Do You Still Go Out? Are You Becoming Detached From People?

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

I’m a different animal, though. There’s a saying that no man is an island by himself. Well, I’m more of an exception to this rule. I avoid people as much as I can face to face, due to the mindnumbing chatter. On my flight to the US (on vacation to visit family) over 20 years ago, there was this chick next to me, from the US naturally enough, and she was very extrovert. I’ve seen it on television a lot, and was thinking; “Are all Americans like this?” Very much fluff and little substance. And people say about us from northern-Europe that we’re “cold and unemotional”. Not true, but we don’t show our heart on the sleeve 24/7 either. Things that are private stays private (this was long before social media).

Now, with Facebook, we’re seeing people getting burn out from too much socializing. And they disconnect. It’s not natural to show your soul to the entire world.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

I’m a local politician (though it isn’t my job, I have a true job), former deputy mayor candidate (with a quite good success, even if we didn’t win), so I’m quite the opposite of an “asocial”.
But, yes, my desire to go out “just for the pleasure of it” is almost zero, and I could care less to be around women, just because “being around women” is absolutely zero benefit and it can be even detrimental, and it’s mainly (if not even ALL) about our desire to impress women and ultimately having sex with them.
I care nothing, not anymore.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

I weighted the cost benefit ratio and most of the time social interaction is bad business.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[JoeMaster575Participant 175]

I was never interested in making friends or socializing with others in school. My dad would want me to socialize with other students and make friends but had a small group and would rarely socialize outside of school. I did go out with friends from High School after my father passed away in order to get out of the house, but rarely enjoyed them. I would rather go home directly, do my homework and play video games until bedtime.

Since taking the Red Pill in 2015, I find it very hard to relate to others considering my viewpoints and have descended further into the Rabbit Hole. After the election, I’m seriously becoming into a hardcore misogynist, anti-Semite, and racist with all of the bulls~~~ going on in the world. I can’t talk about anything I know with anyone I know without fear of ostracization, I can’t enjoy movies, television, or pop culture anymore and start to have an intense dislike for liberal celebrities and their destructive attitudes. Everywhere I look, I see (((Their))) influence on the world blatantly and no one cares. The Islamic Invasion is still going on despite the constant terrorism Europeans deal with, but they refuse to react. Trying to inform people what I’m seeing makes me sound crazy like I’m an insane conspiracy theorist and simply remain silent. I am detached from the people I know and don’t go out unless it’s work related. (Think of it like Cypher’s dilemma from The Matrix)

I have a BD in cinema, specifically in film production, and I originally wanted to enter Hollywood to become a famous producer. Now, I have no idea where to go, but not towards Hollywood. I now despise Hollywood for its poorly made films, useless idiots known as “celebrities”, the pedophile problem and the nonstop Political Correctness pumped out by them. Just carpet bomb it and let the Chinese take over the industry.

I know that this is due to the Red Pill. If I hadn’t taken it, I would have remained a moderate liberal who voted Hillary and bought the Russian Kookspiracy crap. In all honesty, I would rather remain the same. I can’t find anyone IRL to relate to yet, but that doesn’t concern me. Women don’t concern me either.

All in all, I dwell in my bedroom and isolate myself from others, and it’s the existence that I choose for myself.

They tried to fuck with our video games, and look what happened(#Gamergate), and they still havent learned their lessons(Trump 2016-2024)

[HeracliusParticipant 57]

Eric Lauder wrote:

I’m a local politician (though it isn’t my job, I have a true job), former deputy mayor candidate (with a quite good success, even if we didn’t win), so I’m quite the opposite of an “asocial”.
But, yes, my desire to go out “just for the pleasure of it” is almost zero, and I could care less to be around women, just because “being around women” is absolutely zero benefit and it can be even detrimental, and it’s mainly (if not even ALL) about our desire to impress women and ultimately having sex with them.
I care nothing, not anymore.

Almost every novel/movie/series revolves around a man getting in trouble chasing tail. Those stories are rooted in reality. I see the same thing happening with my friends and relatives, and myself when I was in PUA mode and going out.

Wasted a substantial amount of money, risked my health by drinking and smoking, and for what exactly? Nothing but female validation. I never regretted staying at home and waking up refreshed on a Sunday morning, as opposed to waking up with a hangover and a lighter wallet.

[HeracliusParticipant 57]

JoeMaster575 wrote:

I was never interested in making friends or socializing with others in school. My dad would want me to socialize with other students and make friends but had a small group and would rarely socialize outside of school. I did go out with friends from High School after my father passed away in order to get out of the house, but rarely enjoyed them. I would rather go home directly, do my homework and play video games until bedtime.

