Chad was another married woman…lol…

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

My marriage ended a few years ago. Chad was one of her ‘besties’
Short version ? ; Long version ? ; No version ?

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Intro boss.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Sounds like a finger licking good story.
Now you have to.. Intro

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Long version. It could save another man’s life.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 0]

Hey Bob
There’s some guys here who are familiar with their wives dumping them for another woman.
What’s your story???

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Medium version will be fine. (I say medium, because Tuna’s write long versions, hoping to overwhelm you with details. Things like what they were eating at the time, “He said, and then she said, and then I said…”)

I look forward to reading it Bob, it sounds a little like something I went through. TWICE! lol

Just tuck it in your intro.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

ok, medium-long version it is then.
Will write it up and post later today / tonight.

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

There’s some guys here who are familiar with their wives dumping them for another woman.

True that. Not a first for this forum.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Oh s~~~, I misread that. I didn’t know it mean another woman. My bad.

never had that. It was always sorry ass orbiters who pretended to be friends.

[Anonymous 43]

I thought my c~~~ was going to hook up with one of her walk the marathon buddies. nope, I was wrong.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

‘Friends’ with my 2nd ex for 25 years before we ever touched in any romantic way. She knew my 1st ex and the women of 3 ltrs (2ys + each) that occurred after my 1st divorce. After i ran off the 3rd ‘crazy’, she suggested i give her ‘a chance’… She was clean, low-mileage, a hottie, and i knew her CarFax report. She easily adjusted to her new lifestyle level and for a few years appeared very content and appreciative. Sex was always available (during the entire marriage). We eventually moved to have some acreage. She was ‘all-in’ because she could have a horse.
New friends: 3 local hotties ‘let’ ex join their ‘shoppingdrinking group’. I was commuting 3 days/week. One of the hotties had de-nutted her hubby, and wanted everyone to know it…..this c~~~ publicly told hubby that there would be no sex for a year unless he dressed in full drag for Haloween….and he did it (nails, silicone t~~~/bra, panties, dress, makeup). It actually turned my stomach and made me dizzy. Of course c~~~ dressed up like an old-west sheriff….complete with mustache.
Told my ex that c~~~ was bad news..and she just laughed and said “it’s all in good fun” (WTF?). Hubby also commutes to the city 5 days/week.
It all hit me like a ton of bricks. Thinking back, ex had once mentioned relaxing in the hot tub with c~~~….then her eyes ‘flashed’ and she changed the subject. Once, there were some panties that i didn’t recognize mixed up in the sheets on MY side of the bed. Ex had some sex toys and she always insisted that i be the one to purchase them for her. I found several new toys in the drawer.
Anyway, during one of our discussions about her credit card balances, i calmly asked her about her ‘relationship’ with c~~~…..deer in the headlights….she wouldn’t admit it, but she didn’t deny it.
In my book, honesty and loyalty are must-haves…..
It was time for ex to go !
Because we lived in a very small town, i told her she should move to another city/town…the farther away, the better.
C~~~ offered to move ex into their guest house (c~~~’s hubby said it was ok….like he would say “no”….LOL…) Perfect for c~~~. C~~~ and money in the main house and pussy a short walk away. I’ll guarantee c~~~ wasn’t planning any three-somes with hubby involved….lol…
Anyway, ex moved to a very open minded city about 3 months after the divorce was final, but she lived with me and we f**ked like old times right up to the day the moving van came 🙂 Maybe ex was f**king c~~~ too…who cares ?
I don’t return her calls, e-mails or texts….everything’s been said.

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[Anonymous 12]

Deer in headlights… LOL busted!
Good one!
i woulda tried to get a 3some in before splitting, but thats just me.

well done, Sir for keeping your shirt clean.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

lol..a threesome with ex and c~~~ ?
C~~~ is a ruthless ball buster that i had zero use for, long before discovering the special relationship. Sex with ex was grudge f**king for me, but i think it was probably “please don’t make me leave” from the ‘ex point of view’….it was her idea to stay on after the divorce was final.
Tried to keep the post as short as possible. There was more about the new toys, about my other encounters with c~~~, about a planned ‘girls trip’ to Vegas, my strategy to make ex leave town, my divorce financial planning before we ever walked down the isle (without using a pre-nup), about ex trying to re-write history after discovery..complete with tears.
Yes Timmy, there is a Santa Claus and NAWALT….lol…lol…lol…

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Excellent write up.

You found a very opportunistic bisexual. Most only go one way for a time and then switch it up at the conclusion of a relations~~~.

It sounds like you did good detective work AND most importantly stuck to your guns once it was over.

It’s said here that nawalt + marriage is the formula for awalt. You knew her for decades. Young guys pay attention, she kept up the act for some of your lifetimes.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

Time machine:
One thing i later wished i had done before ‘outing’ the ladies.
I would have secretly installed a s**tload of motion activated spy cameras in the den, bedroom and hottub area. Then, hold off the ‘outing’ until after i had some footage. Handing ex a thumbdrive containing a copy of anything ‘juicy’ right before she drove away would have been really, really sweet.

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Dont worry they’ll be beating each other up in no time.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MACHOParticipant]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Intro boss.

Bob Dylan has a very good intro in his profile brother.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

Ex moved to a very open minded city, and i have no idea what lifestyle she has chosen.

C~~~ still lives here with her cucked hubby $$$ provider. C~~~ avoids me like the plague…c~~~ knows that, in this small town, i only need to whisper in a few well chosen ears and she will be in the local 24 hour news cycle for a long, long time. Hubby is a 3rd generation resident here, so there’s all sorts of possible outcomes for her/them, with none being desirable (imho)

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[Bob DylanParticipant 1351]

Alfred Hitchc~~~ had a keen sense when it came to creating terror as a ‘long game’. It somehow pleases me that c~~~ knows, on a whim, i could and MIGHT spin her cozy little world out of her control…LOL…

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

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