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Absolutely – – Stress from female family members causes a f~~~ing myriad of diseases, sickness and even death…S~~~ there are too many to even put down here, but the posters above have it 100% correct, men die before women, and this is one reason why, the other glaring reason is they never f~~~ing worked a tough job in there whole pathetic lives…Live for you sir, I have to deal with an over bearing mother right now, and have no choice in the matter…So you focus on thing’s to improve your life…Focus on thing you have always wanted to do, but never had money because having a woman in your life is dadgum expensive sir…Save up as much as you can and attempt to remove yourself from this toxicity, and to help out, come back here as often as needed to vent that s~~~ out, brothers here will help in any way they can…Just having a fellow brother here listen helps a great deal, then at least it feels as though your not carrying that load alone…
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
Damn Russky!! Women will cause you stress. Period. Avoid women,avoid stress. Focus on your goals and your health and well being.A women will not help you with thoses things,she will be a detrament to your well being. Live for yourself by yourself.
Exactly. Every time I’m around women, especially more than one woman, I get stressed eventually because of the estrogen cesspool I’m surrounded by.
F~~~ that s~~~.
Once I move out, NO women will be allowed in my living space if I can help it.
Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius
Wow Rusky! glad you are better and hope you will feel better and better…i have been researching therapies as crazy so if you want some info feel free to message….
my story is different though…i dont understand it yet….and i am not proud of what i did…you should be proud of how much you worked it (although i know you could blame yourself for not ditching her sooner)
Damn Russky!! Women will cause you stress. Period. Avoid women,avoid stress. Focus on your goals and your health and well being.A women will not help you with thoses things,she will be a detrament to your well being. Live for yourself by yourself.
Exactly. Every time I’m around women, especially more than one woman, I get stressed eventually because of the estrogen cesspool I’m surrounded by.
F~~~ that s~~~.
Once I move out, NO women will be allowed in my living space if I can help it.
HOw can men in old tribes have several wifes? Because they live in different houses…i guess
HOw can men in old tribes have several wifes?
I can block out emotional bickering pretty well, what you can’t block out is bills you have to pay.
They managed several wives because there were no credit cards or mortgages at that time. And there were no TVs and magazines screaming – spend, spend, spend!proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
HOw can men in old tribes have several wifes?
I can block out emotional bickering pretty well, what you can’t block out is bills you have to pay.
They managed several wives because there were no credit cards or mortgages at that time. And there were no TVs and magazines screaming – spend, spend, spend!Yes. Anyway, my story is different, she was paying for all her things, even the house, she is independent but relies on several people for some dependence. I cant block out emotional bickering though. I was the one without job while beeing with her. Thats dependence on my part, its a different story for sure.
TL:DR – go to last paragraph
In 2007 me and my gf of 4 years were living in an apartment. I was 29 and she was 21
I had an accounting job making 42K and she didn’t work, but she was going to community college.
But I had masters in Economics and was studying for CFA – so I thought I had good prospects.
Since she was an OK girlfriend who stayed with me through thick and thin – we decided to have a baby
My mental health was great, I exercised, swimmed, biked, skied.
Everything was going great – I proposed to her and in 2009 we got married and bought a house.
Before pulling the trigger on the house I sat down with her and told her – it only makes sense to buy a house if we eventually become two income family, otherwise we should stay in the apartment; so you need to promise me that you will continue your studies or get a job once our daughter is old enough to go to daycare. And she did promise me that. So I went ahead and pulled the trigger.To become a CFA you need to be employed in the industry. I’ve been looking for Investment industry job continuously while working this accounting bulls~~~ job, but to no avail. I realized the only way to land a job like that – is to graduate from a local business school – which I wasn’t willing to do- and/or have some connections in the industry.
In the meanwhile my wife never returned to college or looked for employment. We lived beyond our means and kept racking on debt. I started getting anxious and depressed – started falling back at work (which consisted of collecting on 60 mil of internal debt owed to 12 US subs from overseas subs in 37 countries by the way). I couldn’t sit straight or concentrate.
