Couples Counseling is a Waste of Time and Money

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Its all soft-letting go of YOU. She is trying to split ways with YOU so the therapy and counseling is a dog and pony act to highlight all the ways in which YOU are the problem, not her. It’s meant to agitate and erode whatever is left that YOU are holding onto… so that SHE can walk away.

They shouldn’t call it Marriage Counselling or Couples Counseling. It should be called Separation Comforting or Shock of Breaking Up Therapy. LOL. All it does is prepare you for the inevitable Divorce/Break up… so she can let you go with a clear conscious…

[narwhalParticipant]

Tron wrote:

I do not think his views on MGTOW is accurate. He thinks that all mgtows do not want relationships with women, which is incorrect. There is nothing wrong with friendships but cohabitation is out because of all the legal BS. He admits that we have a point about the legal system being sexist against men but then he does a 360 and criticizes men for not wanting to be married. So I am hot and cold with him.

I haven’t seen him make direct comments about MGTOW specifically, but this certainly fits with what I’ve heard him say around the subject. I’ve viewed his comments regarding men and marriage in more of a general sense that it good for men to take responsibility in life and work for what they want, and that includes marriage. I don’t think he would have a problem with MGTOW who is pursuing what they want out of life, but would discourage those that are spending their life being bitter about what they can’t have.

Ok. Then do it.

[narwhalParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Its all soft-letting go of YOU. She is trying to split ways with YOU so the therapy and counseling is a dog and pony act to highlight all the ways in which YOU are the problem, not her. It’s meant to agitate and erode whatever is left that YOU are holding onto… so that SHE can walk away.

In other words, it acts as proof that she tried to safe the marriage and therefore cannot be blamed for the outcome.

Ok. Then do it.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

acts as proof that she tried to safe the marriage and therefore cannot be blamed

exactly.

In essence, its all a transition ceremony for her too, to give her a clear-conscious on completely fvcking you over. God forbid a woman feel guilt or societal moral stigma… we cant have that..oh no. Women need couples counseling (not to save a relationship at all, but to ease her conscious). We wouldn’t want the man to, you know, HANG HIMSELF or anything like that. The proper way is to pull the band aide off slow and painful, to use his agonizing grief, embarrassment and self-shaming to erode whatever dignity he has left. If its too abrupt, he’ll try to jump off a bridge or something.

The whole thing sounds retarded. There is no way Id ever go to therapy for anything, Im just not one of THOSE GUYS. There are many these days, are there not? I cant believe this shvt when I see and hear it… guys openly admitting about what their “female Therapist’s” opinion is. LMAO! Usually at that point in a conversation, I say… why the fvck are you seeing a therapist, LET ALONE A FEMALE THERAPIST? What good is SHE going to do for you (as you’re paying her…) how can she relate to a MAN’s experience? Oh she read a book dontcha know…

The MALE MOTHER NEED is fvcking DEEP in some men guys. TO be honest, I love my mom but I spent a lot of time trying to get the hell away from my parents. Not because I dont like them or something, I love them. I just need my space and Independence and I do not wish to be a burden to anyone. I was a troubled boy who often got in trouble at school, they put up with quite a bit of my teenage shvt. The least I could do was leave and visit seldom. LOL. Now we are all peas in a pod! hehe

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I suggested it many years ago as my former blue pill self. She balked, and never made an appointment. Today it would take three or four burly guys with at least one equipped with a tazer to get me near a reeducation counselor.

I can’t remember the exact quote, but someone said that the person who cares less controls the relationship. My youngest has 130 days til she turns 18. Her mother is irrelevant, even if we’re still married according to the court.

I get half, she gets half. I can thrive on mine, she’ll die OPP. I give her a chance every day to make the right choice, but some smart people just aren’t bright enough to make the best long term decision. I cringe at the idea of dying decades from now still married. I adopted KM’s one chance per person per lifetime too late. She’s like a babe in the woods; soft, weak, and helpless. If she hasn’t been a good mother I could shed her immediately, but I know that cutting her loose kills what I loved of her forever.

Counseling never. Gaining self awareness, I’ve given that 8 years. At a decade I walk with half my life left just for me.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

That is the point though:

To waste time and money.

Women thrive on being able to waste a man’s time and money.

And couple’s counseling gives women an opportunity to do exactly that under the guise and veil of ‘working on us’ and trying to ‘save our relationship’s

Meanwhile. Amidst the waste of time and money that is couple’s counseling, when Beta is at work 12 hours a day. . . .

Pumpkin is back at Chad’s place. And Chad is not required to waste any time or money before being able to choke Pumpkin while f*cking her in her ass.

Couple’s counseling is a way of keeping Beta on an emotional & psychological leash while enabling Pumpkin to control the direction and narrative of the charade (relationship).

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Gravel Pit wrote:

In essence, its all a transition ceremony for her too, to give her a clear-conscious on completely fvcking you over.

Which is why you need to “transition” on your own terms.

: “We need to talk.”
: “Ha ha. No. We don’t need to talk. Ever again. Goodbye.”

Men don’t need “couples counseling”. Men need legal and financial counseling on how best to keep their own sh​it out of her graspibng hands.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Men need

premarital

legal and financial counseling.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Men need

premarital

legal and financial counseling.

“Premarital” presumes there will be “marital”.

Men don’t need marriage.

The best legal and financial counsel a man can get is: “Never get married. Ever.”

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