Countering s~~~-testing with MGTOW

[Anonymous 0]

I live in the same town with some family members. I’m retired and have my own small house and keep to myself, but sometimes the female family members across town try to create drama and drag me into their concerns. Apparently it bugs the hell out of them to see me sitting there quietly on my own side of town, minding my own business. They want to pull me into the mix and heat up the family drama that much more. Across the years I put up a lot of firewalls and ignored them outright, sometimes for months or years at a time. But recently they tried accusing me of causing some bulls~~~ family problem. They made it up out of thin air, but I guess they figured it would force me to come round and deal with them to resolve the issue.

But instead, I told them that if they didn’t quit bugging me, I would sell my house and leave the area. They kept after me, so today I had a realtor stop by. I’m already planning a trip down south to scout out apartments and resume my old life in an area I used to enjoy. I find myself really looking forward to the coming move and starting a new life.

Women love attention, and when they can’t get it by any other means, they s~~~-test. I feel a little bad bailing on family like this. But the situation brought me back here to MGTOW. I wanted to look up that Camus quote on the home page: “The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.” That’s kind of how I feel: Like I’m striking a blow for freedom. If it means telling my family to f~~~ off, then so be it.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Good luck man…Very nice that you can easily uproot and move to a new location…

Your family needs to drag you into some useless drama because they cant stand that you have a peaceful life…They dont know how to be satisfied…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 0]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Good luck man…Very nice that you can easily uproot and move to a new location…

Thanks! Yes, I’m lucky in that I have that kind of freedom to just pick up and move.

Mainly it just feels kind of weird to go through a big move over a minor p~~~ing contest with family members. But I have to look at the history. The more I try to set some boundaries, the more they try to s~~~-test and push past my boundaries. It’s just getting worse over time, so f~~~ ’em.

NerdTunneler wrote:

Your family needs to drag you into some useless drama because they cant stand that you have a peaceful life…They dont know how to be satisfied…

I have to admit, I’m enjoying getting the last laugh on them by bailing. Again, f~~~ them and their drama.

[Anonymous 0]

Here’s a good video on dealing with needy women. In fact, it’s one of my favorite red pill videos of all time. It’s by Paul Elam, and it’s on the subject of how men are put in the position of “changing women’s emotional diapers” for them. I really recommend it. (It’s 14 minutes.)

Link for the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1-wP3jyc8M

Basically, Elam estimates that maybe 20% of women are fairly logical and reasonably mature like men, while the other 80% of women are emotional toddlers. He says to seek out the 20% of mature ones if you need to deal with women at all, but in any case avoid the 80% of women who are emotional toddlers like the plague.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I watched that video last year. It was very informative. However, the percentages of women being emotionally mature is much much smaller than that. Weemin are just little girls on the inside with hardly any foresight.

Its great that you can be away from all their drama and psychological manipulations. Good luck man. They are after your resources and thinks that what you own is also theirs…LOL…

Most weemin believe that they are better money managers and seek to dictate on how you spend the money you earned and saved…My exes are the same…I was able to save and grow what little money I earned on the side. My income which 98 percent went to her disappeared during the end of the relations~~~…So much for my working hard to build a nest egg…Until now I dont know where that money went…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 0]

NerdTunneler wrote:

They are after your resources and thinks that what you own is also theirs…LOL…

Yes, it’s partly to do with money. They want to create problems, lay them at my door, and guilt me into spending money on them.

As far as they’re concerned, the money math is simple: I’ve got it, and they want it. 🙂

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

LOL…With the red pills, we are able to see clearly their nature…A long time ago I would have jumped in and helped…But now, knowing their game and how cold and calculating they can be…Nah…

My ex was only sweet and there for me when she needed something or I am giving her some expensive stuff or vacations…When I got sick at work, she sent me medicine and did not take care of me….

I went to the freaking ER alone after having a fainting spell…I begged her to come with me to the hospital because I was scared and because she was in the area for an appointment. After waiting for 3 hours, I called and found out she went home and told me I should go to the hospital alone because she was tired…Yeah right…So much for in sickness part of marriage…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 0]

I know! They can be cold! You try to treat them well, but eventually they hit that point after a few years where they can barely conceal their disdain for you. Two ex’s in my case, 10 years each, the second one worse than the first.

I guess that’s the other side of the neediness. If you don’t give in 100% on their neediness and s~~~-testing, the coldness and disdain come out. And after a while it’s just all coldness and disdain, no matter how you pamper them.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Yup. They reveal their true colors and seems to have the utmost disrespect and disdain for you…She will make you feel like you are the worst person on the planet despite bending backwards to accommodate her every wants and needs…

You give everything and instead of thanking you, treat you like an asshole for not giving more…LOL…Why do they think that money grows on trees? F~~~…Every cent of it was earned with blood and sweat at the risk of my life…They spend what I earned like it was nothing, disrespecting the effort I made in doing a job I dislike just so she woundnt have mild discomfort…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 0]

Yeah, thinking back on my married days just makes me shudder.

