Domestic Violence Dads

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I am glad that this issue is finally being addressed seriously in this country, because this happens more than people think. The number 1 reason men don’t report it? Shame, embarrassment and not being believed especially by the Police.

http://aca.ninemsn.com.au/video/?uuid=4402768671001

http://www.oneinthree.com.au/

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I wish the manginas and fembots that lurk here … would watch these and have a good think about the difference between how they get treated and us real men get ….. well …. ignored.

However, I’m willing to let the past be the past if they’d all just fk off and leave us alone.

1 in 3 …… aka the fking same amount of DV comes from women.

[UmbreonParticipant 152]

We actually had a thread with a real life example of an abused Dad pretty recently.

It will be a fine world when they see a guy beaten up and a girl with busted knuckles and they don’t automatically think she was going in for “self defence”. There is no fairer sex- just different parts below the belt.

Men can be abused as adults, as kids, and in general. It’s a sad fact that people in every country don’t seem to get this. She may not be big, but she can always learn Judo or pick up a blunt object to deal some serious damage. Even worse, if he already was injured such as if he was disabled or she beat the crap out of him and it didn’t heal right (likely considering that abuse victims don’t tend to get medical help) then she has an even easier job of it.

I wish there were more men’s shelters out there. In the USA there’s the YMCA but that’s pretty much as good as you’re getting (that I know of) and, even then, it’s not the same as the private women’s shelters out there.

Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

I am dealing with this now. I hope she learns not to be violent in the future. I have confronted her and asked her to find another way to deal with the violent outburst.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Domestic violence against men is something I am passionate about. I have experienced emotional abuse, had mates emotionally, financially and physically abused and 1 killed. Nothing happened to the woman btw!

You have no idea the scathing abuse I receive now from women when i raise this issue maturely when approached, “man up” also from the manginas’.

 

I will continue to support and spread the issue until more men are aware that it is ok to speak up.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

I have already lived through this and its not pretty. It usually starts off with small snippy remarks and it grows if you don’t set your own personal boundaries. I had it grow to a point it which hearing the words — loser, sperm donor etc. but you are told as a   blue man to never hit women.

Society drills into your head– a happy wife makes a happy life.. For all of you out there married with this line of thinking in your head,  please step back and think about it from an outsiders stand point. Would you watch someone else get physically and emotionally abused and not say anything? probably not but you as the victim refuse to see the true!! If you don’t set the boundary early and fast you will be tramped all over. ( this is especially true for a married couple who have kids).

The abuser in my case (ex-wife) continued with the verbal attacks and eventually it will get physical. Its her way of exercising control over me. The more she does it, the more she respects you less until she gets to the point of seeing you as punching bag both physically and emotionally. The person being abused thinks if I just do this, it will stop. IT   DOESNT  F~~~N STOP!!!

What the video says about help for male domestic violence is true. First of all its embarrassing, especially if you tower over her. When I did ask for help, I was directed towards a local DV hotline. The woman answering the phone told me we don’t help men that batter their wives !! talk about a double standard. When this DV worker  finally got it, I was the victim she gave the answer ,  she said there really are not many males  calling for help and the resources are directed back towards the women.

Women DV abuser know they have that much more power over the man. Mine stated ” Who  is going to believe you a grown man or little old me?” She knew if I hit her I would be the one the cops come and take. I had one instant where I videotaped her throwing my clothes into a closet because the dresser was “her”. It got to the point where she got my phone. I threatened to call the cops, she said go ahead. I picked up her phone and started to walk into the bathroom, at which point she grabs my arm and leaves 5 fingernail scratch marks that drew blood. I left the house and went to a nearby family members house where I had someone take picture, then I went to the hospital. All this happened in front of my kids. My divorce lawyer advised not calling the cops and documenting it in the court papers.

The moral of the story is — if you are just dating a abusive person– KICK HER TO THE CURB ASAP!! IF you are married to an abusive person- SEE A DIVORCE LAWYER AND GET THE F~~~ OUT ASAP!! They will never change, they will only get worse!!!