Since taking the Red Pill in 2015, I find it very hard to relate to others considering my viewpoints and have descended further into the Rabbit Hole. After the election, I’m seriously becoming into a hardcore misogynist, anti-Semite, and racist with all of the bulls~~~ going on in the world. I can’t talk about anything I know with anyone I know without fear of ostracization, I can’t enjoy movies, television, or pop culture anymore and start to have an intense dislike for liberal celebrities and their destructive attitudes. Everywhere I look, I see (((Their))) influence on the world blatantly and no one cares. The Islamic Invasion is still going on despite the constant terrorism Europeans deal with, but they refuse to react. Trying to inform people what I’m seeing makes me sound crazy like I’m an insane conspiracy theorist and simply remain silent. I am detached from the people I know and don’t go out unless it’s work related. (Think of it like Cypher’s dilemma from The Matrix)

I have a BD in cinema, specifically in film production, and I originally wanted to enter Hollywood to become a famous producer. Now, I have no idea where to go, but not towards Hollywood. I now despise Hollywood for its poorly made films, useless idiots known as “celebrities”, the pedophile problem and the nonstop Political Correctness pumped out by them. Just carpet bomb it and let the Chinese take over the industry.

I know that this is due to the Red Pill. If I hadn’t taken it, I would have remained a moderate liberal who voted Hillary and bought the Russian Kookspiracy crap. In all honesty, I would rather remain the same. I can’t find anyone IRL to relate to yet, but that doesn’t concern me. Women don’t concern me either.

All in all, I dwell in my bedroom and isolate myself from others, and it’s the existence that I choose for myself.

I felt like that before as well. Sometimes still do. But I think you should focus more on yourself instead. Why? Because every society sucks ass. If you don’t even like 99% of people around you, why worry about what will happen to them or their children? You’re trying to find some grand meaning by attaching yourself to a historical identity. Unfortunately it’s usually very unproductive since you can’t do anything about the current state of affairs anyway, and that realisation just leads to more depression and bitterness. I’d advise you (from personal experience) to invest your time in developing yourself either way. Because in case that you really want to make a change, you cannot be of help to anyone if you’re not self-actualized. Whether you’re super rich, or an influential writer or politician – develop the talent tree that suits you best.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

I socialize with close friends so I do go out, but it is more to socialize with these close friends and never for the purpose of picking women up. Some of these friends are married but their wives understand and respect the choices I have made.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

I am more of what you will call an “introvert”. I have always had the habit of spending more time with myself since childhood. I am always more creative when I’m alone.

Even when I was still very blue pilled, there were many things that my peers loved to get together and talk about that didn’t interest me as I didn’t see any substance in them.

Currently, apart from my parents, my brothers and a few other family members, I have just a few (intelligent) friends who I keep in touch with. These are guys who have similar interests and hobbies as I do. Only one of them is “red pilled” but I still get to have intelligent conversations and get creative with all of them whenever we meet up.

I have also developed a habit of going out all by myself as a way of “balancing out” the extended amounts of time I spend in solitude. I go to interesting places where there is quite a number of people and I observe around with some level of interest while I have a nice time.

I believe that these are healthy things to do (occasionally doing something productive with friends and going out once in a while) as a way of not totally living only in my head.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

I too have been an extroverted introvert all my life. Early on I saw the inanity of mist people’s prattle and the pointless conversations about nothing (no wonder Seinfeld was so damn popular). I would do school, do sports, and come home and work in my dad’s vineyards. I would hang out and do stuff with my friends but it was usually productive and beneficial in some way. Their was a time when I decided to get into the in group and once in, I realized how vapid and shallow they were. It was all style over substance. It didn’t help that I have a high i.q. either. That just cemented my “weirdness”. It’s okay to disconnect from a society that is universally abhorrent. I did and became successful. Although we all need balance in our lives. It is imperative to be able to relate to people on a basic level so as to be able to conduct business. However, I agree with mist of the other commenters on this. Don’t waste any time or effort on dullards. Focus on being true to yourself and to your aspirations. This will lead you to your happy place.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I hate to go out. I plan my days around getting as much done out in the least amount of time as possible. Even staying to myself hasn’t worked out. I live in the country and my neighbor just built a house within 15 feet of my house.

I don’t socialize in my community at all.

I don’t trust people. Even the most simple interaction today is rife with danger. Hold the door, don’t hold the door, offer help, brush into someone, get a dirty look.

The only people I let into my house are family and a few friends I have had for years and I trust.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

I’m a social person, I can talk with a perfect stranger for hours, but I have always found that I’ve had to force myself to “go out”. I still struggle with this aspect of my life, and making friends.

For me, a lot of the pasttimes associated with “going out” don’t appeal to me – sporting events, bars, etc. Chasing and crushing poon used to be my social pursuit; but even that has started to grow old for me.

