Considering getting a vasectomy – thoughts?

[IRuleMeParticipant]

I wasn’t sure if this was the right place for it, but lately I’ve been considering the idea of getting a vasectomy. My dad got one after my brother had passed away as a result of being born with a birth defect (as was I). At this point, considering I find myself going deeper into the rabbit hole (MGTOW) so to speak. Considering I’m 33, with no interest in relationships, marriage, or kids, and a declining interest in the dishonesty of women in general given their motives, I’m really considering this. So I’m trying to gauge a bit here.

Who on the forums has had one, or is also considering one? I always hear they’re quick and relatively painless. I feel like doing so is also insuring my future against any potential “male mistakes” down the road (i.e getting a woman pregnant and getting stuck with marriage or child support).

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

If you’re going to be engaged in sex sure, but if you’d rather save the money, and you don’t care about getting laid, just don’t let your semen anywhere near a womens vag and you should be ok.

[Anonymous 1]

Do it. I got mine on a Friday using a shovel to dig on Monday. 20 mins done. One of the best decisions I ever made.

Easier than going to the dentist.

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

It’ll pay for itself if some woman claims you got her pregnant and you can produce evidence you’ve been snipped!

[Anonymous 0]

I would suggest getting one, even without a genetic issue. It could save you a lot of money and agony.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

YOU potentially have a Lot of Years Left, and just because you’re NOT banging out any Ho’s currently, doesn’t mean that it will Never Happen ..???

Therefore, if you have ZERO interest in Reproducing then it almost begs the question of; Why WOULDN’T YOU get a Vasectomy ???

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

If you are positive you don’t want kids, then it a smart decision. It will prevent you from making a stupid decision in the future at a time when you may not be thinking as clearly. You can say you’re just going to avoid having sex, but it’s entirely possibly you come across a situation you just don’t want to pass up.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 0]

Not sure it’s worth the money they don’t always work, I secretly got one years ago behind the wife’s back and she’s popped out two kids since then……. go figure huh.

But all joking aside. I have read about some cases where spermjacking has upgraded to full on rape of an unconscious man. Some chap woke up after a house party with his pants down. Later the C~~~ announces shes up the duff and regularly referres to said rape as “the night she saved herself a trip to the spermbank”
Was he then liable for child support? I’ll give you 3 guesses but you’re only gonna need one.

As had been said above, if you’re sure you don’t want to breed then go for it (worst case it can be reversed). If you do hook up with some bitch in future best to still suit up, the snip only protects against one STD.

[Anonymous 3]

Completely unnecessary if you are not going to have sex at all. But if you still have any inclination to do so in the future, it’s wise to have it done just in case, because you never know.

For me, I’m at the point where I don’t even carry condoms anymore, because I have no interest in having sex with anybody.

So, you got to think about how it affects you, what you’re going to do.

[AttonParticipant]

If you intend to engage in sex then yes it is a very good idea. No matter how you put it its still cheaper than child support.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I got a vasectomy in April. I’d say it was a good choice.

I consider it to be one of the ultimate defenses in the MGTOW arsenal, especially if you don’t want to go celibate.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[TheoParticipant 20]

You are more than positive that you do not want children.
The sooner, the better.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I had one in 1990 and it gives me great peace of mind. I had 3 kids already by then so I know I didn’t want more kids. If your not sure and think you might want to have kids via a surrogate latter, you can have your sperm stored prior to surgery for few years till your absolutely sure. Also, you can choose if you want it done extra permanent or reversible. I was asked by my Dr. at the time and I had the choice. On the reversible they cut and tie and cauterize but do not remove any Vas deferens. So latter they can splice the ends back together. On the non-reversible they remove about a 1/2 inch of the Vas Deferens and cauterize the ends. My Dr. showed me the removed portion to prove it and remind me this was un-reversible. They are no longer close enough to be reattached or grow back together on their own. Pain wise it is nothing. Just take it easy for a day or so.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

IRuleMe wrote:

