Default Deflection for Social Media Attention Whoring

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I remember having a conversation with this girl I was seeing when she first got a fake book account. I didn’t have one, and still don’t, never have. She had HUNDREDS of “friends”, many of which were guys.

Of course, her profile had tons of pictures of herself which anyone could view/find, and I knew she had the ability to send, and receive private messages to anyone she wanted to. This bothered me, because God knows how many guys were sending her private emails trying to hook up with her. I already didn’t trust said girl, which didn’t help.

But, my point being, is that her default deflection to my concern/questioning was that I must be some: psycho, obsessive, jealous freak.

This brings me to the point of my post – women are now in this environment via fake-book, tinder, and the ability to literally dress like street walkers, without ANYONE batting an eyelash, and if you do, then the problem is YOU, yourself because you must be some jealous, psycho, nut case who has his own insecurity issues.

Question – would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

I realize I am preaching to the choir here, because we are all red pill men, but I’m just curious to hear everyone’s thoughts. Especially the younger generation, I’m pushing 40 now.

Btw, Matrix if you’re reading this, it reminds me of what you always say – “the last nail in the coffin was the smart phone”.

So true. This gave them access to flirtation and oribitors in perpetuity. I don’t know how any guys in todays society trust any girl they are with and have a serious relationship.

Resident cynic.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

The aformentioned is one of the reasons why I don’t bother with relationships. Pump and dump.

[Anonymous 42]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Question – would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

I’m looking at my “smart phone” right now, the screen is turning grey with DUST!

You should be able to derive all you answers from that!

Unicorns don’t use social media and don’t own fart phones!

That’s why there’s no unicorns…

Ancient, you’re 100% right!

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Question – would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

Honestly I just dont care anymore. Its the only way to defeat the onslaught of attention whoring. If there werent so many white knights and pussy pleasers it would all stop tommorrow. If all men collectively just didnt give a f~~~ what women did or how they looked, they would start to malfunction, break down, and have to actually start dealing with reality. So long as there is a sucker with a hard on its not going to stop.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

her default deflection to my concern/questioning was that I must be some: psycho, obsessive, jealous freak.

Never take this kind of s~~~ personally. When a woman lunges accusations at you, she’s not talking about “you”… she’s describing herself more often than she thinks. Watch for it.

In the early days of “internet dating” say, pre-2006, women would ALWAYS say s~~~ like “you must be a loser because you’re on this website” . . . . and “how do I know you’re not a serial killer?” . . . “creepy guys online”. You know what I’m talking about. EVERY guy is a psycho, and she’s a goddam Kardashian.

You’re automatically a loser / creep / psycho / insecure stalker, but she’s so f~~~ing awesome and is in some position to disqualify you with a few typed words? And now that EVERY woman has a smartphone, internet connection, and email, they’re still pulling the same s~~~?

How are you “more psycho” than she is?

I knew some serious bulls~~~ was afoot with that, and when one too many women would say something like “How do know you’re not a serial killer?” I realized what was going on. It’s all a fake attempt to try to falsely elevate her desirability – while attempting to lower yours – and to try to look “unattainable”. They all do it, and the internet / social sites affords them this fantasy, over-inflated view of themselves.

“You must be some jealous, psycho, nut case who has his own insecurity issues.”

That’s not YOU. That’s HER.

I don’t really know why – in 2017 – any guys are still online engaging with women at all. You don’t need to go online to meet or interact with women. There is absolutely NOTHING to be gained from it. There is no intellectual pursuit. There is no stimulating conversation. They aren/t even FUN or funny! They’re heads are filled with cotton, hay and rags. And what are women FOR really? If you’re looking for a chick to hang with . . . do it in real life! There is NOT ONE reason to play up to her imaginary internet pretense. If anything, you gotta refuse to let them get away with it.

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I would see your example as a s~~~ test like any other and react accordingly. Treat every goddam insult from a woman as a huge compliment.

“You must be some jealous, psycho, nut case who has his own insecurity issues.”

“I knew there was a reason you liked me.”

Now what. You just f~~~ed her into a corner.

Don’t ever let what a woman says about you, bother you.
Her “rejection” (or negative opinion) is as meaningless as her approval.

Don’t let women get away with any of their stupid s~~~.

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Question – would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

I wouldn’t even permit myself to get IN a “relationship” with a toxic mental case bitch, because she already revealed herself to me.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Most guys accept her fb flirting, as they dont want to get into a fight with her. But that doesnt mean the guy shouldnt complain. For a girl a guy should complain but not yell.

These women like making their bf jealous but he shouldnt do anything more.Like a type of mild cuckolding.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

OP, I remember the fakebook days, rest assured, the situation now is much worse. I work with younger women and in my opinion Snapchat is the most ruthless. I s~~~ you not, Married women (one has only been married for TWO f~~~ing months) and girls with long term boyfriends are giving away their phone numbers so they can “snapchat” with random dudes that come in and ALL the guys that work there.

I remember when you had to actually work, at least a little bit, to get a girls number. I’m not kidding, any guy who is even remotely decent will be TOLD “Haha your cool snapchat me! My number is ######”

These girls are now giving out their number the same way someone would a business card or just their facebook profile, back in the day.

Then, All Day Long, they are snapchatting different dudes, CONSTANTLY. Duck face, Smiley, posing with stupid s~~~, it’s CONSTANT.

A girl giving her number now is in NO WAY an indicator of genuine interest. It’s literally just being let into her Harem of Beta Orbiters… From there Males must Spar to be original, and above all else be at Princess Cupcake’s beck and call, lest she easily just swipe to the next orbiter for instant attention.