What caused this – is the mountain of debt that kept piling up, my inability to advance my career the way I was planning, and my wife who stayed at home like everything was perfect and there was no urgency for her to keep her promises and look for a job.I started going to doctors for help and drinking heavier. After changing dozens of different meds (which also negatively impacted my work) – doctors diagnosed me with ADHD and put me on Adderall. At first it was great – I started catching up and things got better. But the way it works – in 3-5 month you develop tolerance to amphetamines, so it’s like you not taking anything – symptoms come back and you’re unable to work boring jobs – so you have to up your dosage.
We started having marital problems at that point – I had to save every penny and work 60 hr a week – coming to work on weekends sometimes, while she was living the dream, seeing the world through rose-colored glasses and filling the closet with dresses and shoes. Her only job was the baby, cooking and cleaning. She refused any mention of ever starting working or going to school. This drove me insane.
I had to get creative and start growing weed and mushrooms in a last ditch effort to supplement my income.So I kept upping up the dosage of adderall, while tearing my hair out, saving every penny, drinking, smoking and pretty much moved to the basement to keep working on my garden and avoid seeing my wife who leisurely spent time watching TV and browsing women-related online forums and bragging of her good life on social media. I stopped any excercise, developed ulcers, and starting having sleep problems and anxiety attacks. Work performance deteriorated and I started coming to work late. Most nights I would pass out and sometimes wouldn’t hear the alarm clock. I started looking like a shadow of my former self.
But two spoonfuls of yerba mate and 100mg of adderall in the morning would bring me back to life every morning.All of this time I was also on SSRI drugs and started having suicidal thoughts. My lovely daughter was the only thing in the world that kept me from doing anything stupid.
Eventually, the adderall dosage got so high (120mg/day) – that anxiety became unbearable and my work performance – very sketchy. Instead of doing actual work responsibilities – I would write VB procedures to automate Outlook mail sorting and attachment processing and s~~~. Every time I’d see my manager in the first part of the day – I’d come up with outlandish ideas how to reform current processes within our department and stuff – one day I’d be doing one thing- other day – I’d abandon the original plan and come up with something different. He tried to keep me in check – but it’s a hard thing to do when someone is bouncing off walls on adderall.
Situation with my wife also got ballistic – we started having constant arguments and screaming matches.At that point – I had to get benzos – lorazepam and later xanax. That leveled me out. When you pop some benzos and chase them with alcohol – you don’t have a care in the world. It’s like a power shield for your moods. But when you don’t have them – you start climbing walls and tearing your hair out.
Somewhere at that point – decision has been made to get rid of me (at work). HR knew about my ADHD – and because it’s like a disability developed after starting with the company – they had to get clever to not get sued in the end. So they started writing me up on performance reviews – setting unrealistic goals and watch me fail. They started tracking my start times and eventually – set me a limit how many times I could be late in a quarter.
I was under illusion I could still get on top of it and succeed, so I didn’t switch jobs (stupid me)Forgot to mention there was already a domestic violence incident where I got arrested and ended up with disorderly conduct charge and had to clean up freeways for a while.
In the end – even my 120mg dose of adderall didn’t do anything to help me do my job. I only slept two or three days a week fearing of oversleeping and being late to work. I started looking like a zombie.
On thanksgiving eve of 2011 I got fired for performance and tardiness and they flat out refused to give me any references.I’ve been on unemployment for a year – nobody wanted to hire me even temp agencies. My wife had to start working. I couldn’t get more introductory rate credit cards to transfer balances to and existing cards grace periods were coming to an end. I figured I need to gradually quit all the meds and reinvent myself. Eventually I was able to do it, but I was so bad – I couldn’t focus on anything. If I had to pick a pen and fill out some paperwork – I’d start sweating and getting antsy – I had to take breaks. I was a total wreck. It took me about a year to recover from that, but not fully. I still don’t have much of an attention span – It takes me two or three days to watch a movie from beginning to an end. I get bored and I have to do something else.
After my unemployment benefits ran out, I was getting desperate. My wife started f~~~ing people at her new job. Eventually I was clean off meds and getting better, but she already had two other guys in tow – so I kicked her out. I started driving trucks interstate and it was some great therapy for me.
In 2014 I was divorced and bankrupt, off the drugs, but still drinking. I got a DUI and lost my trucking job. Some people from AA hooked me up with this other local job I’ve been doing.
My health got better and better. I found MGTOW. I’ve been seeing my daughter every weekend.
