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[KaidoParticipant 2395]

A friend of a friend’s wife hit on me and attempted a move today. I had to help them move, but found it odd it was only my friends wife there. I asked her where he was and she said she didnt know. I just got to work as I wanted to get it done and over with. When she seen me move some of the furniture by myself (I am a pretty big dude) she first started saying “Wow you are so strong” and I just gave a simple thanks and continued to move s~~~ to the truck (U haul) After an hour of working, I went to pick up a box spring, I felt somebody touch my ass (pinch) and when I went to look it was her and she was smiling. I gave her a weird look and ignored it. Finally after the box spring she got up close to me as if she was going kiss me or something (she made the body language very odd and confusing) I grabbed her by the hands, pushed her away lightly and told her it was wrong what she was doing and that she should stop what shes doing. She then told me she wouldn’t tell her husband. I laughed and told her that’s not the point. She gave me a confused look. I then said if you are doing this to your husband now and I give in, you will probably be doing this to me in a couple years. And I suffer for betraying my friends trust (and let him kick my ass for falling in) At first she tried to play innocent, but I nodded and told her its not going to happen. She tried to change things after telling me if I told her husband she would make up a story how I forced myself on her. I laughed and said theres no marks on you, you have no evidence hun. You lose this one. She didn’t know what to do. Seeing the look of failure and uncertainty on her face knowing I beat her advances (and with great ease because of my over all view on women) was a very satisfying long feeling. It felt better than an orgasm. Knowing I don’t fall into temptation (womans greatest weapon) is enough victory for me. This event here made it all the more sweeter.

Finally when I was alone with her husband, I told him to watch it with her, and that she was trying to advance on me behind his back. Because of my past with women he believed me and told me he knows I would never take advantage and called me a good man. I responded with I try. Id rather feel a life time of glory than 35 min of pleasure and guilt after it I told him. He said the same thing. When I asked him where he was he said he was at his parents place about an hour away from where I was moving his stuff. He had to borrow a vehicle from them.

After a couple months they got a divorce. I am not sure what happened to his wife, but now hes living the free life, still looking for a woman though, but I can see this new sense of freedom in him. And hes enjoying himself quite well. When a woman hits on me when she has a bf I just think to myself “If it happened to him, it will happen to you”

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Kaido wrote:

She first started saying “Wow you are so strong” and I just gave a simple thanks and continued to move s~~~ to the truck

Females are funny with compliments. “Wow you’re so strong!” … as long as YOU are doing the lifting. But donkeys will fly out of your ass before a woman says “Wow you’re so SMART!!”.

Kaido wrote:

I felt somebody touch my ass (pinch) and when I went to look it was her and she was smiling.

Women complain about unwanted sexual attention and call it “sexual harassment” because they are whores. Think about it. When a guy makes a pass at her, it upsets her because he’s angling to get some for free. I have had my ass grabbed plenty of times, and the reason it doesn’t really bother me, is because I’m not used to being paid for the privilege.

Men are not whores. We give it away.

Kaido wrote:

told her it was wrong what she was doing and that she should stop what shes doing. She then told me she wouldn’t tell her husband. I laughed and told her that’s not the point.

Good.

I also once met a good (+25 years) friend’s wife for a bite after work . When I dropped by to pick her up after work, she gets in the car and says “don’t tell him”. I immediately said “WTF? there’s nothing to hide here. This is not like a date.” This irritated her (I could tell) because she made a real effort to look fine and I stomped on her fantasy. In her mind, she was “cheating”… but in my mind, it was a burger. And when I said I would never lie to him, she realized she just f~~~ed herself into a corner, because she INTENDED it to be a “date”.

Kaido wrote:

After a couple months they got a divorce.

He also once emailed me and asked me to show him how to change all his passwords because his wife was snooping through all his emails. I thought, well if that’s a “marriage”, I want no part of s~~~ like that.

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You handled it well being totally open and upfront with your friend.
Best thing to do, because you can’t ever get nailed for it. ALWAYS BUST HER.

People often think when a wife / girlfriend f~~~s around, it’s the other GUY who is the asshole. BUT NO. SHE IS. Sex with another man’s wife would never happen unless SHE wants it to. So when you actually act on it, the common thing is for them to go after / hate / punish / get violent & blame HIM for it…. when SHE MADE it happen. Every f~~~ing time.

The general mentality and first reaction is to go after “the other guy” because they know women don’t have a moral compass. They don’t immediately give HER s~~~ (when they should) because they believe a man should know better, and already know women don’t.

Getting a wife to cheat on her husband is not like getting her to go to the gym.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Good move, dude. Not only have you shut her down once her pussy didn’t work, but you also had another man’s back. One of my buddies did this for me when a girlfriend and I broke up. He told me she showed him her t~~~ and tried to make out. He told me, even though we weren’t together. Still a good dude.

