Does your mom count as a relations~~~?

[Anonymous 0]

So my mom lost her marbles a number of years ago, to the point that she is on permanent disability. It is total bulls~~~, considering she was a craigslist escort for a couple of years, and made decent money doing it. My theory is that she kind of shut down mentally because she can’t use her looks to get s~~~ for free anymore, she has to actually put out to get the same level of stuff, and she sees even that fading as she gets older.

Needless to say, my mother and I do not get along. A MGTOW living in the same house as a c~~~-carousel operator. We fight all the time. The most recent one was this:

it was my birthday, I turned 32. No celebration, as I have no friends and my family pretty much hates me. I did what I always do, bought myself a cake, offered some to everyone, and made myself a special dinner. This year it was pancakes. I made extra so that I would have a nice breakfast too. Well, while I was asleep, my mother decided that my food was fair game, and she ate 1/3 of it. You figure, ok no big deal, its only 1/3. Well I was none too happy about it, and instead of arguing over something so stupid, I know my anger was misplaced, I just left and went to school. My mother decided to text me, while I was driving, to ask if I was upset. All I said was “yes, yes I am.”

Holy s~~~, did I start a war. She ripped through every cabinet, fridge, and freezer putting labels and dividing up everything I have paid for. She totally blew it out of proportion. I got over it in like 30 minutes.

So all those negative emotions, and her constant guilt tripping came to a header last night. She came to me, in a snarky ass voice, asking if my brother could have some of my food. I called her on her passive-aggressive bulls~~~, and she mentally shut down like she always does. She knows she is being a c~~~ and trying to get her way by doing the guilt trip, but I am an adult, and it doesn’t work on me anymore. I kept badgering her, asking her “what have I done wrong, tell me how I can improve, sorry I am a bastard and that I ruined your life.” Pretty much trying to make her feel like complete s~~~ for treating me the way she has. Best of all, my brother was there to see it all happen.

Low and behold, she was so nice today. She greeted me when I got home, which is more than I ever get. Usually I move around in the house like I am a ghost.

The world needs to seriously stop catering to women and put them in their place. They are not smart enough to handle life on their own. Besides being able to have babies, they really don’t contribute much to society. Oh how I wish we could return to the days of the bought and sold wife/daughter.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Does your mom count as a relations~~~? Only in West Virginia brother.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

PistolPete wrote:

Does your mom count as a relations~~~?

Sure. But I dislike that term immensely: “relationship”. It’s a woman’s word.

First of all, you’re not in a “relationship” (singular).
There are always TWO “relationships” (plural) going on.

Your relationship to HER.
And her relationship to YOU.

Most people think a “relationship” (singular) means if she is content and “happy” then everything is fine. But that’s bulls~~~. You need to be content in YOUR relationship to her too.

Anonymous wrote:

Needless to say, my mother and I do not get along.

That’s why I broke it down this ^^ way. It’s not a problem. You don’t CHOOSE your family / mother, but you can choose your friends and all your other personal “relationships”. You’re not required to like her. She’s your mother like the sky is blue. It’s not an opinion.

I have told my mother she can drive a man to drink. Many times. Lately I have even ignored her emails because they are annoying as f~~~. But her birthday is coming up, and she will receive some flowers from me anyway. She’s my mom. Whadd’ya gonna do.

Anonymous wrote:

Oh how I wish we could return to the days of the bought and sold wife/daughter.

Why? There would still be nothing in it for you. She would still be a cost and liability.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Navy—-Key brings so much light to a dim f~~~ing table, none the less, If you get a few hours to spare, go through some of my “mommy” posts…Key has had such amazing advice on this particular subject for me….I have the same exact problems with my mother Nick, I swear to Christ, we are long lost brothers from another mother…anyway…You are handling it so very correct brother, that I can barely add to what you already said…Well played sir, well played…With my mother, she calls me, and uses this f~~~ing voice like she is a god damned demon or something, she probably is, but as soon as my step dad is around, I can freaking INSTANTANEOUSLY tell by her “angelic” voice and the flowery words she uses to talk to me…It used to drive me freaking bonkers crazy, now, I laugh at her, not too her of course, as that would make her insane worse than she already is, but too myself…..Mothers, what in the holy hell did we do to deserve their insanity??? We should start trying to get to know each other a little better…Then in the future, if we both agree sir, maybe we can ditch these crazy bitches and move off to Japan or Alaska or some s~~~….Together we would probably have enough money, and by then it would most likely our babies would be gone…S~~~, maybe that should be a thought plan…God forbid, anything ever happens to our babies, but say something does, we should really look into this…If we got along, and it sounds for the most part like we would, You have no friends, I have no friends, we hate our families, and F~~~ WOMEN forever, we both love dogs, and both have had lives that we wish we hadn’t…hmmmmmm…What do you think sir…It is something I will certainly be pondering for the next little while…Give it a really good amount of thought and get back to me…I am interested in your thoughts….anyways, hang in there, and as always, peace brother….

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Anonymous 43]

lol. get out when you can.

