Yes, I actually did it. I married a woman from South America. It was like a drug. I have never been treated so well by a woman. An American woman would never treat me so well. It started out that way, but went downhill quickly.
Some female coworkers from South America suggested I get a woman from there because American women were in their words were, “Muy frio” (very cold). I took them up on their suggestion but even then I did so with one eye opened because I seem to instinctively understand that all women are the same, as they really are.
So I got married and remember my friend saying I had it made as she ironed, cooked and cleaned. My new latina wife had a daughter as well who was learning English quickly and getting good grades. But soon that all changed as the daughter had met a “gangster boy friend” at the mall.
Things began spinning out of control as her daughter let the boyfriend sneak in the house at night and she also would creep out of the house at night. One night she returned at 5:00am. A 15 year old girl out at a party with this gangster. I had called 911 and soon she appeared and the police cuffed her and sat her in the car to teach her a lesson.
The daughter’s favorite show was “Teen Mom” on MTV. I blocked the channel much to her dismay and clipped her cable TV since she left the house for the party that night but none of my discipline did any good. My Latina wife subscribed to the theory that the best way to parent was to be a “friend” to your child. When I layed down the law, she said it was not my place to talk to her child that way. Stepkids do not work folks, THE BRADY BUNCH is a myth.
Meanwhile, I have provided my new wife with a car , a job, and English classes. I learned Spanish, but she never did learn English. She went to classes two times and quit. Her daughter did much better despite being a spoiled brat she was really very intelligent. Despite not speaking English, I had got my wife a job as an elderly caretaker, she quit that. I then got her a job at Wal-Mart where she worked harder than she ever had and complained it was my fault because her arm hurt from a task at work. I then got her an office job at a Transportation company. A nice desk job where her boss spoke Spanish. She seemed to finally be content but all the while her Spanish speaking friends were turning her into the American bitch. I had bought her a rather inexpensive ring for our engagement, See I wasn’t that stupid, I told you I had one eye opened. But she began to ask me about the two months salary rule and even she had to admit a ring that much would be a waste.
When I began this relationship I told her up front that I would provide a house for her and her daughter, a car and help her get a job. She agreed but of course this was not enough. She began to complain that her and her daughter needed more and more. In her country, she was living in an apartment that would literally fit into my living room in my house. Her scheming Latin friends were no doubt telling her she could do better and soon she decided she needed some time away after I yelled at her daughter one night because she was up at 3:00am with the TV blasting.
My wife left with her daughter to Panama for a couple of weeks or so she said. She told me I needed to get counseling for my anger issues. I agreed and went to counseling. The counselor told me that I did not have a problem. The daughter was running the household and I was completely justified in my anger. She told me to be careful because she seemed to get the impression that her daughter may be capable of ruining my life with false molestation allegations. I really opened my eyes then because this had never occurred to me.
It turns out the trip to Panama was not a time of reflection but I found out my wife was having an affair with a man there. No doubt set up by her friends at the office. I discovered she committed adultery and promply set the divorce in motion. I did it myself without an attorney and she agreed and signed. I owned my house prior to marriage so she had no claim on that.
While the divorce was still pending, she called and wanted to come back. I simply said no. You see she only had a temporary green card at that time, she was only with me for about a year and a half. She had to wait two years for the permanent green card. I told her the only reason she wanted back was that she wanted the green card , she said no that is not the reason, she said, I miss you. I laughed, I knew about the affair but here is the kicker. I didn’t know she had married him at that time. Yes she commited bigomy!
Adultry, Bigomy, draining my money and making my life hell with the spoiled brat from hell who by the way was Homecoming queen at here school before she left!
Despite all of this I feel I really dodged a bullet. The daughter could have easily gotten pregnant and guess who would have been stuck with the little gangster baby?
The last time I heard from her she claims she has a tourist VISA but I doubt it because she ran up some credit card debt here on her own and didn’t pay it and she didn’t file her taxes. Which I understand immigration takes a dim view of this activity but who knows, with liberal immigration these days she may have her tourist visa.
A year or so after the divorce my house was broken into and 3 of my guitars were stolen. I can’t prove it but I think this was their last stab at revenge. One of the guitars that was stolen was the same one just a few years ago that I was serenading my new soon to be wife with the song “Besame Mucho”
So, in closing these foreign women will indeed treat you better but they will be Americanized soon and no matter how much money you have , it is never enough!
I am now MGTOW, and that’s the way it is!
Russky 4 years ago.