Now my employer went out of business, I’m back on unemployment, can’t find anything good with my driving record. But I’m healthy and I’m free and I can do anything, so it shouldn’t be a problem. Planning to go into blue collar work any time now.TL:DR Want to be healthy – Don’t trust women or work boring jobs and don’t go on adderall or xanax guys – and spend as much time outside as possible – healthy lifestyle and all. Stress will kill you. Minimize it as much as possible. If you have children – engage and play with them – it helps a lot for both of you.
This was an example how a woman can f~~~ up your health and career through your mental health. And although I can take some blame myself, failing on my career, and trusting psychiatrists – I’d never be in that position if not for a promise that a woman broke.
I was an idiot. Don’t be like me.Man Russky, what a story! Thank you for sharing it.
It’s f~~~ing amazing how women never keep their word.
IT’s like a hardcore version of the Lucy pulling the football from Charlie Brown’s kick…every single time."It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
Is it possible to do this while living among them or is it imperative to run away from all this people?
My guess is that 100% of men are better off walking away from situations like this.
The trouble with staying and trying to tough it out is that they will sense this and adapt against you.
For men, the whole situation is regarded as just s~~~ty, but to females quite enjoyable. That is their warped twisted forte, that is their sick strength.
It’s like you being sick with initial food poisoning and you throw-up / hurl convulsively painfully, but then you feel much much better off and you are.
It’s not running away, it’s making a wise decision to change your location.
There will be expenses doing this, but it is a great bargain compared to the total toll on your health if you don’t relocate."It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
For the last two years of my marriage, although I didn’t realise it at the time I was definitely depressed. When I found out she was having an affair and we split up the stress was so bad that I spent months feeling sick, couldn’t sleep and lost lots of weight. It was so bad that I was taking sleeping pills to sleep and was surviving on chocolate bars as this was the only food I could face eating.
The stress of the split was so bad I had dark thoughts and it has definitely aged me facially. I also dabbled in drugs for a very short while and got myself into some very dodgy situations due to how low I was feeling.
So yes, a man can definitely get sick due to a woman and we have definitely lost a lot of brothers to suicide due to a woman’s hypergamy.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
TL:DR – go to last paragraph
In 2007 me and my gf of 4 years were living in an apartment. I was 29 and she was 21
I had an accounting job making 42K and she didn’t work, but she was going to community college.
But I had masters in Economics and was studying for CFA – so I thought I had good prospects.
Since she was an OK girlfriend who stayed with me through thick and thin – we decided to have a baby
My mental health was great, I exercised, swimmed, biked, skied.
Everything was going great – I proposed to her and in 2009 we got married and bought a house.
Before pulling the trigger on the house I sat down with her and told her – it only makes sense to buy a house if we eventually become two income family, otherwise we should stay in the apartment; so you need to promise me that you will continue your studies or get a job once our daughter is old enough to go to daycare. And she did promise me that. So I went ahead and pulled the trigger.To become a CFA you need to be employed in the industry. I’ve been looking for Investment industry job continuously while working this accounting bulls~~~ job, but to no avail. I realized the only way to land a job like that – is to graduate from a local business school – which I wasn’t willing to do- and/or have some connections in the industry.
In the meanwhile my wife never returned to college or looked for employment. We lived beyond our means and kept racking on debt. I started getting anxious and depressed – started falling back at work (which consisted of collecting on 60 mil of internal debt owed to 12 US subs from overseas subs in 37 countries by the way). I couldn’t sit straight or concentrate.
What caused this – is the mountain of debt that kept piling up, my inability to advance my career the way I was planning, and my wife who stayed at home like everything was perfect and there was no urgency for her to keep her promises and look for a job.I started going to doctors for help and drinking heavier. After changing dozens of different meds (which also negatively impacted my work) – doctors diagnosed me with ADHD and put me on Adderall. At first it was great – I started catching up and things got better. But the way it works – in 3-5 month you develop tolerance to amphetamines, so it’s like you not taking anything – symptoms come back and you’re unable to work boring jobs – so you have to up your dosage.
We started having marital problems at that point – I had to save every penny and work 60 hr a week – coming to work on weekends sometimes, while she was living the dream, seeing the world through rose-colored glasses and filling the closet with dresses and shoes. Her only job was the baby, cooking and cleaning. She refused any mention of ever starting working or going to school. This drove me insane.
