Did I dodge a bullet or is it only a matter of time…

[Russky2Participant 3086]

Last week, at the end of my shift I regurgitated my recent story, to a co worker, of a f~~~ed up experience with a woman that I met on POF. Hearing my story he was pretty damn shocked, but found it interesting and entertaining.

After hearing me out he proceeded to tell me of an extremely similar story, with a guy that met a woman on POF, and she turned out to be psychotic, but went after him and sued him for BS reasons.

He spent more than 10K in courts, just to cover lawyer’s fees. And lucky for him however, they found out that she lied in her own BS. Nothing happened to her however, no punishment, no slap on a face NOTHING NADA!!!

She knows my e mail, and my last name. This means that it won’t be hard to find my address, as there are not too many people living in this city with the same last name. I think I might be screwed….my only hope is that this is the SAME chick, as courts would realize what they are dealing with. If not, then I might have to spend even more money than that guy. I have very little evidence to back up my story. FUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MGTOW AKBAR

[Russky2Participant 3086]

The lesson here not only for myself, but anyone new to MGTOW. Because this just CONFIRMS what everyone with EXPERIENCE went through. Especially men that went through divorce. Because this one experience is NOTHING, even if she decided to drag me to court, things could be much worse.

So what’s the lesson here, as we tend to forget what brought us here in the first place? Because to be honest, right now I’m pretty damn concerned about the possibility of her going that route. I just hope that she thinks I’m not worthy of pursuing. I did tell her that I’m pretty damn broke, and she knows I’m a security guard. That means I’m not making much money. But you never know..

MGTOW AKBAR

[EGParticipant 1854]

What BS reason was the other guy on POF sued for?

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Whether or not she pursues you depends mainly on whether or not she has found a new mark. If she has, that will preoccupy her, although once she tires of him she may be back.

[Russky2Participant 3086]

EG wrote:

What BS reason was the other guy on POF sued for?

Ohh, it was rape accusations.

MGTOW AKBAR

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Russky2 wrote:

So what’s the lesson here, as we tend to forget what brought us here in the first place? Because to be honest, right now I’m pretty damn concerned about the possibility of her going that route. I just hope that she thinks I’m not worthy of pursuing. I did tell her that I’m pretty damn broke, and she knows I’m a security guard. That means I’m not making much money. But you never know..

The lesson here is that it’s not whether or not she pulls the trigger today, it’s that she holds a loaded gun to your head EVERY day. It’s the Sword of Damocles hanging over your head every day from the day you met her. Of course unlike the sword the longer it goes the safer you probably are. But it’s still there. And the only thing between you and a jail cell is the sanity of the woman holding the gun.

It’s not just whether or not she will, it’s that she can. THAT’S the lesson. I hope it all goes your way brother.

Order the good wine

[AutoliteParticipant]

Russky2 wrote:

Last week, at the end of my shift I regurgitated my recent story, to a co worker, of a f~~~ed up experience with a woman that I met on POF.

WTF are you doing on POF FFS!?!

[Russky2Participant 3086]

Autolite wrote:

Russky2 wrote:

Last week, at the end of my shift I regurgitated my recent story, to a co worker, of a f~~~ed up experience with a woman that I met on POF.

WTF are you doing on POF FFS!?!

Were doing, is being force fed blue pills from all over the place, and having feeling lonely…it’s all excuses really for me to have f~~~ed up like that. The red flags were there, but I didn’t bite the bullet when I had to. I thought I’d give it another chance, and would actually apologize to HER for the way she perceived things to go the wrong way.

I almost became a BETA orbiter. She lied through her teeth, yet gave constant hits that gave her away. Yet accused me of all kinds of s~~~ that I did or did not do allegedly. I even gave her my e mail, with my last name in it lol. What a f~~~ up I am….she sent me an e mail just two weeks ago asking if I missed her. I told her all the reasons that I’m not, and she got p~~~ed of but told me it’s all over. Good, I hope so!!! I’d never date a crazy bitch like that, no matter the looks.

MGTOW AKBAR

[EGParticipant 1854]

Russky2 wrote:

EG wrote:

What BS reason was the other guy on POF sued for?

Ohh, it was rape accusations.

The only person I know IRL who uses POF turned out to be a narcissist. Not only that, but she started bullying me in the neighborhood as soon as she realized I wasn’t lying when I told her I don’t sleep with women. That’s the impression POF has on me; a place for psycho narcissists to pick each other up. Today’s story only adds to that impression.

[Russky2Participant 3086]

TaxGuy wrote:

Russky2 wrote:

So what’s the lesson here, as we tend to forget what brought us here in the first place? Because to be honest, right now I’m pretty damn concerned about the possibility of her going that route. I just hope that she thinks I’m not worthy of pursuing. I did tell her that I’m pretty damn broke, and she knows I’m a security guard. That means I’m not making much money. But you never know..

The lesson here is that it’s not whether or not she pulls the trigger today, it’s that she holds a loaded gun to your head EVERY day. It’s the Sword of Damocles hanging over your head every day from the day you met her. Of course unlike the sword the longer it goes the safer you probably are. But it’s still there. And the only thing between you and a jail cell is the sanity of the woman holding the gun.
It’s not just whether or not she will, it’s that she can. THAT’S the lesson. I hope it all goes your way brother.

There’s another LESSON here. For those of us who don’t learn from the first time, lucky for me this was my FIRST encounter with a woman like I described. But that just goes to CONFIRM everything that MGTOW is all about is correct. This was just a slap on a wrist for me. A warning to not do the same thing again. I have deleted my POF account, will never EVER make another one. All the c~~~s on it, are just that-C~~~S. I was going to meet some Asian chick after I dealt with this hoe, but no f~~~ing way I’m stepping on a landmine again!

