It also reveals the expectation women have that men are nothing but beta-providers… and staying up late might mean that a man is (horrors!) spending time not focused entirely on his wife.
Have you ever noticed that if you do “whatever your woman wants”, you’re gonna end up doing a whole lot of nothing at all?
Observe this f~~~ing bulls~~~ that women share all over the internet, which is some imagined recipe for “the right guy”.
Here’s another one that stinks like yesterday’s diapers.
Now, seriously consider that garbage.
What kind of “man” would you be?
• “Who calls her back when she hangs up on him.”
Only a LOSER would do that.
• “Who will lay under the stars and listen to her heartbeat.”
Nothing better to do with his time?
• “Staying awake just to watch her sleep(!!)”
Again, you have nothing better to do.
• “Who will constantly remind her of how much she means to him.”
Yes, like she’s the center of the goddam universe and requires constant validation, and it’s my job to constantly gush forth an endless stream of adoration and attention.
• “The right woman wants your time, effort, honesty (don’t make me laugh), loyalty, and putting her as a priority.”
Jesus tap-dancing Christ.
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Does any of that PAY? What’s in it for YOU to be that moron? Will you ever accomplish anything doing that stupid womanly s~~~? Is that f~~~~~ry going to put food on the table? Does it pay the rent? I have heard women talk about going on vacation as if the money for that s~~~ just grows on trees! She doesn’t even think about the 2 unpaid weeks of salary you don’t earn on top of it!
I think it really bothered [your ex] that you guys didn’t always go to bed together at the same time.”
She’ll live.
It’s truly amazing how much of an abject asshole you have be to female friends, girlfriends, moms & sisters just to make this sink into their heads.
My mother actually said “you know what would be really nice? Why don’t you sit down and write your nieces a nice little letter and remind them they have an uncle”. I’m not kidding. We had this conversation 2 weeks ago and I called her out for that.
When I was 5 / 6 / 7 / 8 she made me sit down and write to my uncle and aunt in another country just to make her happy. Just a hand written letter to tell her about all the things I was doing in school, and I had to write it in another language – proper spelling and everything! If I didn’t know the word, I would have to look it up! Now that I am a grown man, she thinks I SHOUD STILL be doing that and writing letters to my little nieces.
Not happening. Not once did any of MY uncles ever sit down and write a 8 year old a letter — because they were too BUSY for that s~~~, working so their wives could sit on their butts and EAT.
It’s now MY turn to receive letters from them, so she can make HER GRAND CHILDREN sit down, kiss my butt for a change and write their uncle a letter instead. Of course, in order for this to sink in, I had to be a great big jerk.
Go ahead. Be an asshole. It feels fantastic.
Put it in it’s proper perspective for them, because they aren’t capable of it.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Arc 3 years ago.