Keeping a girls sole attention is simply impossible in the western world. It’s not a matter of being Alpha, or PUA, or anything else. A Man would literally have to just follow in her footsteps and entertain her every whim 24/7, but then we all know she wouldn’t like that and switch to Beta Orbiter #11652.

The attention whoring is at a level that is absolutely nauseating. Even for a simple pump and dump operation, a simple 24-48 hour quickie “hi and bye” she’s STILL flirting with other guys in between.

There’s one guy at work who’s constantly snapchatting with them, and he has NO CHANCE. He’s the typical chubby, beta orbiter who doesn’t know how to act around women and is constantly friend-zoned. I actually feel sorry for him. He spends his whole f~~~ing day jumping and playing tricks for them, hoping that some day one of them will allow him into the vagina.

It’s a lost cause out there.

I actually count myself lucky, when I was in high school getting a girls number meant her Parents Land Line phone number. That meant when you got it, it was somewhat special. It also meant if you were dating, there wasn’t even a REMOTE concern that 12-50 other dudes were calling, texting (didn’t exist) snapchatting (didn’t exist) or on OK Cupid or Tinder (didn’t exist).

I’ll say it again, It’s a Lost Cause out there.

[MonkParticipant 17066]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

… the problem is YOU, yourself because you must be some jealous, psycho, nut case who has his own insecurity issues.

This is to be expected. Every c~~~ believes that she is the centre of the universe. They will lash out viciously at anything or anyone that suggests otherwise.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

I’ve tried to be more observant since I started popping red pills and one of the things I often look out for (after reading posts from Matrix etc.) is the number of women permanently attached to phones. When in public places such as trains, cafes etc. I always do a quick headcount of women hunched over their phones in that most unattractive way. It is nearly always at least 90% of the women present.

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Question – would ANY of you feel comfterable with any of the aforementioned if you were in a relationship?

The ex-wife was always engrossed in her phone (bought by me of course as a dutiful blue-piller) and her texting and downright flagrant flirting was directly responsible for the divorce as it resulted in God knows how many affairs.

No, I did not feel comfortable and the lack of trust this engendered caused me to wake up and start popping red pills and ultimately realise she was having affairs and not just being flirty.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 1]

I remember a girl in front of me checking her fakebook, she then says “who the f~~~ is this guy sending me a friend request, I do not know you!” accepting the request at the same time, her mouth was saying “no”, her hand was saying “yes”. This is just amazing, they still have to pretend that they do not want guys to give them attention and validation, and they are not going to open their legs to the first stranger who approaches them. But that is just a consequence of the numbers, since they reject 85%+ of the men who approach them(and this make them feel good about themselves, ego boost). I totally laugh ad the guys who says “man just go and try with each single woman until you get good at gaming”, there is not such s~~~, there is only learning how it works and trying to raise or fake your SMV(sexual market value) by societal status, money, appearance. But that to me is just wasted time, if you really need some, spend that time and money on hookers and get over with it, if your main goal is just sex.

Social media and apps have turned men into products on the shelfes, women check out the new products, then maybe test one or two(with s~~~ tests, questions etc.) and after that they decide in which part of the list you belong:
1) F~~~able
2) Non f~~~able
3) Friend
4) Provider
5) Fool
6) Ghostable
And many more.

The only good part of all this s~~~ is that when you realize this, you can avoid said social media and apps, get off of dating websites and all that serves only women and Chads who get free pussy thrown at them.

And to finish, never ever try to reason with any of them about this, let ’em destroy themselves with their own hands.

Bed.
Made.
Lie down.

[Anonymous 13]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Btw, Matrix if you’re reading this, it reminds me of what you always say – “the last nail in the coffin was the smart phone”.

Smartphone, the final nail in the coffin for ANY hope of a relationship of ANY kind with ANY woman.

I could never state this enough.

The smartphone ended it, permanently.

What sane man wants to COMPETE with a hand held Disloyalty Device with the power of a supercomputer and a light speed connection to every orbiter, Chad, beta MAN, countless cheating apps, on the planet.

KNOWING a woman’s cheating hypergamous nature.

KNOWING she can never love you.

KNOWING she has this Device in her hand 24/7.

No, just NO.

It is OVER.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

orbiter, Chad, beta MAN

I hate these f~~~ers.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Anonymous wrote:

I remember a girl in front of me checking her fakebook, she then says “who the f~~~ is this guy sending me a friend request, I do not know you!” accepting the request at the same time, her mouth was saying “no”, her hand was saying “yes”.

Ive seen this as well, Math. What made me recoil even worse is that she was saying it to another female, showing her all the beta orbiters she had stored in her phone like a trophy.

Then I watched in horror as these girls scrolled through the most pathetic texts they had that day and compared which ones were the worst. They were so engrossed in what they were doing they had no idea what was going on with the rest of the world.

These girls were cackling like witches, shaming, insulting and berating these very beta orbiters they gave their numbers to for their sheer entertainment.

I have not seen worse behavior from a Male locker room. They were worse. Much worse. Most ‘locker room’ talk from what I remember was more PUA oriented; what guys were going after what girls, things to do to get in her panties.

These girls were just flat out Bitches. Mean Girls who were literally getting their kicks by making fun of and tearing down guys they are stringing along.

This is true female nature.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Ancientwisdom wrote:

… the problem is YOU, yourself because you must be some jealous, psycho, nut case who has his own insecurity issues.

This is to be expected. Every c~~~ believes that she is the centre of the universe. They will lash out viciously at anything or anyone that suggests otherwise.

As will any mangina white knights in the area.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

I’ve met ONE woman who hasn’t got a FB account. A friend of the ex wife’s. I asked her once a few years ago why she didn’t, she said it was just a bunch of idiots showing off. Fair play – ONE woman though. A cyberspace UNICORN.

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