Did you ever get that feeling?

[StealthParticipant 5328]

A few times in my life I’ve experienced my intuition screaming at me loudly to not do something. Most were simple or small things that would be considered normal, even mundane, activities. In most cases, I overrode my internal warnings with logical reasoning and proceeded anyway, reasoning that ‘there is nothing wrong with doing x’ and framing my foreboding feelings as a temporary bout of insanity. Looking back, every one of those times was a turning point in my life towards the worse. Every one of these times rewired my understanding of the world towards chaos. My intuition turned out to be right.

One of these situations was taking my wife to see Star Wars: Episode One. No big deal, right? But I had an unexplainable foreboding sense that we should not go see it. We had both worked very hard to prep for a move, and decided we would take one evening off to just chill before moving day.

We went to the theater. I thought the film wasn’t that great, actually. I didn’t find Anikin’s character transformation convincing as he gave himself over to fear and then sought to destroy all the jedis within just a few minutes. I left wondering what all my foreboding dread was about. Ok, whatever, no big deal. Movie wasn’t all that good but at least we took a break, and on we go..

Reflecting on how my wife ultimately gave in to fear and rage and her name became synonymous with destructive behavior, and tracing back the trajectory—I really believe that taking her to see that film planted the pattern of becoming a supervillain in her mind. Turns out my intuition wasn’t for my well-being—I think it was for hers. I had no idea this small seed from a pop film would somehow contribute to her personal demise, and years of divorce rape & recovery for me.

It’s also curious how the things she was afraid of appealed to the monster inside her. The zombies from I Am Legend uniquely terrified her, and are something she ultimately turned into. It’s like she knew. She had a lot of rage and fear surrounding her mother, and ultimately turned into her as well.

Good news is I don’t blame myself for taking her to see a dumb movie. I didn’t understand how she (or anyone) would internalize its shabby plot. Also, that’s possibly the worst thing I ever did to her in the marriage, so there’s that. I’m also aware that these types of tales border on ghost stories, and that my religious upbringing is likely the reason for these unaccountable intuitions in the first place. But based on my other experiences, I think I’m right about my theory. As in all the other cases, it would make an interesting study had I listened to my intuition and, as I now wish, done something else instead.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

You may be over thinking, soo it was your foult your wife turned into a monster?

Maybe you are the one respinsible for my wife too.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Intuition is often correct ..

that thing they call a “gut feeling” .. is usually the best

[Anonymous 38]

Intuition is pretty reliable. The reason you intuited that was because you were already detecting that energy from your wife.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

I wouldn’t beat myself up too much for that one.

I too recommended/backed an “activity” for my wife and myself many years ago thinking that it would be a “good thing”.

Unfortunately, she went OVER BOARD with it and submerged herself in it, and the more she became interested the LESS I could stand it. THIS lead to a HUGE division between us, and started A LOT of problems and continues to do so to this day.

There’s not a day that goes by that I wish I NEVER GOT INTO THIS WITH HER.

On the other side of the coin, this doesn’t mean that something else would not have came along that would have just created “other” problems as well.

What I’m getting at is when we start playing the “what if?” game, we just think that if we did something or didn’t do something then we would have had less problems, but in reality we probably would have just ended up with different problems.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[UntamedParticipant]

I learned pretty early to listen to my gut-feelings ’cause every time I didn’t I ended up regretting it. I can’t count how many times this sixth sense saved my ass in more ways than I care to recount.
But once I got married it seemed to have left me… probably because I was too busy listening to my X’s irrational suggestions instead of thinking for myself. Then I got divorced and, whatayaknow, I got it back somehow.
Marriage for a man is akin to caging a great wild cat after years of living free in nature and hoping to make it do tricks. The human being is much more than flesh and blood and these intuitions, gut-feelings and forebodings are proof that we are connected to some kind of flow that transcends time and space.
These days, I pay serious attention to my intuitions. I know I can trust them to be right and won’t have any regrets listening to them. Sometimes, that may lead to some unexpected actions on my part but I give no s~~~ what anybody thinks and being unpredictable is part of my personality and also saved my butt several times in the past.

Stealth, it’ a good subject and you should not have taken your wife to see Episode One. You created a monster! LOL!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

I got a different take. I’m more interested in the move than the movie. I started thinking about how you recognize several pivotal things about this day. First, The move itself, the packing and such. Second the fact that this day marks sort of beginning of the end moment. The inception of the day itself.

Was she happy about the move? Was she for the idea of moving?

If she was for the move, then it was a last ditch effort to “Save the marriage” or some s~~~. Well it didn’t work and thus plan b.