I had to get creative and start growing weed and mushrooms in a last ditch effort to supplement my income.So I kept upping up the dosage of adderall, while tearing my hair out, saving every penny, drinking, smoking and pretty much moved to the basement to keep working on my garden and avoid seeing my wife who leisurely spent time watching TV and browsing women-related online forums and bragging of her good life on social media. I stopped any excercise, developed ulcers, and starting having sleep problems and anxiety attacks. Work performance deteriorated and I started coming to work late. Most nights I would pass out and sometimes wouldn’t hear the alarm clock. I started looking like a shadow of my former self.
But two spoonfuls of yerba mate and 100mg of adderall in the morning would bring me back to life every morning.All of this time I was also on SSRI drugs and started having suicidal thoughts. My lovely daughter was the only thing in the world that kept me from doing anything stupid.
Eventually, the adderall dosage got so high (120mg/day) – that anxiety became unbearable and my work performance – very sketchy. Instead of doing actual work responsibilities – I would write VB procedures to automate Outlook mail sorting and attachment processing and s~~~. Every time I’d see my manager in the first part of the day – I’d come up with outlandish ideas how to reform current processes within our department and stuff – one day I’d be doing one thing- other day – I’d abandon the original plan and come up with something different. He tried to keep me in check – but it’s a hard thing to do when someone is bouncing off walls on adderall.
Situation with my wife also got ballistic – we started having constant arguments and screaming matches.At that point – I had to get benzos – lorazepam and later xanax. That leveled me out. When you pop some benzos and chase them with alcohol – you don’t have a care in the world. It’s like a power shield for your moods. But when you don’t have them – you start climbing walls and tearing your hair out.
Somewhere at that point – decision has been made to get rid of me (at work). HR knew about my ADHD – and because it’s like a disability developed after starting with the company – they had to get clever to not get sued in the end. So they started writing me up on performance reviews – setting unrealistic goals and watch me fail. They started tracking my start times and eventually – set me a limit how many times I could be late in a quarter.
I was under illusion I could still get on top of it and succeed, so I didn’t switch jobs (stupid me)Forgot to mention there was already a domestic violence incident where I got arrested and ended up with disorderly conduct charge and had to clean up freeways for a while.
In the end – even my 120mg dose of adderall didn’t do anything to help me do my job. I only slept two or three days a week fearing of oversleeping and being late to work. I started looking like a zombie.
On thanksgiving eve of 2011 I got fired for performance and tardiness and they flat out refused to give me any references.I’ve been on unemployment for a year – nobody wanted to hire me even temp agencies. My wife had to start working. I couldn’t get more introductory rate credit cards to transfer balances to and existing cards grace periods were coming to an end. I figured I need to gradually quit all the meds and reinvent myself. Eventually I was able to do it, but I was so bad – I couldn’t focus on anything. If I had to pick a pen and fill out some paperwork – I’d start sweating and getting antsy – I had to take breaks. I was a total wreck. It took me about a year to recover from that, but not fully. I still don’t have much of an attention span – It takes me two or three days to watch a movie from beginning to an end. I get bored and I have to do something else.
After my unemployment benefits ran out, I was getting desperate. My wife started f~~~ing people at her new job. Eventually I was clean off meds and getting better, but she already had two other guys in tow – so I kicked her out. I started driving trucks interstate and it was some great therapy for me.
In 2014 I was divorced and bankrupt, off the drugs, but still drinking. I got a DUI and lost my trucking job. Some people from AA hooked me up with this other local job I’ve been doing.
My health got better and better. I found MGTOW. I’ve been seeing my daughter every weekend.
Now my employer went out of business, I’m back on unemployment, can’t find anything good with my driving record. But I’m healthy and I’m free and I can do anything, so it shouldn’t be a problem. Planning to go into blue collar work any time now.TL:DR Want to be healthy – Don’t trust women or work boring jobs and don’t go on adderall or xanax guys – and spend as much time outside as possible – healthy lifestyle and all. Stress will kill you. Minimize it as much as possible. If you have children – engage and play with them – it helps a lot for both of you.
