What if I lost at a fight (to a girl)…..
Make sure it never comes to that.
I would say “honey, women are for f~~~ing – not fighting with”.
Boom. You just won without throwing a fist.
or if a girl got the better of me
Again. You can MAKE SURE it never comes to that.
Be well aware of the way women and men understand “force”.
Men use fists, bombs, guns and knives to neutralize a threat.
Women use social manipulation, backstabbing, emotional terrorism and ostracizing from a group. They have a completely different weapon of choice. You don’t find an air battle on the ground, so you need to understand your enemy. That’s extremely important when it comes to knowing when/whom to fight – and when/whom not to.
You don’t “beat” woman the same way you “beat” a man at a fight.
Because women don’t play by the male code of honor. They scoff at fairness. They laugh at our schoolyard rules. They destroy personal property even when they were not wronged. You can’t “fight” someone who has no sense of justice.
Men invented diplomacy and peace treaties.
Women invited paternity fraud and lying about rape.
Did she really get “the better” of him?
Or did she LOWER herself.
She didn’t “win” anything. She’s a loser herself. And all she did was prove it.
This doesn’t make her “better” – or “superior”. Not by a long shot.
…. and even if I didn’t care, even if I just said meh, that she would never let it go, and I would never hear the end of it.
Sean Connery once had something to say about that.
Don’t ever forget, the reason a woman would challenge you that way is because she thinks she’s gonna win. You want everything you say and do to communicate that she shouldn’t even THINK of looking at you as competition or an opponent, because you refuse to relate to women that way.
When you make it a personal policy “women are for f~~~ing – not fighting”, you disarm her immediately. And then the possibility of “losing” becomes a non-issue. You’re making an issue out of something that you hope will never be an issue.
Honestly idk, I know it’s a stupid thought, but I wanted to know what you guys thought. You ever feel the same way or go through something similar?
I REFUSE to compete with women on any level. I already know how to “beat” her with a few well chosen words MUCH more effectively – even a woman who wants to fight.
Done.
One girl used to punch me on the arm whenever I said something funny. “HA HA!! YOU’RE HILARIOUS!!! > > PUNCH < <". I didn’t enjoy it one bit. Playing rough was her way of “flirting”. Not mine.
I told her not to do it – several times.
One day, she pushed me a little far and it was about to escalate. I calmly looked her in the eye with a very neutral expression and said “If you ever touch me like that again, I will have no problem spending the night in jail for the satisfaction of bashing your f~~~ing face in until you are unrecognizable.”
It’s all in the delivery. No violence required.
The only reason she did it, is because she thought I wouldn’t.
But it’s something a man shouldn’t even have to say out loud.
Today, I would never even permit it to go that far. If she’s not a lovely, loving, warm and smiling person who is a pleasure to be around, she is history.
Not negotiable. I’m not fighting with her.
I wouldn’t even argue with her. She’s gonna lose.
This “inferiority complex” isn’t really yours when you realize fighting with her doesn’t make you superior at all. Winning by NOT fighting is “superior”. A lesson she has yet to learn.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Keymaster 2 years, 9 months ago.
