Hello men,
35 years old, employed, good looking, no kids, never married, yet came very close recently. I decided to opt out of marriage/kids after many red pill/MGTOW/Tom Leykis videos and realizations of miserable married men. I won’t even get into the nasty details of my slowly crumbling relationship with constant arguments that just kept going downhill after the first year. Been with my lady for 3 1/2 years. My family loved her, and her family loved me. I moved in with her at her place. She wanted marriage/kids and I eventually caved and got her a ring. I felt it in my soul that it wasn’t something I wanted for my future, yet I still did it like a f~~~ing blue pill sucker. She refused to sign a pre-nup and I started getting depressed knowing I would be forced to be with one woman sexually for the rest of my life. After a few months the misery and realizations started coming to the forefront. Having to live life under her obligations, it felt like slavery. Having to wake up early on the weekends because she planned out our weekends every single week. Being shamed for not wanting to go out all the time. Having to go to events I cared less for, spend money I didn’t want to, and have my freedom robbed, sabotaging my hobbies and true passions in life. My life was passing by my eyes and I felt like a male robot for the time I lived there. She stole all my free time. She eventually realized I wasn’t into it, after dozens and dozens of arguments, and I got the f~~~ out while she was on a business trip.
I am now living in my own apartment, appreciating the silence, enjoying the liberation and freedom, thinking about how I dodged a life filled with pleasing a woman, and having to support a child/children for the next 20 years. I see married guys at work who are miserable, and the men who are single, free, no attachments are always smiling, laughing, stress free, and enjoying life.
Realizations I’ve come to:
– Women use men as utilities for sperm/money/providers.
– Women want to “change/control/rule” over men’s decisions.
– Women want to trap men into marriage so we become handcuffed for life, slaving a job to support a family.
– Women are dream killers, freedom robbers, and are self entitled.
– Women expect men to jump through their hoops, for the rest of their lives, constantly being forced to be romantic, give gifts, listen attentively, do what they say, live your life according to their schedule, like an obedient dog.
– They expect us to give up our lives to please them.
– Love starts from infatuation which eventually declines. It’s a complete hallucination that eventually comes to an end.
– Relationships are not meant to last.
– Marriage is an unnatural socially constructed forced institution created to trap men into beta male providers, stripping their freedom for eternity, which leads to misery, and emotional/financial destruction in the event she decides to pull the trigger of the gun you handed her the moment you sign that legally binding iron clad marriage contract.
From here on out, no more relationships for me. Once the honeymoon phase (3-9 months) is over, I’m out and onto the next one. No obligations, no living with a woman, nobody gets keys to my place, no marriage ever, no kids, no more bulls~~~. I’m going to live my life the way I want to, without a nagging bitch try to control me.
I’m glad to have reached my age, never married and no kids. I now have the wisdom, experience, knowledge to pick up younger women in their prime, and focus on my life purpose, passions, and mission.
I’m glad I found out about MGTOW at the time I did. I feel bad for all the sucker men who fell into the marriage trap, and even worse for the ones who are responsible for another man’s child, the ones who marry chicks with kids. Does anybody have friends who’ve married women with kids? I have a few.
Once you take the red pill, you will eventually conclude that; there's no turning back.
Buller100 3 years, 5 months ago.