Though I still end up ducking and dodging women even today. Now that I’m a retiree, the older women throw themselves at me. Trying to get one more shot at a meal ticket and free health care or whatever. I try socializing in mixed company but the older single women hit on me pretty hard. At first I enjoyed the attention, but eventually I realized that it came with a lot of drama.

I join a social group and some bossy old bulldyke-looking bitch locks onto me and tries to turn me into her personal companion. I find that I can’t just be one of the crowd and socialize with the rest; I’m separated off from the rest of the herd and the bossy bitch runs hot and cold trying to teach me to stay by her side or be punished.

The older women try to cut you off from the rest of the group and try to isolate you for themselves. You deflect their advances, and they turn crazy with hate (hell hath no fury like a woman scorned). Or, if you give them the time of day and act friendly, then they figure they own you and can start bossing you around and nagging you.

And of course I already mentioned female family members and their s~~~-testing in my OP. In other words, there’s no getting around it, even when you get old. There’s always going to be that drama.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Good luck pall.
Forget about family, i doesnt mean s~~~ anymore.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

The more I try to set some boundaries, the more they try to s~~~-test and push past my boundaries. It’s just getting worse over time, so f~~~ ’em.

Sounds like you’re making the right decision here mate. Like NT said, It’s great you have the flexibility to be able to just get up and move.

It’s not worth hanging around Drama – run to the hills and be free again.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I do hope my desire to chase for tail tapers off the older I get…Its a shock after the breakdown of marriage, but the more I read the more I understand that modern woman is a lot of work…We do our part, then they give us their part to do also…They treat us like a beast of burden, to be discarded when they deemed we have outlived our usefulness…

I am just glad that we can live solitary lives and still thrive…Sometimes the screeching of harpies squabbling over petty stuff is just grating on the nerves…They would screech, complain, nag and then in the next breath laugh their ass off…They are crazy…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 42]

NerdTunneler wrote:

with hardly any foresight.

No foresight! Their hunter/gatherer genetics rise to the surface and are plain as day to see. They’re “village” oriented, we’re scout/hunter oriented, now that they took control over the laws of the village we must hone our survival skills because the village is no longer our home.

NerdTunneler wrote:

We do our part, then they give us their part to do also…

Otherwise they turn up the misery like burner on a stove and have no compassion or empathy for whoever they burn.

Great thread, TwoStep and others, I enjoyed reading it and concur on everyone’s assessments, thank-you.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

If you don’t give in 100% on their neediness and s~~~-testing, the coldness and disdain come out. And after a while it’s just all coldness and disdain, no matter how you pamper them.

And if you do give in then they look at you as a doormat and lose all respect for you. And she will begin the monkey branching until she’s found a “better” branch and dump your ass. You’re screwed either way.

Or you can choose option #3, don’t play. Which is what you are doing. The empty chair. Congratulations on making the smart decision.

Order the good wine

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

I go out of my way to avoid all social events. I say no to practically everything. Men respect it. Women? I don’t know and I don’t care.

I have no drama. I go to a few imnediate family gatherings here and there, because luckily my family are cool. If they weren’t, I would say no to them too.

Total freedom, self-respect and no bitch to whine, guilt or shame me into hanging out with her family or friends. F~~~ that s~~~ forever.

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

Anonymous wrote:

But instead, I told them that if they didn’t quit bugging me, I would sell my house and leave the area.

You announced your plans?

Anonymous wrote:

Basically, Elam estimates that maybe 20% of women are fairly logical and reasonably mature like men,

Where I live it’s closer to 0%. That video was posted in 2016. I think Paul is coming around, but I haven’t read him or listened in a while.

I avoid all women at all costs – the ugly ones cause they’re ugly, the hot ones cause they’re crazy, and the young ones because they’re brainwashed.

Anonymous wrote:

I find myself really looking forward to the coming move and starting a new life.

Here’s my suggestion:

[Anonymous 42]

Sandals wrote:

Where I live it’s closer to 0%

I can verify that!

[Anonymous 0]

Sandals wrote:

You announced your plans?

Sorry, didn’t see your question till now (a couple weeks later). Anyway:

Yeah, definitely. They kept changing up their story on the nature of the problem, and finally I told them, “What are you, 10 years old that you keep changing your story with each new email?” I told them to quit bugging me or I would sell and move away. I don’t think they took me seriously. When they came back with a new BS story, I just said, “I can’t take any more of this silliness. I’m out of here. I’m talking to a realtor on Monday.”

So now it’s a couple weeks later and I’ve already signed a lease on a new apartment down south, and I’ve got a “for sale” sign on my lawn and had a bunch of showings of the house already.

[Anonymous 0]

Aaahhh!!
The Asphalt Fix in action.
Good on ya, brother

[Author]

Posts