Did I Alpha-Widow my ex?

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

I don’t really pay any attention to what my ex-girls are up to. But for some reason friends and family have told me my ex broke off an engagement to another guy and is now overseas teaching English. Surfing for foreign c~~~ no doubt. Now the reason we broke up is because I was not committing to her. She wanted the ring and I said….maybe. I was purple pill at the time.

Thinking she could find a better guy or at least find some guy to be a slave for her she branched swung and ended up with a less attractive guy she could push around. Who probably did not f~~~ her as well and was an emotional tampon for her bulls~~~. Can’t say for sure but it reeks of it. Now basically everything I said we were going to do she is doing. Living out of her small town..way check. Not having kids right away…check. She was 22 and had baby fever. You name it check. She went 180*

Now is she trying to search for the lost fountain of c~~~ or am I just being a narcissist?

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[RoyDalParticipant]

… she could push around …

This is the important part to her. The other qualities of her suitors are not.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Durden.  The only reason you would need to know anything about her is if you are building a solid base of information, based upon experience, so that you can detect another chick’s bulls~~~ later on down the road.

They all have baby fever.  Shortly after separating from my ex, I was dating a woman that was divorced with two kids in middle school.  Okay,  she couldn’t have children anymore and didn’t want any.  Confirmed, I saw her medical records.  She did admit to me that despite her conscious desire to NOT have any more children, she did have a passing desire to procreate with me.  This woman was 41 at this time.

You are a resource in which a woman can find security while the fever from their baby rabies burns out.  If she was anxious for children at 22.  Imagine what she will be like at 35 if she doesn’t have any by then.  As the wise man said “The wall is out there”.

Durden wrote:

lost fountain of c~~~

Hilarious.  Original.  Accurate.

Durden wrote:

am I just being a narcissist?

Why is it that when a man points out that a woman wants something from him, he is being a narcissist rather than a target?

Why is it that when a woman points out that a man wants something from her, she is a victim and not a narcissist?

If a woman is standing in the same room as you, discussing her expectations from you that you don’t agree with, then she is clearly communicating that she wants something from you.  Be grateful that she didn’t fabricate a “serendipitous accident” that resulted in an 18 year long emotional and financial commitment that you didn’t agree to.

So, according to the logic demonstrated above, you were a target for something you didn’t agree to.

Or you were a narcissist for recognizing that a woman wanted something from you.

As near as I can see you didn’t Alpha-Widow anything.  You MGHOW’d.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[experiencedParticipant]

@soldier-medic, perhaps it’s not baby fever but “I could’ve used more cash flow via child support fever.”

I try to follow the money because if I follow the babies I’d spend too much time at abortion clinic dumpsters  –  actually they get lots of cash for baby parts, so I’d end up there too.

Soldier Medic Great quotes:

Why is it that when a man points out that a woman wants something from him, he is being a narcissist rather than a target?

Why is it that when a woman points out that a man wants something from her, she is a victim and not a narcissist?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[33wolfmanParticipant 216]

Funny how you mention the baby rabies story Soldier-Medic. My ex was about the same age and was fixed after her two kids. She said to me one day that she would have loved to see my blue eyes on a kid of HERS, not OURS. I swear, the more stories I read from some of you guys I get the feeling that there’s a factory somewhere churning these women out like new cars. I can see the commercial now; “Take your pick from this seasons five models, with updated features from last seasons ten  models!”

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