Its just like society is not built for someone with a higher IQ. Intellectual type pursuits I’m drawn too tend to be solo activities.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

[TicParticipant 4329]

part of it may be a sort of “spiritual” progress. We have ingrained programming to do everything for the sake of finding a mate which takes up a lot of our creative / artistic drive as well as our ability to get in tune with ourselves and our environment.

eliminating or at least bringing that programming under control allows you to sort of step back and see the big picture, but to also focus on the finer things. It allows you to garner wisdom, introspection and all that jazz, if you will.

The natural by-product of this is that you tend to become a bit socially isolated because other people are not like that.

This is the reason we tend to not mix well with blue pillers. They are not at the same plane of thought.

I’m not trying to make myself or us seem superior at all, just saying that stepping back from society is a natural progression of this process.

At some point, you may scale it down and get back into social things, but, you’ll know when you’re ready.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I go out when I’m hanging with my buddies, buying games, buying food, working out, etc.
No trollops.

I’m not detached from people. I’m detached from s~~~ magnets.

[OldBillParticipant]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

I’m not detached from people. I’m detached from s~~~ magnets.

Now that is a signature worthy quote. Easily worth +1000 if I could.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

I think solitude is part of the red pill process. If I go out and enjoy things on MY TERMS I have a good time. Not seeking anything from anyone and simply enjoying yourself in the moment helps. Aloneness is part of being a MAN and can be necessary and recharging. People can be highly annoying but I prefer a balance of the introvert and extrovert sides of myself. Women tend to shatter that peace but like a fire can keep you warm and cosy from time to time, on YOUR terms. Pretty much agree with what KM said there too. No need to become a hermit either.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

I agree completely on this one. The last few nights out I have been on have just made me hate it more and more. Everything is so fake, people pretending to have money to impress, trying to look cool or groups just stood on their phones. I have not seen the c~~~s trick of “Wanna buy me a drink?” in a long time but I’m sure it still goes on. Most songs are about how powerful women are and how they want to be left alone even though ‘everyone wants them’. Women pushing into the front of the bar and getting served first, pretty much every aspect disgusts me.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Heraclius wrote:

Eric Lauder wrote:

I’m a local politician (though it isn’t my job, I have a true job), former deputy mayor candidate (with a quite good success, even if we didn’t win), so I’m quite the opposite of an “asocial”.
But, yes, my desire to go out “just for the pleasure of it” is almost zero, and I could care less to be around women, just because “being around women” is absolutely zero benefit and it can be even detrimental, and it’s mainly (if not even ALL) about our desire to impress women and ultimately having sex with them.
I care nothing, not anymore.

Almost every novel/movie/series revolves around a man getting in trouble chasing tail. Those stories are rooted in reality. I see the same thing happening with my friends and relatives, and myself when I was in PUA mode and going out.

Wasted a substantial amount of money, risked my health by drinking and smoking, and for what exactly? Nothing but female validation. I never regretted staying at home and waking up refreshed on a Sunday morning, as opposed to waking up with a hangover and a lighter wallet.

I’m beginning to suspect that this account is a certain British journalist with which I had a very short relationship about 20 years ago when I was having an holiday in Ibiza.
The use of the words “PUA mode” like I do could be even a coincidence in itself, but there are too many coincidences (including the reference to “The Name of the Rose” since we watched the movie together, in Spanish), it really seems her, also because she already published few articles that are basically inspired to the statements in my signature, and I know that she’s regularly checking mgtow.com as source of inspiration.
There’s a myriad of details, I’m not going to address the most personal ones, but just take the intro:

I studied history but quit this year, because it was a fat waste of time with little job prospects. Started working online afterwards as a freelance writer

Oh, look, a freelance writer working online, who studied History, what a coincidence! 😀 with an account named Heraclius (Byzantine Emperor…looks like someone who had a special interest for Byzantine History, another coincidence! 😀 ), and worth noticing that the mother of Heraclius was Epiphania 😀 and that under Heraclius there was the very first contact with China, Tang Dynasty (another coincidence, looks like someone who have a special interest for someone else who is interested about Tang Dynasty 😀 ).
Heraclius is also the Byzantine Emperor who began the long series of wars against the Arabs, opposing the muslim expansion – look like someone who is particularly afraid by the rise of Islam in the west! Another coincidence 😀
Eh, okay, I cannot resist about the personal things:

abstain from cumming in a vagina

That’s necessary if a man lack a condom but he’s having sex: he make her reaching orgasm, then he extract his dick and cums outside the vagina. Looks like another coincidence…

I suggest to Keymaster to check the ISP address, if it’s from UK, then there’s another coincidence at play, and it’s too much…also because the account stated it’s from Croatia…

However, if it’s not so, I apologize in advance, and it’s just a long series of bizarre coincidences.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Anonymous 12]

is someone calling Tuna?

XD

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

is someone calling Tuna?

XD

I didn’t report, I’m not sure and I cannot be.
The only thing that can confirm my suspects is the ISP address: if it’s from UK, then my suspects are largely confirmed, it couldn’t be another coincidence.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

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