Cuckold Men

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Im sure the vast majority of you are familiar with this phenomenon. My question is: what do you think (psychology) would drive a man to desire such a relationship? Its f~~~ing bizzare. Ive met couples like this, and there is something to say for being the “other” guy she wants to f~~~ while her husband knows (free pussy, FINALLY having a woman put out easily to you with zero effort) essentially a role reversal of dealing with modern bitches.

But the “husbands” motivations? The closest approximation to an explanation Ive ever heard of self made male derogation was from an escort I met. I will NEVER forget that conversation…Young, beautiful, 20 something girl. Found her on back page (or some s~~~, I dont recall)..She told me older, CEO types would call, book an appointment, and pay $2K for HER to p~~~ on HIM! I inquired as to WHY would any man do this. Her reply: they are men in power and NEVER have people question or abuse them, in any sense of the word.

 

I would NEVER want, let alone PAY for a woman to do such a thing, and I cant IMAGINE getting off seeing my wife f~~~ed by another dude. Is the cuckold phenomenon something new that is a result of womens lib? Or how do you explain these mens behavior? Its f~~~ing nuts to me.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 12]

I’m a rather curious person about things and have actually explored Cuckolding as well as Female Led Relationships from afar via the internet, lurking on forums and occasionally chatting with women who are into all of this.

There is 2 types of cuckold, the submissive male who believes that his woman should have the right to see others, this excites the hell out of him, the other type is more dominant who likes the idea of sharing his wife, this is called Hot Wifeing.

What I found interesting with the submissive cuckold’s is that their wives would often f~~~ dominant alpha types and also would fall in love with these alpha’s and end up leaving the sub husband for them. Moral of the story women don’t like weak men even when they are supposedly dominant themselves.

In terms of your story about CEO’s etc who like to be p~~~ed on that is pretty common, men who are in charge all day long like to be submissive in a fantasy setting as a form of release.

 

 

 

 

 

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I have my own theories. The first would be that the men are too submissive to say s~~~ and their wives are domineering bitches they feel grateful to even be f~~~ing. They figure, “Best not to rock the boat. Happy wife, happy life” and they swallow their own b~~~~ for the rest of their lives while their wives are off f~~~ing the 20 year-old checkout boy at the supermarket or the personal trainer at the gym.

I’d also argue that there’s probably a good number of men who do that (falsely) hopeful that it will turn into a sexually open relationship wherein THEY are allowed to f~~~ other women as well, or they can leverage it into a three-way in their favor or an orgy or something.

Lastly, they may be bisexual and just want to get their jollies. You never know.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Cuckold men are inverted narcissists: unable to experience their own narcissism (self love) without a narcissistic host or woman that a cuckold allows to act narcissistic, at his expense. He only feels emotional & psychologically whole

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

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. . . with a woman like that and inverts her narcissism and pleasure into his own as he has merged with her on an unhealthy level: Which results in him allowing her behavior, that no man with any self respect would be a part of.

[Anonymous 12]

Reminds of an article I read on prostitutes who were married, one of the women said that her husband didn’t have a problem with her having sex with other men for money. The problem is she wondered why he doesn’t have a problem with that. I see the same as cuckolding and even open relationships, jealousy and a certain level of territoriality is natural to accept a situation where you surrender that or have to deal with jealousy isn’t normal.

Cuckold’s actually get off on that feeling of humiliation and jealousy as well. Again not a right way to be.

 

[peterfaParticipant 833]

It’s a homeostasis thing. Those men when they were younger were abused and felt like crap. Then when they’re older they get excited by a relationship where they’re treated like dirt. It makes them feel normal again. I’m not sure how the normality becomes sexual though.

So, it’s an outworking of abuse. Child abuse is a bad thing.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I pretty much agree with all of your commemts. I also think some of these guys are closeted gays. I found a “hot wife” forum, and some of the guys were talking about how great “clean up duty” (when the husband goes down on the wife RIGHT. AFTER. SOME. DUDE, BUSTED HIS NUT IN HER!!! Can you imagine such a perversion of nature and how much the wife feels in control? Sick!

Resident cynic.

[experiencedParticipant]

What do you do? well, I maintain the dumpster,

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Important to note: Some men are cuckolds by default. With a woman that cheats while the guy ignores it vs. a more obvious cuckold that stands there beating off while his woman is taking one or more c~~~s.

[BDParticipant 1146]

I have met several who have had open relationships/cuckolding/swinging etc….

One consistent thing is that they let go of all jealousy, it’s a foreign concept to most of us, but think about it for a minute…..

If you really care about someone, wouldn’t you want them to be happy at all costs? Don’t be fooled it must go both ways, equality right….

Our society teaches us ownership of each other in relationships, when you let go of ownership and jealousy, things change and the sex life can be wild….

Just because society indoctrinates one set of rules for a relationship doesn’t mean that not going by those rules is wrong, it’s just a matter of personal choice.

I am not saying that I approve of this, but I do understand their point of view. 

Ancientwisdom wrote:

My question is: what do you think (psychology) would drive a man to desire such a relationship? Its f~~~ing bizzare.

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Bullet dodger,

I can take into account your comments, but an open relationship is an entirely different dynamic than cuckold-ing. Women sleeping around is also qualtiatively different than men sleeping around. Call it a double standard, it doesnt matter. Nature itself dictated this: women have indoor plumbing, and as such they are more susceptible to diseases, and lets not forget pregnancy. Some women say “when men sleep around their called studs, when women do their called sluts”. The rationale is quite simple. Charm, finnesse, humor, courage, intelligence, and attractiveness are requisite for men to bed women. For women? Be born with a vagina and spread your legs.

Resident cynic.

[WolfParticipant 890]

A lot of it is just kink. Some take their kink much more seriously than others. Some guys will devote their lives as a slave to a woman and become her cuckhold slave. In some cases, there are no limits to what he would do (or not do) for her, including degradation and humiliation. Some people are just wired for it, and want it. Trying to understand it would be futile.

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