Also, it’s good to bring a woman down a few pegs when they think their pussy will solve everything.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 18]

Women growing up in this day and age are more than ok with false allegations just to ruin a good man’s life. She wanted Peg-D but settled with a No and that divorce. Gotta sting, but I am guessing she got that Peg-D from someone else. Just not her husband.

Good decision on your part man. Much respect but giving a woman some rejection with a healthy dose of shame.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheaters rarely change their habits, and lower others to their level.
Kudos for being an honourable man (human being) and walking away from, and exposing that crap.
I would rather have a single friend that has the courage and honour to tell me the truth even if it causes some minor pain. Because that friend will always have your back.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Keymaster wrote:

I also once met a good (+25 years) friend’s wife for a bite after work . When I dropped by to pick her up after work, she gets in the car and says “don’t tell him”. I immediately said “WTF? there’s nothing to hide here. This is not like a date.”

Sorry KM but, while I agree with the rest of your post, a dinner date is still a date. You made the same mistake that naive women make when they claim going to dinner with another man is so innocent. In this case it seems you were the one who put yourself in an incriminating situation. If I were married I would not tolerate my wife having dates with another man, even if they’re just called “getting a bite”, nor would I date a friends wife.
Your intentions may have been innocent but by her remark it shows that you were giving the impression you were playing into her hands.

[Anonymous 24]

You are a good man Kaido, a wise one too.

[narwhalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Women complain about unwanted sexual attention and call it “sexual harassment” because they are whores. Think about it. When a guy makes a pass at her, it upsets her because he’s angling to get some for free. I have had my ass grabbed plenty of times, and the reason it doesn’t really bother me, is because I’m not used to being paid for the privilege.

I think women completely lack a sense of perspective. They assume that whatever they are thinking, whatever they see, the other person will see it exactly the same way, and know what they are thinking. So if you give them attention when they didn’t want it, they assume you KNOW they didn’t want your attention. There is no room for the possibility that you thought they did want attention. Likewise, when they grab your ass, they can’t fathom the possibility that you didn’t want them too.

I’m not saying that women don’t have a whoring nature, just that I don’t think whoring is always the reason for the disconnect.

Keymaster wrote:

I also once met a good (+25 years) friend’s wife for a bite after work . When I dropped by to pick her up after work, she gets in the car and says “don’t tell him”. I immediately said “WTF? there’s nothing to hide here. This is not like a date.” This irritated her (I could tell) because she made a real effort to look fine and I stomped on her fantasy. In her mind, she was “cheating”… but in my mind, it was a burger. And when I said I would never lie to him, she realized she just f~~~ed herself into a corner, because she INTENDED it to be a “date”.

Yep, the idea that you may not have the same perspective on what was happening never even occurred to her. I’ve had similar situations happen with both married and single women. They assumed that having a meal with a friend was a date because that’s what they wanted it to be.

Keymaster wrote:

People often think when a wife / girlfriend f~~~s around, it’s the other GUY who is the asshole. BUT NO. SHE IS. Sex with another man’s wife would never happen unless SHE wants it to. So when you actually act on it, the common thing is for them to go after / hate / punish / get violent & blame HIM for it…. when SHE MADE it happen. Every f~~~ing time.

She most definitely is as she always knows what’s going on. However, he may not be at fault as he may not know she’s married, may have been told lies on the husband, that the marriage is essentially over, they have an open marriage, etc. Probably not the case, but it is a possibility.

Keymaster wrote:

The general mentality and first reaction is to go after “the other guy” because they know women don’t have a moral compass. They don’t immediately give HER s~~~ (when they should) because they believe a man should know better, and already know women don’t.

I don’t think that’s the reason exactly. I think it has to more to do with conflict avoidance, and avoiding the fallout from putting blame where it belongs. For example, a mother will avoid disciplining her child because it’s not fun for a mother. However, if a stranger points out that her children are not well behaved, she will unleash hell on the stranger even though she knows he is right. There is no negative consequences to her.

Same goes on dealing with a cheating wife. If you correctly put the blame on the wife, you have to deal with the fallout of a f~~~ed up home and probable divorce. If you can blame the other guy, even it’s a friend, the consequence to yourself is much reduced…even if it’s not really his fault.

I think it goes beyond having to have an association to the real problem. Even seen a woman have a bad day at work, or dealing with the kids and do nothing about it, then go ballistic on the husband for leaving the toilet seat up? It’s because dealing with work or the kids is going to have negative consequences on her. She could lose her job or face alienation from her kids. The husband with absorb all that s~~~ and be available for more s~~~ the next day.

Ok. Then do it.

[ExpendableYouthParticipant 381]

What the hell! Man…..what the hell is wrong with people.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Ashley Madison, the online service for cheaters looking for affairs which brings you those annoying pop-ups online, has now started doing TV commercials. I just saw their ad on one of the History channels, one of the few networks I used to have respect for. Disgusting.
A while back someone did a public service by hacking into their site and publicly releasing the names of their cheating members. Looks like it’s time for someone to take them down again.

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