Communication is the Foundation of Every Succesful Relationship….

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

It’s really no surprise to anyone on this site that men and women have completely different ideas, thoughts, and expectations from the opposite sex. It’s kind of like we’re talking completely different languages, but we’re using the same words that have very different definitions/meaning between men and women.

The whole process of “communication” is really more aptly described as “miscommunication”, and this is how we’re supposed to start and maintain a “successful” relationship.

As the “professionals’ say. “Communication is so important, blah, blah, puke, puke, “. Thank you Oprah again for more WRONG useless info.

The whole idea of “relationships” is just such a fruitless tiring process once you have been exposed/experienced the truth. It’s so much work, energy, effort, finances, time etc. to “entertain” a relationship so you may share some form of “happiness” that will quite often eventually lead to a disastrous outcome.

Overall, most men want the foundation to a relationship (IE: attractiveness, emotional attachment , etc.) , and most women want (IE: Finances, Utility, etc.) and these are COMPLETELY different “wants’ from BEFORE we ever meet our “intended”.

How can any man even think that a relationship between a man and women can be successful in the long term when you are both starting out with such very different wants, needs, and requirements; different “foundations” if you will ?

I will point out that these “differences” are NOT complementary, but as we have all come to learn and experience more aptly fitting the roles of the parasite and the host.

None of this is new, but for me, sometimes by connecting a few of the dots, or just reconnecting some of the dots, and by sharing my thoughts/insights completes a little bit more of the picture, or at least appears to make it a little clearer. To me, “Clarity” is crucial to truly understanding how to change my thinking and control my behavior.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 38]

The foundation of every successful relationship is the woman getting what she wants. The woman chooses. Briffault’s Law. That’s it, period.

If you’re fortunate enough to give her everything she wants then she MAY be happy with you and a compliment to your life. But that’s a big if in the current environment.

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Anonymous wrote:

If you’re fortunate enough to give her everything she wants then she MAY be happy with you and a compliment to your life.

Woman are never “happy” or even “content” with MOST things as well as people for very long.

This can be seen in many women’s never ending drive to CONSUME. They are ALWAYS looking for a new one of those or a different one of these or they want a different color of this, that, or the other thing.

Women are driven by the ifea that I will be happy “is” or “when” I get this new pair of shoes, or can take a trip to here, or maybe a different c~~~ is what she may need on any given day to make her fulfilled and happy. Your guess is as good as mine because it will inevitably change within a short period of time anyways.

Her “new” boyfriend that makes her so happy is just the “next” link in the chain, and their will be plenty more links/c~~~s after him as there was before him.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Confront a woman the next time she tells you that women are better “communicators.” Ask her for EVIDENCE of their communicative superiority.

They almost always come across with:
: “Well, studies show that on average women speak 10-12 thousand words a day, while men only average 3-4 thousand. So, obviously, women are better communicators.”

Then reply:

: “So by that logic, semi-trucks are better transportation than a ½ ton pick-up truck because it uses more fuel. Is that what you’re saying??”

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 38]

Awakened wrote:

MGTaoist wrote:

If you’re fortunate enough to give her everything she wants then she MAY be happy with you and a compliment to your life.

Woman are never “happy” or even “content” with MOST things as well as people for very long.
This can be seen in many women’s never ending drive to CONSUME. They are ALWAYS looking for a new one of those or a different one of these or they want a different color of this, that, or the other thing.
Women are driven by the ifea that I will be happy “is” or “when” I get this new pair of shoes, or can take a trip to here, or maybe a different c~~~ is what she may need on any given day to make her fulfilled and happy. Your guess is as good as mine because it will inevitably change within a short period of time anyways.
Her “new” boyfriend that makes her so happy is just the “next” link in the chain, and their will be plenty more links/c~~~s after him as there was before him.

I see a lot of relationships around me and many of the women at least APPEAR to be content. I do not think the rampant hypergamy/competitive nature of US women is quite so bad here in the UK as well as other countries. In the US it seems off the charts. But anyway that ‘contentment’ I observe will be due to her getting what she wants, more or less, and a sort of resignation more akin to a “he’ll do”.

On the resignation point.. I’ve seen a number of times the girl being an absolute c~~~ to the guy, s~~~ testing, going out lots, cheating etc, and him staying with her like a simp. And after doing this for a while she just kind of resigned to being with him. She tried her hand at branch swinging and failed, and her beta was still there waiting for her. Some of them even made themselves available to me. I found this disgusting. I always thought about my own response to this, how I always kicked them to the curb immediately when that used to start.

Thankfully no more.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relations~~~ with a woman.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Briffaults law. Is a law for a reason.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

The notion that “communication is the foundation of every successful relationship” is just more blue-pill programming.

The problem is not “miscommunication”, as if both parties are making an honest attempt, but the transmission is getting garbled and misunderstood.

No — the problem is female duplicity. Men are pretty up-front and consistent about what they want. Women are not.
Communication will never work when one party is being dishonest.

And we have many examples of that duplicity. Women want a wedding, not a marriage. Women want a beta to provide, and freedom to f~~~ alphas. Women want privileges, but won’t accept responsibility. Women are so strong and independent, but play victim whenever convenient.

“Women can always change their mind”. “Women are the caring sex”. “Communication is the foundation of every successful relationship”. These are some of the long list of bulls~~~ mantras designed to shape men’s behaviour for the benefit of women.

The problem, as we know, is that deep down women view men as a disposable utility. So their language hides that, to make men serve their wants. “Man up”. It’s deceptive, and no amount of honest communication on the part of men is going to change that fundamental female belief. That’s why a man has to go his own way.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Anonymous 3]

What both sexes understand as “communication” is totally different, so how can it ever work?

For men, communication is to translate a reality to words, so that the other can understand and both can work from that.

