Do you respond when you make a purchase and a female cashier calls you "honey'?

[Anonymous 14]

I lived in a place where the older women did this from time to time. And unlike women who get offended by everything, I thought it came across as very kind and sweet. No problem with it at all. I think some of these ladies would also say sweetie as well from time to time. Maybe it is more of a small town thing, I don’t know, it did seem to be only women over 30 or 40, none of the really young ones would ever do it…

[Anonymous 3]

What I’ve learned about myself is I can still b p~~~ed off by women despite how hard I try to not take anything they say serious. However, I maintain my MGTOW stance.

[CoolbreezeParticipant 442]

Most of the time they just throw bait out there to see how much attention they can get. Like an ego boost.
I wouldn’t hold it against you if it p~~~ed you off but take pride in the fact that you can recognize it in the first place.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Do you respond when you make a purchase and a female cashier calls you “honey’?

Yes. And unlike a woman, I don’t get all f~~~ing uppity about it, either.

“You may call me SIR”.

Even when a woman asks my name, that’s my response. When I want to introduce myself I will tell her my name. Until then, she may call me “SIR”.

Try it. You’ll LOVE it.

—

Last Friday, a dental assistant told me to “have a seat, dear“.

“You may call me Sir”.

You should have seen the expression on her face.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

I ignore it. I will simply say hi if they greet me, other than that i dont say anything or even look at them. It’s pretty much the same treatment i get from them at my job.

[Anonymous 0]

This happened to me a few days ago. A woman in her mid 40s asked to do me a favor when I was taking a break. I told her that I was having a break, contact my co-worker whom was in duty and he will take care of your request (I work as a hotel receptionist). She said “Thanks honey”. I’m 23 years old and honestly I didn’t like it. Looking at her face and heavy makeup that hides her wrinkles, I replied “Thanks Mommy…!” with a baby smile. Good thing I wasn’t wearing my name-tag. She was p~~~ed off but her boyfriend (older than her) started laughing hysterically! Thank God! He found it funny and tipped me good.

[Anonymous 3]

Blood king… Lol that’s what I’m talking about.

[The HogParticipant 253]

“Thank you sweetheart”
“Thank you darling”
“Thank you gorgeous”
“Thank you sweetie”
“Thank you sweet t~~~”
“Thank you sweet cheeks”
“Thank you baby”
“Thank you cutie”

Ensure you have purchased some popcorn for the ensuing floor show.

Had a woman loudly declare female superiority because they can multi-task and men can't! Told her to "shut up and fuck off" and she couldn't do either!

[JVBParticipant]

Meh. I say thank you and move on.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 3]

I know I am in the right place. Thanks Hog.
Again, I thank all of you. MGTOW

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

If a young woman does this and you really want to mess with her head, call her “ma’am.”

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Anonymous wrote:

Tone of voice & attitude sometimes betrays their real purpose behind ” honey ” Then you would understand why I brought up the topic & called it an affront.

I understand what you mean, you can hear the same thing many times and not think twice about it, but then someone says it in a particular way and it makes you stop and wonder what they actually meant.
Just to add one, in England ” upp Norf “, they will almost always greet you with “allo luv”.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Akay! 3 g and t’s and I’m f~~~ing with the FEMALE bartender. I have 300.00 sitting on the bar after I’ve tabbed out. She is taking my s~~~storm with an open mouth! Little does she know that the fiver that’s on the bottom is what she’s getting. I’m such a f~~~. My left side feels guilty. My right side is laughing my ass off! Now she is abusive with other customers. Wow.

Oh the power! Oh the gratification!
Oyy.

Okay. I know that I’ve lowered myself
I know that y’all are expressing disappointment with me. Okay. I deserve that. But. It feels so good!!!! Yes I’m pathetic. And to the original point. I HATE THAT S~~~ SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

Breath……..

I have this happen too often. And just tonight the previous bartender shook my hand and asked my name while telling me here was Tabatha. The other, Miranda, bitch extraordinaire, had this exchange. My mgtow wisdom is expanding exponentially now, thanks to my brethren. Now it’s just fun to be an asshole. Ponchans mes amies.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[Russky2Participant 3096]

Depends on her age, but I would rather them not call me that and act professionally.

What p~~~es me of though is them asking me if I could donate to X charity….f~~~ing p~~~es me of!!!

Once I ran into a rude cashier though. I went into a grocery store right after a hard day of work of 12 hour s~~~ shift. Saw a self check out machine and went for it. Still prefer human interaction to support whatever jobs left for humans. This woman that works in a store comes up to me, grabs the s~~~ I wanted to buy from my hands and with a s~~~ty attitude and a tone of voice like your typical angry mother starts telling me how to properly use the f~~~ing thing. I’m just looking at her with amusement and anger, without knowing what to do with her. First I wanted to start s~~~ and call her manager, but was just too tired to deal with all the BS. Personally I don’t give a s~~~ if she had a bad day, I’m the f~~~ing customer and customer is KING in any f~~~ing business!

MGTOW AKBAR

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

It is now 8:39. The evening is young. And yet… I’m still here. Trying my best to get kicked outta here. Who was it that said that women just respond to money today? Anyway, he is right! 300.00 on the bar. Still sucking my s~~~! I know, I know. Sad me. But it is tutorial. And confirmative. Skye-o, you are so prescient. Even more inebriated now than before, and still an asshole. Yet they will kiss my ass for, wait for it… MONEY!!!! HOW IRONIC! Pink Floyd, money was just playing. Wow. I just realized how drunk I am. F~~~ it. I’m amongst brothers. Www

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Me thinks I’m going for a ride on me motorbike in the canyons. Hazaaa!

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

Not exactly. Used to have a coworker refer to me as honey or darling, but she seemed to be from the south. Just a bit odd being on the east coast.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[CoolbreezeParticipant 442]

Don’t know how you do it vicious
I can’t type when drunk

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

And again, more ramblings from the drunk old guy. Why is their a chair in the women’s lavatories? So they can sit on their ever enlarging asses whilst they are in there? In Freakifornia, it’s legal to use the women’s loo as long as you identify as a women at that moment. Oh Jesus Christ shoot me now.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I’m with OP on this one. Are there cultural outliers, such as in the South? Ya, sure, but if OP was from there/lives there, he would be accustomed to it by now and wouldn’t be writing about it.

Try calling a girl “honey/sweetie” or what not; it’s tantamount to verbal rape in her eyes. I always feel as though I’m being handled by a girl when she says that, ESPECIALLY a bartender or waitress. I feel like I’m Butters in the South Park episode “Raisins” where he falls in love with a waitress who always calls him “honey, sweetie, babe, love” etc.

It’s stomach churning IMO and the reason why is because this is another example of women making THEMSELVES the prize object. If I’m out having a drink, and the server starts talking to me this way, it makes it seem as though I’m there for her attention/affection, when I’m not.

Resident cynic.

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