If she was against the move, then the movie may actually have played a role on the style of revenge.

Third, I don’t take it lightly that intuition. You sensed something said don’t go that day. For me that’s the Holy Spirit. For you whatever, you felt something that day say don’t go. This is just a theory but maybe you were supposed to sit at home and talk and end up fighting that night. And the truth was supposed to come out that night. Saving you a lot of heartache later. Just a theory bro, but there’s no denying you marked that day in your mind as pivotal.

Good to see I ain’t the only one that over thinks the s~~~ out of stuff. Lol that movie was Savage.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[StealthParticipant 5328]

Episode three! The one where Anikin becomes Darth Vader.

Just saw this clip, exactly what the hive did to her:

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 18]

I will take responsibility for global warming once I eat too much beans …

But taking accountability for a bitch turning into a c~~~?

Broooo. You good but not that good.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

What is this thing we call intuition? Why does it feel like your gut is doing the thinking.

My theory is that the autonomic nervous system is making the decision.

The among the largest nerve clusters, or ganglia, is located just behind the stomach outside the spinal column.

It is my theory it is this more primal part of the nervous system that weighs in on decisions. Perhaps it feels like it’s in your gut because all us vertebrates are built this way.

Hair brain theory off.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3754]

I like Puffin Stuff’s explanation better . lol

Are ganglia related to bowel movements ? You know… morning “gut feelings”.

Anyway… I digress.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

The autonomic nervous system is faster than your brain, and it is specialized in recognizing patterns and clues, that your conscious brain will take hours to “digest”, after the fact happened.

In racing lessons, you learn that you have to rely on your body (backs, butt, legs, arms), instead of your eyes, because the eyes are too slow to react to the changes in the car angles, speed, height and lines, so most of the times, your brain should be free to think about strategy, not to correct the car. Correcting the car is done by your autonomic system.

“Intuition” or “gut feeling” is nothing more than your autonomic system doing its job, way faster than you could realize, putting you “off”, so you can know that something is wrong, even before you acknoledge the danger. Trust this sensation, for it is THE best indicator of danger that you will always have.

Stealthy, you should have trusted your intuition. Anyway, that was a great lesson that you have learnt that day.
Cheers, bro. To your ghosting!

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[MonkParticipant 16977]

Three times I went with my gut feeling and avoided marriage.

As events were to prove – right every time.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

GENTS. I’ll make this simple for you. Women are EASILY influenced by FANTASY. Eve was convinced she could be “Like GOD”. That should tell you immediately everything about their nature. They want MORE FOR THEMSELVES and less for you. AWALT!!

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH
#VAGINAISWORTHLESS

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I really did not want to chime in, but I guess it’s time after thinking about.

Men that have a sense of worth seem to have to have this nagging at them for taking responsibility for things around them that they had a hand in. It may be apart of centuries old programing. But it’s one of the reasons why the system that has been built lasts and keeps going that enslaves all men all around the world.

The problem is, nature made you responsible. But then you do not live in nature. You live in modern society. You are a pleb, where they are elite class. No matter how your mind sees the situation in front of you? You can never act on those whims.

The horrible truth is that women and especially your ex would be happier and better off with you. You need to know that. But it’s nothing that you can do anything about.

THe HIVE is no longer our problem. THey are the stupid ones getting used.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

After I had been dating my ex-wife for a month or so I ended things, she actually told me I was the first man who had ended things with her. She messaged me a few weeks later to tell me I had left some things at her place and if I wanted to come over and collect them. Obviously we ended up having sex and before you know it we are dating again.

A few years later we have bought a house together and she makes hints about getting married which my gut told me I didn’t want. A couple of years of hints and nagging later and we get married.

So basically I had the feeling numerous times to get out but my head told me I was being stupid, everybody gets married and that if I was single I would never find anyone else.

Always trust your gut no matter what your brain is logically telling you.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

After I had been dating my ex-wife for a month or so I ended things, she actually told me I was the first man who had ended things with her. She messaged me a few weeks later to tell me I had left some things at her place and if I wanted to come over and collect them. Obviously we ended up having sex and before you know it we are dating again.
A few years later we have bought a house together and she makes hints about getting married which my gut told me I didn’t want. A couple of years of hints and nagging later and we get married.
So basically I had the feeling numerous times to get out but my head told me I was being stupid, everybody gets married and that if I was single I would never find anyone else.
Always trust your gut no matter what your brain is logically telling you.

Society tries to train us to “Care for women ” more than ourselves , I would guess many Men had the same feeling prior to marriage , I know I did.

Things were “A bit ” different 35 years ago , you only ever know a women when you divorce her.

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