For women, communication is to mold the mind of the other, so that his understanding of reality is twisted to her objectives.

When the talking heads say that communication improves relationships its the same as placing the prey inside the lion’s mouth. Or saying that the mouse must make eye contact with the snake.
Its a gynocentric ploy to force men to be manipulated.

[Anonymous 3]

In fact, I have just found this great piece of wisdom:

Silence scares women, because silence is usually the truth. The reason women are so talkative is because they are anxious about the truth coming out. That is why if you ever want to put a bitch in her place, give her the silent treatment; she will go mad.

Women try to ‘cover’ or ‘camouflage’ the truth with language because language is more often than not misleading.
Ancient societies were very well aware of this, that is why even the mere presence of a woman would put men off.

[Daryll55Participant 2958]

Awakened wrote:

It’s really no surprise to anyone on this site that men and women have completely different ideas, thoughts, and expectations from the opposite sex. It’s kind of like we’re talking completely different languages, but we’re using the same words that have very different definitions/meaning between men and women.
The whole process of “communication” is really more aptly described as “miscommunication”, and this is how we’re supposed to start and maintain a “successful” relationship.
As the “professionals’ say. “Communication is so important, blah, blah, puke, puke, “. Thank you Oprah again for more WRONG useless info.
The whole idea of “relationships” is just such a fruitless tiring process once you have been exposed/experienced the truth. It’s so much work, energy, effort, finances, time etc. to “entertain” a relationship so you may share some form of “happiness” that will quite often eventually lead to a disastrous outcome.
Overall, most men want the foundation to a relationship (IE: attractiveness, emotional attachment , etc.) , and most women want (IE: Finances, Utility, etc.) and these are COMPLETELY different “wants’ from BEFORE we ever meet our “intended”.

Great post Bro!
How can a man and woman “communicate” whenthey both have different ideals toward what a true relationship is?? Women just give in and LIE until it is time to pull the plug on the relationship. AWALT it is just a matter of time.

The professionals just use communication as a buzz-word.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Daryll55Participant 2958]

Handsome Vic wrote:

The notion that “communication is the foundation of every successful relationship” is just more blue-pill programming.
The problem is not “miscommunication”, as if both parties are making an honest attempt, but the transmission is getting garbled and misunderstood.
No — the problem is female duplicity. Men are pretty up-front and consistent about what they want. Women are not.Communication will never work when one party is being dishonest.
And we have many examples of that duplicity. Women want a wedding, not a marriage. Women want a beta to provide, and freedom to f~~~ alphas. Women want privileges, but won’t accept responsibility. Women are so strong and independent, but play victim whenever convenient.
“Women can always change their mind”. “Women are the caring sex”. “Communication is the foundation of every successful relationship”. These are some of the long list of bulls~~~ mantras designed to shape men’s behaviour for the benefit of women.
The problem, as we know, is that deep down women view men as a disposable utility. So their language hides that, to make men serve their wants. “Man up”. It’s deceptive, and no amount of honest communication on the part of men is going to change that fundamental female belief. That’s why a man has to go his own way.

+1 to you and very well said.

You know; I know many blue-pill manginas that just throw up their hands and say “what can I do?” I tell them to leave the one-way relationship and start living a life free of the grief from trying to please her “flavor of the month.”
MAN OUT !

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22559]

Awakened wrote:

MGTaoist wrote:

If you’re fortunate enough to give her everything she wants then she MAY be happy with you and a compliment to your life.

Woman are never “happy” or even “content” with MOST things as well as people for very long.
This can be seen in many women’s never ending drive to CONSUME. They are ALWAYS looking for a new one of those or a different one of these or they want a different color of this, that, or the other thing.
Women are driven by the ifea that I will be happy “is” or “when” I get this new pair of shoes, or can take a trip to here, or maybe a different c~~~ is what she may need on any given day to make her fulfilled and happy. Your guess is as good as mine because it will inevitably change within a short period of time anyways.
Her “new” boyfriend that makes her so happy is just the “next” link in the chain, and their will be plenty more links/c~~~s after him as there was before him.

Happy is a peak event. From the women I know it lasts as short as a few seconds, to a few minutes.

Contentment is what one needs to aim for.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 17056]

They don’t communicate. Different priorities, a different language even. He thinks he is communicating, but that’s part of the Blue Pill delusion.

[BubParticipant 1411]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

They almost always come across with:
: “Well, studies show that on average women speak 10-12 thousand words a day, while men only average 3-4 thousand. So, obviously, women are better communicators.”

This confuses quantity for Quality.

I have to parse through 3 to 4 times more words to figure out what you saying than you do to understand what I’m saying.

Even though I try to make it easier for her to understand she still f~~~s it up….

Just rolling down the road

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

“Communication” by a liberal feminazi means that the blue pill simp has to sit there, listen to, agree with, and do whatever his master tells him. And he’s gotta agree that it’s his fault, he needs to work himself to death, and she’s entitled to all of his resources. If he says anything she doesn’t like, then he’s committed some horrible crime and further attacked. “Communication” sure as hell ain’t a two-way street for them! No thanks… this MGHOW ain’t playin’ that rigged s~~~ test.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Confront a woman the next time she tells you that women are better “communicators.” Ask her for EVIDENCE of their communicative superiority.
They almost always come across with:<i class=”fas fa-female”></i>: “Well, studies show that on average women speak 10-12 thousand words a day, while men only average 3-4 thousand. So, obviously, women are better communicators.”

These are the same women who think a “real man” should just know what his woman thinks. Women don’t communicate. They obfuscate.

[Anonymous 38]

Zoidberg wrote:

These are the same women who think a “real man” should just know what his woman thinks. Women don’t communicate. They obfuscate.

So true man.

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