Control

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Truly I speak from experience when I say that there are many women who use kids as a method of controlling the father. When my little boy came along, my own ex tried to use my son to stop me from playing my video games and wanted me to look after him from the moment I got home from work until such time as I went to bed(I worked midnights-8am, bed at 4pm) and tried to exhaust me so thoroughly that I didnt have time/effort for anything except watching tv while she had an easy day.
It didnt work and we found other routines that did for a time. However even now, after we’ve been seperated for 12 months she uses him in order to control where/when I move, I grew up about 5 hours away from where I am right now and shes trying to enforce limitations on how far away I live by saying that its too far for my son to travel every time I have him and that every 2nd time-block I spend with him MUST be where she lives.
It infuriates me, even AFTER I left her, told her to let me f~~~ing BE she cant fkn help herself and insists on meddling, on using her own CHILD to try and force me to be somewhere I’m f~~~in miserable, surrounded by HER family while my own friends, family and LIFE is home, 5 hours away.
Not only that but false allegations that I’d hurt my son from my own mental state. My boss was called up by her lawyers in order to find dirt on whether I would kill myself while I had my son. She didnt give a f~~~ that I would, but simply whether or not I had custody at the time. Her doing that cost me my f~~~in job and slandered my name to other bakeries in the area ensuring I cant find work.
Sweet jesus I just want this manipulative bitch OUT of my f~~~in life and to leave me the f~~~ alone!

My apologies, need to vent n rant to anyone really. Fkn hell.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[jambearParticipant 282]

Vent all that you need to here and never feel the need to apologize.

I wish I could say something but I do not think anything I was will change anything. Woman are just plain evil and they have the full force of the government behind them. There is not much we can really do but try to live our lives.

[Anonymous 14]

@fitzbones

Mister you have no idea how great a service you are doing to men all around the world by reiterating your sad tale here. You are literally saving them from making the same mistake as yours by putting yourself up as an example of how much a man can suffer in having a relationship with a wrong woman. So please go ahead and vent all you want. You have my gratitude.

Oh the things I used to dream of when I was a teen. My perfect happy life with my perfect dream girl. All the kisses, all the cuddling, all the lovemaking and then a beautiful little child, life full of happiness and even challenges that we’d face, together, as a family.

*sigh* 🙂

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

That whole situation sucks bro and I’m sorry you have to go through that,

I’ve notice that seems to be a pattern for most women once a child (or often times a other children are born). It’s as if they have life all figured out, and are ready to take the next step in their life. Yet they forget that it’s us Men who care for children as well, some of us want to be fathers, and raise our sons and daughters. Help them through life, guide them, teach them. I have a friend who is going through a similar situation, His Ex Wife took away his visitation rights (on some frivolous lie) now she wants to revoke the kids right to even Skype with the Dad.

 

Really?, revoke the right to see His own Father?. My Friend absolutely loves His Son and wants to spend time with Him. However, His Ex Wife is a total bitch and has him paying alimony and child support up the wazoo. He’s paid well over $15,000 in lawyers and court fees to have visitation rights, and on top of that the alimony and child support. Plus, he can’t see His own Son because my friend’s Ex Wife made up some lie in court that she saw “him drinking in front of the kid” so they revoked the visitation rights. It’s a s~~~ty situation for a lot of men I’ve seen in my own life and male family members as well.

 

The court system favors women too damn much, and there needs to be a change soon. I wish the best for you in the future Fitzbones, stay strong buddy.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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