Dating health risks…. Keeps me reserved

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ForeverDone wrote:

I did a whole STD panel and zero; which I am grateful for.

I did the same and never touched another one. Surly there’s a pandemic on the horizon, I’m ready to “bug out” until the stench of death is gone…

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freedom wrote:

One of my ex-girlfriends had oral Herpes and I found out only a week before We split up, which was like 16 months after we first kissed.

Thank god, I didn’t catch it, but it still makes me angry to think that we have been seeing each other for such a long time and she was hiding it from me. During that time, we didn’t kiss much and I always thought it has something to do with my smoking habits at the time, later on when I smoked a lot less, I thought that I had bad taste or some s~~~ like that, never Imagined that she has Herpes and she might be scared to pass it to me.

Imagine she told you after having sex that she had Herpes, and you’d get a tidbit of what I felt. Keep in mind, I had a false positive test result as well. I subsequently have had been tested each year and all are negative. I do wonder if I would had broken up with her if the initial test was negative too. I do know, if she told me prior, as she should had, I wouldn’t of had sex with her. I just feel like I was lied to from the beginning. If she hid this, what else did she hide from me?

Hence forth, I have trouble dating right now as I have no idea if they are hiding or lying something from me. What a f~~~ed up world we live in. Sorry to hear that anyone, male or female, had this or any other STD/STI, but the people who’ve not been infected should have a choice whether to take the risk on receiving the infection or not. Just my opinion.

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bagsofsand wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

Wally wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

Wally wrote:

How do you protect your self from basic kissing? You know the answer, the only sure way is don’t. I know that sounds harsh, but you will never know for sure where her mouth has been.

True, but monking it up is a bit hard. No relations~~~s and marriage, no doubt. No sex @ 40, a bit hard. Not sure if I am ready for TFL. Human touch is still nice once and awhile. Just these STDs are running wild it seems.

I understand your point, 43 here and it is hard to do without, the STDs are crazy, not sure if the stat as correct but I read that single women in our age group have a rate of herpes in the 50-75 % and not the cold sore type variety.

Yea, it’s terrifying out there. I was looking at those real dolls, but I just cannot do it. Sex with a doll. That would be an all time low. Wish there was a way to turn off the sex hormone. It’s incredibly annoying. One would think at my age it would had died down, but it’s been the same since my teens, if not more intense.

So, I’m a year younger than you, and my sex drive has also somehow increased during my adult life.

I can ‘tame it’ if I stop fapping for several months, and I eat a lower caloric diet (limit fast food and alcohol and generally eat a low inflammatory diet).
Now, before you say anything about the fapping part, of course libido will elevate to an extreme the first couple weeks you don’t fap – and the mental challenge in NOT ‘releasing yourself’ by habit can be overwhelming! However after a couple months I definitely lost sexual interest in women – which makes sense to me, as things ‘down there’ slow down: You don’t walk around with ‘blue b~~~~’ for 2+ years or whatever, which is a f~~~ing stupid internet myth.

But, I have to say, I like to have an orgasm every once in a while, and so I ‘accept’ that my cravings for women are still there as long as I fap (like once or twice/week).

I disagree with you on the part about the dolls would be an all time low. HAHA, I AM the only one that decides WHAT is an ‘all time low’, for me.

But, sadly, I don’t think I could gain pleasure from those dolls: f~~~ing a dead doll, no matter how giant her jugs are.. Maybe when AI is incorporated, it would have a greater chance at fooling all my senses, I don’t know.

Agreed. It just feels empty. It also seems the more I exercise and workout (starting to box), the more aggressive and testosterone I build up. Strange; at least in my case it is. I can and usually do sustain from the knuckle shuffle. However, the desire just grows.

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Ranger One wrote:

If and when my current 7 month relationship expires (most likely “when”, because relationships are transitory), I’m probably going to go monk. My sex drive is about 1/6 of what it was a year ago.

If I get horny, I’d just as soon fap with the 8-lb Nina Chan fake pussy I got than have sex with a woman. Then there is that expectation of trying to make her feel good, too… which makes it more like work.

I already got plenty of work: dishes, cooking for myself and the boys, gardening, weeding, landscaping, painting rooms, working on floor tile, prepping (recently ordered body armor), etc. I don’t need to work on a female, too.

I just don’t want the aggravation of dating again. A year ago I felt different. But I think sex drive dropping 80% is a blessing in disguise. It is a gift. I’m getting more done that ever before. I’m like an unstoppable f~~~ing force. I’m even retaking the 6000-square foot forest garden, after securing the 2000-square foot house garden.

Getting her to orgasm… That’s fun. The last one I was with never experienced an orgasm, so I was down there trying to help her, no luck. Then of course, it was my fault.

Yes, one can just do the knuckle shuffle, but I still feel more satisfied with a woman than with a inanimate object.

Keeping yourself busy seems to help you, that’s a plus. I’d like to build a greenhouse one day. I think raising my own veggies and fruits would be a fruitful endeavorer (no pun intended).

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Anonymous wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I did a whole STD panel and zero; which I am grateful for.

I did the same and never touched another one. Surly there’s a pandemic on the horizon, I’m ready to “bug out” until the stench of death is gone…

Seems to be a s~~~ storm out there. Gotta love that women have all these choices now…

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