I am only now  really starting to see how f~~~ed up the situation I was in. She has moved out and the damage is done. NEVER AGAIN!!!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

My ex started throwing s~~~ around my place and was out of my life in 2 hrs.  Never saw her again and we lived together for 3 years.  The cops came and escorted her out the hard way, with just the clothes on her back.   She begged me on the phone to send her her passport and I said on only one condition, I never hear from her again.

Nip that s~~~ in the bud.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Nip that s~~~ in the bud.

Agreed!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

StandUpGuy wrote:

I am dealing with this now. I hope she learns not to be violent in the future. I have confronted her and asked her to find another way to deal with the violent outburst.

Dude! Good that you have confronted her but its really NOT ok! I know its hard to leave but truly consider it!
If she is “man” enough to hit you then you can hit her back. Eye for an eye brother!

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[TyrolvaParticipant 99]

LonerBoner wrote:

StandUpGuy wrote:

I am dealing with this now. I hope she learns not to be violent in the future. I have confronted her and asked her to find another way to deal with the violent outburst.

Dude! Good that you have confronted her but its really NOT ok! I know its hard to leave but truly consider it! If she is “man” enough to hit you then you can hit her back. Eye for an eye brother!

 

I wouldn’t even spend the time to deliberate on it. Kick her/it to the curb and be done with it. As for hitting her back, horrible idea. She has social stigma on her side and all she has to do is run crying to the police and lie to land you in the s~~~ and destroy your life.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Tyrolva wrote:

I wouldn’t even spend the time to deliberate on it. Kick her/it to the curb and be done with it. As for hitting her back, horrible idea. She has social stigma on her side and all she has to do is run crying to the police and lie to land you in the s~~~ and destroy your life.

 

Exactly, look at the video I posted esp the woman that stabbed the guy and her response to men who hit women and the poor bloke at the end who ended up hitting his Missus after she tortured him for 3 hours. Once you watch that you can actually relate to Bill Burrs video:

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

StandUpGuy wrote:

I am dealing with this now. I hope she learns not to be violent in the future. I have confronted her and asked her to find another way to deal with the violent outburst.

I’ve been through this myself.  She will NOT stop.  She’ll act sweet at first, but she has it in the back of her mind that you will just “deal with it” and she’ll give it time to cool…then she’ll seduce you in some way or another, and when things don’t go her way again, she’ll strike at you again…like some unpredictable scorpion.  Heck, actually my scorpion is more predictable than an abusive woman…

[bcrogerParticipant 113]

Women are allowed to hit men in this disgusting society.

[MDawgDizMizzleParticipant 73]

Had a friend that went through this. His girlfriend was unstable and he still had a kid with her. That kept him around until he had enough. She went out f~~~ing and partying and he worked and spent time with his son. Childrens Aid stepped in not too long ago and now he has full custody. Don’t even think he gets support as from what I remember her being on welfare.

[Anonymous 5]

C~~~s use all forms of abuse against men. Mental/emotional/verbal, physical, sexual(withholding sex) and financial abuse yet they are always the victim somehow.

I find the mental abuse to be the worst thing I have ever experienced. I was told I was useless, worthless, scum, lazy, ugly, had a small dick, pathetic, loser among tons of even worse insults I don’t even want to think about. Females are insanely cruel and will say the worst things ever just to p~~~ you off. There were days I almost broke down crying because of the verbal abuse. I have never felt so s~~~ty in my life.

Instead of complimenting me, being nice or supporting me and motivating me to be better, I was just told I was a horrible person. It drains you.

Happy wife/happy life is bulls~~~. Females should be trying to make their man happy because if the man is happy, he will try harder to make you happy. It is a two way street. Females don’t get that. They are too selfish.

[heads-upParticipant 320]

To people who find female DV funny should note that it mostly due to the fact that men don’t/won’t/can’t hit back,Imagine if someone put you in a boxing ring with someone half you’re weight but you where not allowed to hit back,you would lose all rounds and suffer damage.

But as BILL BURR said  “a man may hit you  but a woman will s~~~ in your heart”…..not verbatim.

Violence by women is prolific and savage if you include emotional abuse/financial abuse/familial abuse.Many women use a mans children to torture him by denying access and posioning the childs mind against him.Lowest of the low,I would much rather take a few slaps than have that visited upon me.

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