Does This Make Any Sense???

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Autolite wrote:

SESQUI ano est wrote:
It’s like an addict. Conversion therapy from blue pill to red pill doesn’t stick with everybody.
I think the bottom line might be that some people just need to be with people no matter what the cost. That emotional ‘need’ apparently overrides any sensibility or logic. I guess I don’t really understand why that is but I can acknowledge that that’s just the way that it is…

I don’t understand either but I guess I’ve done a ton of stupid crap in my life when I knew better. I’ll be carrying some of my stupid crap to my grave. Why did I do those things?

Autolite wrote:

When I die I want to take one of my cats with me. I’m not afraid of dying alone. I just want to be absolutely certain that this one particularly miserable little motherf~~~er doesn’t outlive me…

I’ve got two almost 18 pounders (f-ing mountain lions I think). There is no way I’m letting those bastards out live me!
Did I just admit to being a cat lady?

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Atton wrote:

He is done it 4 times I doubt he will learn.

He now says that this one is the “right one”. He doesn’t seem to remember that he said the exact same thing about the last one too! That’s the one who married him as a scam just for the divorce.

We know AWALT. I think he knows it as well but he’s just unable or afraid to admit or acknowledge it. It’s like willful self delusion and I don’t quite understand it…

[AutoliteParticipant]

SESQUI ano est wrote:

I’ve got two almost 18 pounders (f-ing mountain lions I think). There is no way I’m letting those bastards out live me!
Did I just admit to being a cat lady?

Well my cats are semi-feral and they live outside all year around. I need them for mice control. The mice do so much damage to the house and the vehicles and I really need them around.

They’re real nasty little buggers too! They’ll kill a small dog just because they think it’s fun…

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Well this doesn’t make sense to me but I understand how it can to older generations.

A neighbor who lived down the street was in his 70’s and widowed. He had a lady around his age move in with him. He straight up told me he wanted companionship and didn’t want to be alone when I asked him why he started dating again in his 70’s.

My uncle has has either 2 or 3 failed marriages, he’s probably 75-78 years old. He’s a drunk, spends money he doesn’t have, usually out of work. He’s been that way his whole life.

Somehow he reconnected with a high school sweetheart and they’ve been together for a couple years now. He said the same thing that my neighbor did, he wanted companionship and didn’t want to be alone. But knowing my uncle, his high school sweetheart is a widow, and has considerable assets, he probably just wants to spend her money.

I’ve also heard my dad who is 74 talk about “Companionship” and that when you get older that is really all you want out of a relationship. I told him that is what I’ve always wanted with women, but never found it. He said he never really found it either.

So it seems like with the older generations “Companionship” is a reason to be in a relationship. Like other’s have mentioned, some people just want things so badly that they will lie to themselves and believe they have something that they don’t. Based on my experience though I don’t think women are capable of companionship.

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