This was an example how a woman can f~~~ up your health and career through your mental health. And although I can take some blame myself, failing on my career, and trusting psychiatrists – I’d never be in that position if not for a promise that a woman broke.
I was an idiot. Don’t be like me.Jesus man, did you at least have a prenup?
Jesus man, did you at least have a prenup?
Prenup?? Haha. Prenup for what? I’m not a trust fund baby. Never had more than $20K in my possession (yet)
“I came to this f~~~ing country with a dollar and a dream” Scarface
($300 and a duffle bag to be exact in my case, and I can’t say this country is “f~~~ing” – maybe only in a good way)proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
@ Russky – great post man, I’ve got a doctor’s appointment on Friday where I suspect he is going to recommend a bunch of mood-altering meds (I’ve got the scans to show my issues aren’t organic) so I really needed to hear that.
MGTOW delivers again.
The video below and advise of some of my good russian friends set me straight to drop all the psychotropic meds from my life. It’s a long video, but one of the most eye-opening videos I’ve seen in my entire life. If you’re curious – watch it. Well worth the time
Some might argue some of those drugs can work fine. And they can in a short term. The problem is that they’re designed to get you dependant.
If you have ADD traits – you should avoid certain jobs and tasks and work around it.
If you have anxiety – minimize the stress if you can, if not – some meds might help, but don’t take them daily.
If you’re depressed – drugs don’t really help. Smoke some herb, put the headphones on and go hiking.
There is very little actual science behind psychotropic meds. It’s pretty much glorified street drugs altered in a way that you don’t get high too muchproud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
Yes, bitches carry a ton of germs and diseases. treat them like a plague.
Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.
The video below and advise of some of my good russian friends set me straight to drop all the psychotropic meds from my life. It’s a long video, but one of the most eye-opening videos I’ve seen in my entire life. If you’re curious – watch it. Well worth the time
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Some might argue some of those drugs can work fine. And they can in a short term. The problem is that they’re designed to get you dependant.
If you have ADD traits – you should avoid certain jobs and tasks and work around it.
If you have anxiety – minimize the stress if you can, if not – some meds might help, but don’t take them daily.
If you’re depressed – drugs don’t really help. Smoke some herb, put the headphones on and go hiking.
There is very little actual science behind psychotropic meds. It’s pretty much glorified street drugs altered in a way that you don’t get high too muchThis is very bad advice, SSRI’s are amazing for people with real depression.
If you’re depressed – drugs don’t really help. Smoke some herb, put the headphones on and go hiking.
This is very bad advice, SSRI’s are amazing for people with real depression.
Okay, sir, smoking herb, being in the nature and listening to music while exercising is bad advice. Don’t listen to me. Bad advice. Just pop some pills and stay home – you’ll be amazed how great they work
Whatever man. Speaking from personal experience here. It worked for me – helped me to wane off of 200mg of Zoloft. Results may vary
Saying “real depression” is kind of mean, you know. Are you trying to suggest my depression wasn’t real now? I was on Zoloft and still depressed worse than ever. And once I got off – I had to go through a divorce and bankruptcy – I almost ended up on the street all alone. Nobody to help me. Zoloft sure didn’t help me with that. But no, I’m pretty sure you had it worse, right? and SSRIs helped you get over it? good for you. I’m really happy for you.
I was just trying to help, but you must know better, so you shut me down.
/rantproud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
To OP,
Medial doctor here. Not only has it already been demonstrated that chronic stress can cause a set of chemical events that lead to measurable pathology over time, it’s also been shown with whom that person originates, and with whom it ends up. Stress can be transferred from one person to another one via relationships, and this has been demonstrated and measured in real time as it occurred.Cortisol is a hormone normally made, stored and then released in response to stress. Its release in response to occasional intermittent stress is normal. It has a variety of effects including increased heart rate, blood pressure etc. In response to chronic, repeated stress, the effects of its repeated release create pathology over time. Cortisol itself is very powerful and need only be present in the blood in very small quantities to exert its effects. It occurs in such small quantities that its level is difficult to measure directly. But one of its metabolic effects is an increase in substances abbreviated as FFA’s. So levels of FFA’s can be used as a marker for levels of cortisol. The long title of FFA’s doesn’t matter so much as that levels of FFA’s are easy to measure. And their fluctuations up and down occur together and can be measured in real time. So, stress is possible to measure chemically, and to quantify.
