Conversation with my Girlfriend

[experiencedParticipant]

Today’s girlfriends are like an item you buy at the store, but the price tag keeps going up ex post facto. You are contacted that even though a purchase was agreed upon, the price kept increasing and you owe more money and will continue to owe even more money than that.
MGTOW guys react to this with WTF?
MGTOW guys are correct.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[GrumpyParticipant]

Y_ wrote:

Bro – she was already half out the door. When they do this s~~~ it means they are in the process of dumping you.

Glad you shut her down.

Manipulation of her role in the soap opera she has developed for you. She wants a bigger role with more lines, leading to the directors chair.

From your response it appears that her version of contract negotiations failed and her series taken off the air.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Vector wrote:

Truth is, you DO only want to get laid. Let’s be honest.

Getting laid is great but that is not all I want, companionship is what I desire the most.

Autolite wrote:

There’s no point in trying to figure how a woman’s brain works.

Many years ago, I had a GF who would turn me down for sex each and every time I initiated. And I mean EACH AND EVERY F~~~ING TIME!

After a while, it eventually occurred one day the only time I was going to get laid was when she initiated. So I just stopped asking altogether and just waited it out.

Then one day she asks me why it is that she always has to be the one who initiates the sex.

WTF???

I usually give a women 3 shots to turn me down for sex then I send her packing… exceptions are usually on their period or are sick but anything else I count as a strike lol.

Update for you all… She has non stop been texting and calling etc to try to get back to. We have had been having issues similar to this so this was the the last straw for me. I finally responded and told her we are done and I am not interested in any further conversation…. Block her # and removed her from my life.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

A very long time ago A gf of mine had the same talk with me (seems its standard for them).
This all talk about me only wanting sex.
So I told her I wont have any sex with her then.
You wouldn’t believe how shameless they can get when they think they can get you to break. I mean it, you would not believe it.

So, after a month, I asked her: thats enough or should I go on? She got the message.
After that I told her something that changed her mind about sex: “Sex is a natural need, mine is just more common than yours. You deny me that need, and try to make me think there is something wrong with me for needing it. You also have needs and I dont fulfill them because I expect something in return but because I want you to feel well. Thats what a relationship is, you focus on the needs of the other person. If you think I only do those things so I can get my needs, then it speaks more of how you think than how I do. YOu are projecting.
Thats a relationship that will never work”.

Not that I didnt realize the minute we started dating that she would dump my ass eventually, but hey, she was hot, got good sex, no kids, no marriage. Time to find another hot girl that will leave me when she wants kids. When I am done with more important stuff ofc. Like playing computer games.

[Y_Participant 4591]

SolidusX wrote:

Getting laid is great but that is not all I want, companionship is what I desire the most.

Ok you are in real trouble here.

First rule : Know thy c~~~ – once you use it you lose it.
Second rule : See First Rule

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Y_ wrote:

SolidusX wrote:

Getting laid is great but that is not all I want, companionship is what I desire the most.

Ok you are in real trouble here.

First rule : Know thy c~~~ – once you use it you lose it.
Second rule : See First Rule

Well I am not sure about you but I do not let me c~~~ do the thinking

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

SolidusX wrote:

So I just had the most irritating conversation with my girlfriend and now in my opinion soon to be ex girlfriend… It goes a little something like this.

gf: Hey can we talk

me: Sure what is up?

gf: Why have you been ignoring me?

me: What do you mean? We text everyday and hang out at least 2 times a week (I was showing actual legitimate concern at this stage)

gf: Well sometimes when I think about us I do not think you mean what you say or like to hang out with me and only want to get laid.

me: How do you figure that? I always do what I say and treat you well?

gf: I know that but I just think that you only do it to get laid

me: If I wanted to get laid I would not waste my time putting in the effort with you… I would just find a floozy to f~~~ and be done with it.

gf: That is kinda harsh

me: Harsh? I am not the one making up stuff in their head and believing it to be true when its not then regurgitating this garbage back at me. You should just like to be with me and appreciate what I do for you instead of this, if you really feel this way about me the door is right there *I point towards my front door* (I tend to quick to anger when I am fed BS like this)

gf: You’re an asshole *Storms out of my house*

me: *facepalm*

She texts me an hour later asking why I did not chase after her, I sent her a picture of a work pink slip but I do not think she got the reference lol.

Brothers have you ever experienced this before?

Had this one, almost word for word. Like they all use the same playbook, or it’s HIVE talk. I noticed it was worse when she was PMSing, and spoiling for a fight. Me to her: Do what you have to do, I’m not responsible for your happiness, you are. Find happiness, leave, stay, cry. not my problem. We are all in charge of our own happiness. Its a check mate type of move, when you mean it, and nary a f~~~ is given. Your free go play

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

SolidusX wrote:

“Getting laid is great but that is not all I want, companionship is what I desire the most.”

There’s your mistake right there. It could lead to a lifetime of child support and divorce rape because that’s all you really going to get from a woman.