MGTOW AKBAR

[Russky2Participant 3086]

EG wrote:

Russky2 wrote:

EG wrote:

What BS reason was the other guy on POF sued for?

Ohh, it was rape accusations.

The only person I know IRL who uses POF turned out to be a narcissist. Not only that, but she started bullying me in the neighborhood as soon as she realized I wasn’t lying when I told her I don’t sleep with women. That’s the impression POF has on me; a place for psycho narcissists to pick each other up. Today’s story only adds to that impression.

OHHH DUDE!!! You just described that same chick that I went out with….like where do you live, maybe it’s the same one? Seriously wtf…

MGTOW AKBAR

[Russky2Participant 3086]

EG wrote:

Russky2 wrote:

EG wrote:

What BS reason was the other guy on POF sued for?

Ohh, it was rape accusations.

The only person I know IRL who uses POF turned out to be a narcissist. Not only that, but she started bullying me in the neighborhood as soon as she realized I wasn’t lying when I told her I don’t sleep with women. That’s the impression POF has on me; a place for psycho narcissists to pick each other up. Today’s story only adds to that impression.

That would be her for sure, she would constantly praise herself and I would totally support her. Always affirmed her choices, no matter how sketchy they seemed. She would constantly say that she cared for me MORE than anybody else she cared for. While at the same time, constantly shaming me in EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING that I DID and SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She really made me believe that I was some bad guy, and I would have the worse f~~~ing mood ever. I ever started drinking again, but quickly snapped back out of it. I literally went to a liquor store, bought two bottles of wine and chugged them both at once. Woke up puking my guts out, and once I came out of it, it was time for me to look at this situation and analyze it. Once I started thinking with my big brain, everything started making sense.

MGTOW AKBAR

[Russky2Participant 3086]

And all of this, was just after a FEW times of going out with her. If we dated for much longer, I would probably jump in front of a train or a bus. She had a tremendous effect on my mind, and overall well being for at least two weeks after… and it would have been proportional to the time we spent together.

MGTOW AKBAR

[EGParticipant 1854]

Russky2 wrote:

OHHH DUDE!!! You just described that same chick that I went out with….like where do you live, maybe it’s the same one? Seriously wtf…

These people are everywhere, not just where I live lol. What you’re seeing is the fact that these people have no souls. Listen to the things they say; it’s all the same! They can’t think for themselves. I theorize that it’s because what you think is the person’s soul is really an evil demon that can possess more than one person at a time. Thus, all SJWs and feminists and broken, harmful women have a “personality” just like the one you, and I, described.

People think narcissists have a disorder. I think they have a demon.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

POF is a dangerous crap shoot. Those woman haven’t found someone in 10 years for a reason.
If you’re going to date I would mingle with friends or meet-ups and spend some time observing the person; gathering some intelligence before you decide. I have met many good looker who once in a social setting with other woman revealed they were bat s~~~ crazy. Conversely I have met some fairly reasonable and down to earth woman, but I would not have know if I did not observe them. The best scenario is when you get the whole hive in one place, like a big dinner party or social event, watch for the ones clamoring for the most attention. They show up first and should be avoided. The others will show their true nature when they feel slighted, are competing and losing, or feel scorned by other woman. Groups of woman bring out the worst in each other and this a great setting to observe.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[JakeParticipant 908]

I wonder if I dated this chick as well

[Russky2Participant 3086]

Jake wrote:

I wonder if I dated this chick as well

The thing is, when I first asked her if she dated anyone since her last ex boyfriend, the answer was a no.
But then as we started getting to know each other, she’d bring up all the past boyfriends that she used to date.
She would shame me and get all p~~~ed of for not giving her a good night kiss, and bring up the fact that OTHER MEN would kiss her good night, and would tell her how beautiful she is, yada yada yada. So who knows, maybe she had a collection of former simps from this site 😀

MGTOW AKBAR

[EGParticipant 1854]

Russky2 wrote:

She would shame me and get all p~~~ed of for not giving her a good night kiss, and bring up the fact that OTHER MEN would kiss her good night, and would tell her how beautiful she is, yada yada yada. So who knows, maybe she had a collection of former simps from this site

^ Everything about this tells me she’s a control-freak narcissist. What’s scary is women like this enjoy taking it to the next level these days by #metooing any male that refuses to fall in line. Evil to the core…possessed.

[Russky2Participant 3086]

EG wrote:

Russky2 wrote:

She would shame me and get all p~~~ed of for not giving her a good night kiss, and bring up the fact that OTHER MEN would kiss her good night, and would tell her how beautiful she is, yada yada yada. So who knows, maybe she had a collection of former simps from this site

^ Everything about this tells me she’s a control-freak narcissist. What’s scary is women like this enjoy taking it to the next level these days by #metooing any male that refuses to fall in line. Evil to the core…possessed.

Those were my exact thoughts, add to that manipulator-narcissist and you have the PERFECT description of that crazy bitch. If she was reading this, she would probably get p~~~ed of at me, but deep inside she knows it’s true. At the last date, at the last minute she brought up that I tried to f~~~ her pussy. But what she failed to mention is her actually pulling out c~~~, and her demanding I play with her pussy…..the whole f~~~ing thing was a joke.

MGTOW AKBAR

[WallyParticipant]

I’m starting to side with TFM on this, just get a doll if you have to bust your nut, however I’m just cheap and go the way of the dude and Jerk off manually.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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