Many years ago (in a published article that I will include the reference for if I can find it), researchers did an experiment with dysfunctional families where they measured the fluctuations in FFA’s in family members individually in isolation while discussing the family’s issues with a therapist. They found that children can discuss the issues stressing their parents without any increase in cortisol (measured by the fluctuations in FFA’s). Predictably, parents showed increases in FFA’s when measured during sessions with a therapist when challenged to discuss the issues that stressed them. Children could discuss the issues of the parents without being stressed by it, because the issues were not their own. Parents showed increases in stress markers when challenged to discuss issues that were already known to be stressors for them. Neither of these findings was a surprise to anyone.
But then, the researchers did a separate experiment. In the middle of therapy sessions with the parents in which increases in stress markers had already occurred, their children were brought in and included in the already ongoing discussions. From the time that the children of dysfunctional parents entered the room, the chemical stress markers in the children increased, and the stress markers in the parents decreased. And this occurred AT THE SAME TIME.
The researchers had demonstrated that stress can be exported from one person to another, and had measured and quantified that transfer in real time as it had occurred. Obviously, the receiver here is aware of the incoming stress. But unless there is ongoing measurement of the chemical markers for that stress, the transfer occurs in ways that are otherwise invisible to an outside observer. And if this has occurred early enough, and often enough, that incoming stress that actually belongs to someone else may not even be perceptible as anything out of the ordinary having occurred. Last, since the stressor issue can be the issue of a completely separate person having nothing to do with the receiver, there is often little the receiver of that stress can do to address it.
If you have ever grown up with, lived with, or were otherwise in a relationship with someone and found it stressful for reasons you couldn’t quite identify, this was likely the mechanism for it.
The more mature and skilled adults are at managing their own stress, the less likely it is to be transferred from them to their children, or to someone else in their social environment. Different individual people have different individual abilities when it comes to managing their stress. The better an individual is at managing their stress, the less likely it is that that stress will spill over to people around them. But the more primitive their stress management skills are, the more likely that unresolved stress is to be transferred to someone else.
There are also cultural differences in the way stress is managed according to gender. While a stressed man may internalize it and resort to things that are self destructive (drinking, drugs, compulsive gambling etc) but invisible to people around him, a stressed woman is much more likely to express it in ways inescapable to people around her who have relationships with her.
So if you have ever grown up with, lived with or otherwise been in a relationship with a female and found it stressful for reasons you couldn’t quite identify, this may be the reason.
I have had the experience of living with a woman who had a rage attack problem. After I’d escaped it (many years later), she and I both realized it had actually been a stress management problem (hers). She was most afraid of losing control and when something would happen beyond her control that demonstrated her lack of it, that fear turned to rage. That rage terrified everyone in the house and usually resulted in everyone making an internal decision to give her or to do whatever she wanted. It would have been physically unsafe not to make that decision. The result was not that the total amount of fear in the house decreased. Her method of managing it just transferred it from her, to everyone else in the house.
As I’ve learned to better assess people I meet, I’ve become better and better at recognizing people with primitive or absent stress management skills. I can recognize those people when I see them, and I can feel the arrival of stress from issues not my own. And it’s also become clear to me that while I am looking for them (to avoid) they are often looking as hard as they can for me, or someone else to whom they can export their unresolved stress. They are looking for someone to receive it an manage it for them. They prefer someone who has less of it than they do, or better skills to manage it, and a willingness (conscious or not) to receive it. Stress does not flow well uphill. For a lot of women, this is the only stress management skill that they have, but they are really, really good at this skill. They can do it for very long periods of time without anyone realizing it’s being done to them. Some of them don’t even consciously realize they are doing it to people around them. And none of the stress recipients are consciously aware of it (they would abandon these women if they did).
Consciously or not, these women surround themselves with people they can export their unresolved emotional trash to, and they are always looking for more of them. For a group of people who already feel entitled to take your money, home, children, retirement and legal rights from you, taking your health from you by using you as an emotional garbage dump is no great leap.
In their minds, you already owe them these things anyway…
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
OMG!
Amazing info.Yes, the idiotic, petty, immature, vindictive and often psychotic behavior frequently exhibited can be quite stressful and take a toll over the long term.
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