Discovering Freedom.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Some of you may remember my testimonies about my 1st and 2nd wives. I split with my second wife the day after Christmas/2016 after I discovered her having her 2nd ongoing affair. My first wife was far worse and I was cheated on at least a total of 12 times. I’m not sure if cheating is in a woman’s nature or if we now have a modern society with little morals having a court system backing it. I guess it doesn’t matter for men today as the outcome is the same. I came to MGTOW after wanting to kill myself and relapsed twice into depression in March and early June. I kept my fathers home but am otherwise too poor to pay attention.

And yet, I see something starting to come around. I am on a temporary layoff and study MGTOW like it was for a degree. I have this website, YouTube and a couple of books and chat when I can. I will be going back to work driving at a major university when the semester starts in mid-August. I dreaded my temporary unemployment and while it has not been easy, MGTOW has helped me keep my head. I have started to like where I am at least in the mental capacity (the money sucks). I walk my Dachshund and do what I like and can afford. I have started to accept my lifestyle of being alone. It’s not so bad grabbing a beer from the fridge without a scornful look. It’s not so bad having time to get to know my neighbors. It’s not so bad running around in my underwear at home and keeping the electric bill lower than I have seen in decades. I can be as weird as I want and say what I want, there is no one around to judge but my Dachshund and love doll and they do not judge me. I am freer than I have been in many years. I have Freedom that no one living with another could hope to have. This living alone isn’t so bad after all. It’s a life worth living where I can tell women to f~~~ off. You beautiful bastards have given me hope and I thank you. I am by no means “In the clear” of another relapse into depression but for now, I like my freedom. I can stick to my principals better than I ever could before. It’s like breathing when one could hardly breathe for many years. I would like to thank each and everyone of you assholes for you kicking my ass as well as your understanding. This is no place for a “Group hug” but your support is real. Thank you for saving my life and freedom. If at any time, I may need your help next Christmas because God only knows how I now hate that day.

[joetechParticipant]

I’m glad I met you, Sparky. Life still has many adventures in store for you. Breathe in that freedom and let it ring.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

We’ve all gone through it brother. I know I was a mess when we separated. I am still not 100%. Time will heal everything. You will still have scars, but we learn more from our failures in life than our successes. Stay strong. And for Christ sake, the minute you find a woman cheating on you, you kick them to the curb. No ifs ands or buts. You need to have confidence in yourself. Trust when I say, when you have extreme confidence in yourself, others will immediately notice. They say Alpha here, but I am more of a Sigma I believe (not big on the limelight). Either way, you do not want to be beta.

[Anonymous 13]

Once you’ve gone a certain amount of time without a woman in your life and spent some quality time alone.

The very idea of another woman playing games with your life, being disloyal, cheating, demanding, spending, and all manner of other abuse they dish out.

Then that thought will send you quite nauseous if not give you nightmares.

All that and they also trash your place.

Seriously they are a f~~~ing nightmare in terms of trying to keep a place tidy.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

ForeverDone wrote:

They say Alpha here, but I am more of a Sigma I believe (not big on the limelight). Either way, you do not want to be beta.

Those are terms given by women, not MGTOW. We are brothers and many of us have our wounds. The more s~~~ one has gone through, the more time it takes to heal and I have had more than my share. At the same time, it gives me more ability to help others. We are all here first to survive and than to thrive.

[Anonymous 42]

You’ve come a long way Sparky! I’ve noticed the force growing strong in you, the economic depravity will subside as wastefulness has been abolished from your life!

I consider you another man saved and on his way to a blissful life of never ending inner peace.

I think Kwi Chang Cane summed it up the best when you hit the peak of serenity; “I am not afraid of death”…

[Anonymous 1]

They say you have to wade through s~~~ to find the gold. I dumped my wife in 2014, was ok for three years and then earlier this year stupidly got involved with a woman who sought me out and came on strong, but I was resolute in my no sex rule, she was 40 and I thought she might be trying for her last child.
Three weeks later the same traits began to show, moods, demands etc. Alarm bells ringing loudly, I was out of there.

The ways they use to suck you in are subtle and many. It’s nothing less than psychological warfare.

I nearly fell off the wagon because I had been in hospital afer a young woman drove over me on a car park. That case is still going through the courts for personal injury as the Poice found she was Drunk driving. No pussy pass for her, she had previous convictions for it and didn’t actully have a license to drive, having been banned. Floods of tears did nothing for her and the male Police officer was hard as nails. Cuffs on, in the van to jail.
Only got four months though and my leg will have scars for life.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

They say you have to wade through s~~~ to find the gold. I dumped my wife in 2014, was ok for three years and then earlier this year stupidly got involved with a woman who sought me out and came on strong, but I was resolute in my no sex rule, she was 40 and I thought she might be trying for her last child.
Three weeks later the same traits began to show, moods, demands etc. Alarm bells ringing loudly, I was out of there.

The ways they use to suck you in are subtle and many. It’s nothing less than psychological warfare.

I nearly fell off the wagon because I had been in hospital afer a young woman drove over me on a car park. That case is still going through the courts for personal injury as the Poice found she was Drunk driving. No pussy pass for her, she had previous convictions for it and didn’t actully have a license to drive, having been banned. Floods of tears did nothing for her and the male Police officer was hard as nails. Cuffs on, in the van to jail.
Only got four months though and my leg will have scars for life.

Denying yourself sex is not the answer. A happy medium is. If you’re worried about spreading your seed, you can always get a vasectomy or just use a latex condom.

Happy to hear the woman is getting what she deserves. I wish you a speedy recovery and glad to hear you’re still with us.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

ForeverDone wrote:

Denying yourself sex is not the answer. A happy medium is. If you’re worried about spreading your seed, you can always get a vasectomy or just use a latex condom.

Actually, denying sex is an answer (though I have a sex doll). Any man that has been in a long term marriage already knows how to go without sex for long periods. My wife and I were down to about once a year.

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