If you want companionship get a dog.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Good for you bro. Just reading the part where she s~~~ tested you exhausted me. I honestly wouldn’t have the strength or desire to come up with a response to that bulls~~~.

Her – “You don’t pay enough attention to me”

Me – “…”

I would get the same types of s~~~ tests on a weekly basis. No wonder I never got married haha.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Run!!

Monk

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Yeah this whole situation wreaks of s~~~ test. Yeah if you want a companion get a big dog. My dog just tore up some furniture last night. I was so p~~~ed…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 9]

I’d go for her sister or best friend too.

I don’t like when a bitch leaves you hanging after a conversation like that.

Why should I chase your demanding/crazy/psycho/in some cases fat…ass?

Or when you’re on the phone having a similar conversation that took a turn for the worse when everything was light prior to any mentioning of her wanting more.

You can’t have it all, especially when you’re not bringing s~~~ to the table.

You just want, want, want, want, want, want, and it goes on like that little bunny…

[MasterAnglerParticipant 42]

This is just yet another game that women play. Women have an insatiable need for attention and control. Every time they “walk away” they expect you to chase them beg for them to come back. They love this, it feeds their ego and you will be rewarded with a new set of rules and stipulations. They will do this over and over until you are 100% powerless. I don’t ever plan on chasing a woman who throws a tantrum and storms off ever again. It only gets way worse after that.I love the pink slip. I would hold a red card to the imaginary audience.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Excellent! Now don’t ever see her again or she will get pregnant by mistake.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

S~~~ TEST!!!!

( Gawd. How do you put up with it? )

“I just think that you only do it to get laid”.

“Funny you say that. I feel the same way! You’re only with me to get laid. You text me just to get laid. You want to have dinner just to watch me pay. We go to the movie just so you can eat popcorn. You talk to me just to get laid. You start conversations like this just to get laid. Goddammit!! I need be loved for the person I am INSIDE!!! *Sniff*.”

The next time she does s~~~ like this, do exactly the same thing, and AMPLIFY it X 100. Try and make yourself look as pathetic and dramatic as possible.

She’ll never try that s~~~ again.

This chick is behaving as if she hates sex and she’s doing you some kind of “favor”. Sex is not even a highlight to her! She sees it as a chore and a drag, but it’s the entire POINT of men and women. You’re SUPPOSED to want to get laid. If she doesn’t agree… she can get girlfriend instead – to go shopping for shoes together.

Don’t fall for it.

… as a matter of fact….

Let that be your first response.

“Not falling for that one”.
Quietly let her know you know exactly what she’s up to.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Updates for you all, so this chick constantly tried to get back with me and I ended up having to get a no contact order against her… what a pain in the ass. Now her f~~~ing mother is bother me… I decided to nuke out her entire existence by deleting and blocking all her friends on FB, all their friends on FB, blocking them on my phone, and even removing all my pictures from FB (no easy task let me tell you). That finally worked and I have not heard back from anyone, it feels great.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

SolidusX wrote:

gf: Hey can we talk

me: Sure what is up?

gf: Why have you been ignoring me?

Here’s what she was actually saying:

: “I want to demand more compensations from our relationship, so I’m going to make some s~~~ up to blame you for so that you feel a need to atone and give me what I want.”

If she hadn’t accused you of “ignoring” her she would have accused you of “smothering” her. Or some other such made up bulls~~~.

In any event what she was also actually saying, even though she herself was unaware of it, was:

: “It’s time to terminate this relationship since it’s all downhill from here.”

SolidusX wrote:

She has non stop been texting and calling etc to try to get back to.

Of course she has. Women cannot handle rejection.

Of course she’s only trying to get back in with you so she can break up on her terms and pretend she wasn’t rejected.

I finally responded and told her we are done and I am not interested in any further conversation…. Block her # and removed her from my life.

And that’s exactly the correct action to take. Good man. It’s over. That’s her problem.

CatsPaw wrote:

This all talk about me only wanting sex.

DirtBikeMan wrote:

Had this one, almost word for word.

It’s a common tactic women use to put men on the defensive and make them think they need to “prove themselves”, usually by buying the women s~~~ they want. They use the “you only want me for sex” because they can’t think of anything else that’s conveniently unprovable, and also because sex is the first thing at the top of their own minds.

So throw it right back in their faces:

: “You’re only with me for the sex.”
: “Of course I am. What else do you have to offer?”

: “You’re only with me for the sex.”
: “Now you know that ain’t true, baby. I’m also with you for the food. I’m only with Stacy for the sex. She can’t cook for a damn.”

And so on.

When they start with this s~~~, it’s over between you, so you might as well end it with maximum impact.

SolidusX wrote:

so this chick constantly tried to get back with me and I ended up having to get a no contact order against her… what a pain in the ass.

Women CANNOT handle rejection.

Women cannot even handle the rejection of other women.

But that is not our problem.

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