I wasn’t sure if this was the right place for it,

This is very good place to ask. Men’s issues are almost impossible to discuss anywhere else without some gynocetric asshole butting in and changing the subject to be about woman. That’s what make this forum so important to men. You can get honest answers from men who have experience, first-hand.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Man, if you do not want to sleep with any girl at all, do not bother getting a vasectomy and mutilating yourself. At least you have the confidence that you have something that those post wall females don’t have, the ability to still procreate if you wanted to. It is almost like owning a muscle car that is in your garage that even though you do not drive it, you have it for bragging rights to show other people as well as yourself that you have awesome car power. I hope you think rationally about this.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 0]

I think they can install a couple of tiny stainless steel ball valves just in case you want a reversal. Get it? Ball valves.

[Anonymous 3]

If you don’t want to have kids you just don’t have sex. Especially at 33+, that’s easy. Even if you do want to have sex, using a condom is fine. In all honesty you don’t even need a condom, a basic knowledge of female reproductive cycles and fertility is all you actually need. If she’s not ovulating, she can’t get pregnant. Simple.

5 days up to ovulation, 1 day (24 hours exact) after. 6 days total out of each cycle. Want to be extra safe? Don’t need to but okay, just add 2 days on either end where yo won’t have sex. 10 days out of a month of not having sex. Can’t even do that? Well, then you’re not actually even trying, that’s just pathetic, although again it’s only 6 days.

It’s actually hard to get pregnant. Women actively have to try to get pregnant. I used this system all through college and my twenties, and have never gotten a woman pregnant, despite sticking exclusively to the 18-24 year age range, which are by far the most fertile age range of women and the easiest for them to get pregnant.

If you’re getting a woman pregnant it’s because she wants to, and honestly you are letting her do it too. It’s not a surprise, it’s not some trick. Most men on the internet like to pose just as women do, and refuse to be responsible for their own behavior and also like to put a fake image of their “success” with women.

Any man that is actually successful and has had that period of his life can tell you how easy this stuff is. I used to sometimes use a calendar with different colored markers. There’s literally 20 guaranteed safe days a month even if you make a mistake. Even 2 girls is enough to have sex every night with no worry, but realistically most girls can’t go every night, so I’d have 4-5 girls. There were some nights I actually screwed 4-5 girls the same night, one after another, at my absolute prime. Didn’t even worry about pregnancy then, just knew it wouldn’t happen, because girls at those age ranges, especially in college, absolutely don’t want to get pregnant, so they’ll time it themselves.

I think a vasectomy and most birth control methods are unnecessary and sheer male ego stroking. Trying to act like they’re out f~~~ing lots of women, when they’re not. Anybody that does it would have taken this little research I myself did. Actually I was a Biology major in undergrad, and I did learn a little bit about human sexuality from a biology perspective, but this stuff is so simple anyone can learn it.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

I had a vasectomy many years ago and I feel it was one of my best decisions in life.
These days it’s virtually a non-event, outpatient and basically painless procedure. You might be sore a few days afterwards (though in my case even that wasn’t an issue) and you have to have 15-25 ejaculations before all the residual sperm is out of your scrotum.
It doesn’t affect anything else and your sex drive stays the same, as do your hormonal functions. Your ejaculation fluid consists of a number of different ingredients and the sperm is just one of those ingredients. Alas, your ejaculation remains the same in terms of sensation and quantity.
Your body still produces sperm as usual but the 2 sperm tubes feeding into the final c~~~tail are severed.
My doctor put it the best. “The soldiers are still drafted, they get on the truck and the truck gets on the road. Down the line the bridge is blown up and the truck can’t reach it’s final destination”
So that’s it in a nutshell, the sperm gets assimilated back into your body.

I highly recommend this procedure.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Getting vasectomy was a great decision, and I have no regrets. Best investment of my life. Still get calls saying “I’m pregnant,” and for some reason, I frequently forget to inform I’m fixed until I receive the call. Would highly recommend and endorse this procedure with five stars *****!

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