing is, I’ve dined in fine restaurants all over the world, and tried at least some close cousin to whetever she was making, and after all that, one day I realized my tastes are fairly simple. Give me tacos, pizza, a steak, or some fresh Salmon.  Maybe seafood alfredo or a home grilled burger for a change.

I don’t need dishes with unpronounceable names to make me feel sophisticated. And she Just. Couldn’t. Accept. That.

One day she was over at my house cooking a romantic dinner with yet another unpronouncable or overly pretentious name and the neighbor guy knocks on my door looking to borrow some tools. He’s got radiator troubles and isn’t all that experienced at mechanics so I go out and start helping him.

When I come back in a about 15 minutes later she goes into full bitch mode and says “I didn’t come over here for this. If you’re going to do that stuff with your friend then I’m leaving.”  Or something very close to that.

At that moment the proverbial clouds parted and I channelled the spirit of Tom Leykis. I simply pointed to it and said “there’s the door.”

She was stunned.  I guess nobody had ever talked to her like that. I continued that “when I have a friend that needs help, I’m going to help him and if you don’t like it….THERE’S THE DOOR.”

As you might have guessed, rather than leaving, it just made her even hornier and more attracted to me.

Thanks Tom.

 

 

 

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

hmskl’d wrote:

..don’t even ask me what i think about women attempting to do outdoor grilling

I can relate to that one…don’t get me started.

BVC

 

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Nice job playing the brush off on that one.

I Have gotten the “sandwich apology” too, more than once. It must be indicative of females, like we are some child that can be bought off by a PB&J.  If she wanted to apologize, she should have dropped to her knees and finished you off before you left.

Always go into aloof bad boy mode in those situations.  They will either be more intrigued, which most are, or they will get butthurt and then there is your answer.  It’s a win-win.

Sovereignty above all else.

[narwhalParticipant]

So in my head, the response was good, accept she really doesn’t have a clue as to why you behaved that way.  Oh, on some level she knows you were rude, but once she talks about it with her girlfriends, it will be because she didn’t just give it up for you, not because she was rude.   In my opinion, it’s important to let her know that when she’s rude to you like that, you simply don’t want to be around her…so it’s time to go.  Or not, she could probably twist that around to.

Ok. Then do it.

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

@snake she’s a disgrace to the whole profession.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

I use to bang a flight attendant. She never cooked anything at my house or made me a sandwich.

She just saved and gave me the meal packages airlines give to flight crews. One of the reoccurring ones was a package of tuna fish, crackers, etc.

[Anonymous 5]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

At that moment the proverbial clouds parted and I channelled the spirit of Tom Leykis. I simply pointed to it and said “there’s the door.”

She was stunned.  I guess nobody had ever talked to her like that. I continued that “when I have a friend that needs help, I’m going to help him and if you don’t like it….THERE’S THE DOOR.”

As you might have guessed, rather than leaving, it just made her even hornier and more attracted to me.

Thanks Tom.

Oh my god,,,,he’s my dad too. We must be brothers!!!

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