[experiencedParticipant]

Your post’s title really goes deep.
Yes, she does.
And the effect “Relationship Zero” has on those that follow it is literally mind boggling.
IMO there is a “lock-on” that ‘this’ is mom, and if she is manipulative, you will seek out a manipulator.
If she pulls your strings, you will seek a woman who does this also.
If she is abusive, you will seek out abuse.
HEAVY HEAVY topic,
I’m with Jeremiah and KM on this one.
Be Careful. [[social programming via mom = See that dog crap over there? That’s not crap, it’s a magnet and you are iron.]]

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[bladeParticipant]

What the f~~~ is going on here.I hope ya mum doesn’t count as a relationship.I will end up in trouble again so i will walk back out the door.Watching texas chainsaw massacre. God there are some family s~~~ in this movie i don’t get.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

It’s not about a romantic relationship.

It is about an interaction with a woman.

Your mom is a woman.

In my personal case, when my father died he left my mother alone. Without a man she went psychotic. Completely normal.

Go visit any nursing home. There is the remnants of a woman. There is a reason millions of woman are all alone in a nursing home.

Your situation is completely normal in our society. You go girl.

Peace brothers

[bladeParticipant]

Don’t want to go to a nursing home.they smell bad.It is like a p~~~ the bed comp is going on with out my knowledge.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[LurchParticipant 3866]

“They f~~~ you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were f~~~ed up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.”
― Philip Larkin

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Anonymous 0]

@keymaster How did that old saying go, “happy wife, happy life”, isn’t that right? As old as time itself, people have known that women are bitches and the only way to reduce the suffering was to just do whatever you had to to keep her happy, and hopefully quiet. Also, my whole thing about the olden days, it is when I think about my grandmother and great aunt. My great aunt was married to her husband for over 40 years, never cheated once, always had dinner ready, know my great uncle needed to go fishing sometimes, and when he died, she died less than a month later. They were perfect for each other. That is the fairy tail, in my mind at least. My logic says women are about as useful as a hockey racket, but my heart still wants to know the love and affection, you know what I mean?

@jeremiah Johnson When I get home from school, I am seriously going to start going through your old posts. I meant to the other day, but homework and s~~~ drew my attention. Key definitely always has some great advice and insight.

@experienced They always say the first woman a man falls in love with is his mother, and a man is destined to marry his mother. Looking back, a lot of the women in my life that I have been attracted to had many of the personality qualities of my mom. My mother uses her looks and vag to get what she wants from men, and I have been played a fool time and time again by women who do the exact same thing. My mother pretty much made a chump that could be manipulated by the next generation. She payed it forward. Too bad I woke up.

@blade That’s why I called i a relations~~~, not relationship. It is total s~~~. You don’t get to choose your mom. Also, which texas chainsaw? They are all good in my book at least.

@Darksith I couldn’t agree more. After my mom went bonkers and kicked my step dad out, she went nuts, started being an escort, and now she is “too mentally unstable to hold a job” ie she is lazy and wants a man to come and save her. She has even told me as much. She said she wants a handsome rich man to come take care of her. I asked her what she has to offer compared to a handsome rich man, and she said “well, I can do things for him that no one else can.” My mother is such a f~~~ing whore I can’t stand it.

I read a thing the other day talking about how the market is flooded with dicks, and how a man needs to bring more to the table in order to attract a woman. I think that is backwards. If you look at the sex toy market, there is like a billion different toys and machines out there for women, and they still don’t have enough. However, look at the market for anything for men. There is like 4 brands, and they all cost a fortune, and at the end of the day, Jill works just fine. I think the market is flooded with vag. We need a campaign or something to wake the world up to the reality that pussy is over valued. What do women bring to the table to make up for the fact that their vag is nothing special? After years of sleeping around and getting worn out, what do they have to offer? F~~~ing nothing. Men mature like wine, women mature like milk.

[AttonParticipant]

Why do you live with her?

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[bladeParticipant]

All good navy.I am been a f~~~wit and had a few beers.Watched the last one made but have all of them.All will work out for you in the end.All will be good bro.

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[Anonymous 0]

@atton Originally, I moved back home to help her out, as she was out of work and was struggling to pay her bills, little did I know that she was doing all the escort work and how crazy she had gotten. Now I am in college, and moving out isn’t viable. I should be graduating in spring, so I will be looking for work and an escape. I am prepared to pack up the dog, clothes, and computer and leave. She can have everything else.

I really regret moving back home. I wasn’t exactly happy at my old job, but if I had stayed there another few months, I would have gotten a 6 month severance, since they closed down the factory. But now I am in college, using my GI Bill, and I am opening up my work options. I don’t really care what I do for work, so long as there is a distinct work/life divide.

If the fates could shine on me and put me into contact with someone who could help me transition to a nice home with a fenced in yard living in rural Japan, I honestly don’t know what I would do. I would be too happy for words.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t think it really matters what you call it…sounds toxic as hell.

It sounds like you’ve found yourself in a situation where you can’t set proper boundaries with your mom due to circumstances. It also sounds like you have a plan to get out of your situation, so good for you. Till you can get away, just focus on the future.

It’s going to feel awesome when you can you truly walk away from all your mother’s s~~~.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

Holy s~~~…and here i was thinking of moving back home to my divorced mother’s place. Thank-you for this enlightening conversation.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

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